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Anonymous wrote:I sell my worn pantyhose, one of my customers regularly gives briefings in the oval office.


How does that work and how much do you make?


I have a popular Instagram account, it’s just my legs in sheers and high heels. My legs are the only body part I’m proud of, I got into it just for some cheap validation but then it kind of got out of hand. I post once or twice a week, mostly men ask to buy what I’m wearing in the posts. If they are polite and in the US I will wear them for a full day, wrap them up in a Ziploc bag and send them off via FedEx for $50.
Occasionally I’ll mas—bate in them and f they ask.
My best customer could destroy the northern hemisphere is 10 minutes and doesn’t have the sense to use a PO Box or an anonymous source of payment.


How did you get started in this and how much do you make? Any advice?

I really want to earn some extra cash through something like OF but don’t want my face out there. I’m also scared that even if I don’t put my face, someone could hack me and figure out who I am.


I started this in 18 and there weren’t that many women doing but now there are so many accounts that are kind of just like mine. Just look up #Tights, #Pantyhose ##HighHeels #NowOn #OfficeFetish #Tights #SheerTights and you’ll see what’s there. There are some amazing girls at it now so it’s not gonna be easy.


Dumb question but do you report this income and pay taxes on it? How do you manage that? Are you in a relationship? Do you hide it from everyone around you?
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Anonymous wrote:I'm 67, still working because I have to. I ha e no money saved and no retirement plan. I'm so worried about the future and worn out from my job. All I'll have is my SS benefits which I haven't taken so fara.d some equity in my house.

How does this happen? I made below minimum at times and still retired in mid 40s. When I got paid few bucks above minimum wage at 35+, I was on my way to financial freedom. I was very sensitive to the $5-$6 hourly increase. Didn't go shopping, but invested it. Kept my life as it was.
I know several places to live where $830 I would get at 62, would be quite enough. And 62 is young enough to work part time.
I have always wondered what people did with their money. I understand emergencies and health problems, but people are broke even without the two.


Not helpful and probably not true


If they saved like that, there is no way they did it living in a high cola like DC/suburbs.
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Anonymous wrote:Way back when the internet was just getting started I was in undergrad (comp sci) and loved making websites etc

And horny but I have never attracted to any female who was not a perfect 10. I’m ok looking but back then being a geeky need type I would never be able to pull a 10 so my brilliant self came up with a master plan

I signed up for modeling sites as an amateur photographer. I’d make contact with super super hot upcoming models. 9/10/ etc. I was young 20s and met up with girls 18-25

And needless to say 99% of these girls were desperate for money. Ofc back then I didn’t have money either so my master plan was to design a very exclusive and highly discreet escort website. I basically pimped out amazingly gorgeous models. I didn’t do it for money my deal was I always had to audition the girls before they could be added to my website. I basically spent 5yrs in my 20s have hot sex with the most gorgeous girls possible. A couple of them went on to become very well known models working in internationally.

I was always scared of stds and I always made them get recent std tests at the auditions. I ran it pretty professionally, always protected myself and my identity while knowing each and every thing I needed to know about my girls

The girls made a ton of money. Officially my cut was 25% but I almost never took the cash payment.. my payment was sex. A lot of it!

I never forced girls to do anything and I wasn’t like the abusive pimp stereotype because for me the motivation was not money. It was great sex with HOT HOT women and I would not get that if there was any negativity. Most of these girls became very friendly and close. It was more like FWB relationships.

After a while the agency got big enough that I couldn’t keep up. I hired a girl to manage. My manager basically got almost all the commission from girls who I did have time (or motivation) to collect my “payment” from. all I was interested in was auditioning new hot girls. And yes even I got tired of having sex with that super hot 10 after a while. I’d be more interested in trying out the new girl.

Never advertised on Craigslist or backpage or all that crap we were very high end. $1k+ an hour (back in the late 90s) and we had a very strict screening process. I never kept records but every now and then we would be contacted by seriously well known guys.

I’m glad I got out unscathed. Never any issues with law enforcement or being outted. Closed shop after about 5ys as my real career took off. I have a TS clearance and was worried it would all come out during investigation but nothing did. Now I’m in my 50s have kids and doing great in life. I did manage to pull a very hot solid 9.5 super sweet and smart girl to marry and have kids with. This secret goes to my grave with me.


You are an f'ing predator. I despise men like you. Despite how you try to sell it, you took advantage of young women and you are a loser and a creep.
Anonymous
For a few years I had a discrete FWB type of thing going with married GOP fundraiser. Her husband was a wretched drunk and she wasn’t much better. She was great fun though - we even brought other women into the fun, usually at hotels in Crystal City or out near Dulles. Not all that dissimilar from that Moms of Liberty lady down in FL, except she was married to someone else.

But damn she could drink…
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Anonymous wrote:As a child, I was bought a gerbil as a birthday present. I found it early and tried to hold it but it jumped out of my hands and the dog killed it. I stuffed it back in the cage, blood trickling out of its mouth, and never told my parents. They thought it was defective and returned it to the pet store.


A childhood bff had a gerbil that escaped, and she was kneeling down to grab it and accidentally kneeled on it, killing it. So sad!


Thank you for understanding!


If you feel any guilt or shame about what you did and hiding it from your parents, please forgive yourself and let it go if you can.

You were a child and what you did is, in my opinion, a completely normal response to a traumatic situation.

I was blamed by my mother for not feeding or giving water to my hamster and killing it. I was 6 or 7 at the time and I simply forgot. I felt tremendous guilt.

She should have done a better job supervising my care for my pet.

My secret is that I love my mother (she has many great qualities), but also hate and resent her immensely for being an emotionally immature parent.


This is called splitting.


Maybe not?

I think it’s common to have mixed or complicated feelings, especially towards family members — especially towards parents.

Different emotions can coexist.


That is what abusive people say, that you can have consistent hate and consistent love toward someone, and the recipient needs to accept that. No, that is torturous.


I think we found the emotionally immature person.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Im so ashamed of this I couldn’t even tell it to my therapist: I ended two close friendships partly out of envy.


Can you tell us more? What were you envious of?

And did they know/suspect? Or did you overcompensate and try to hide it?
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Anonymous wrote:Im so ashamed of this I couldn’t even tell it to my therapist: I ended two close friendships partly out of envy.


Can you tell us more? What were you envious of?

And did they know/suspect? Or did you overcompensate and try to hide it?


They reached milestones before me, and that upset me so much I couldn’t be around them. They had no idea why I stopped being friends. One of them I used an argument about politics to exit the friendship and the other I just phased her out. I wish I wasn’t like this.
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Anonymous wrote:Im so ashamed of this I couldn’t even tell it to my therapist: I ended two close friendships partly out of envy.


Can you tell us more? What were you envious of?

And did they know/suspect? Or did you overcompensate and try to hide it?


They reached milestones before me, and that upset me so much I couldn’t be around them. They had no idea why I stopped being friends. One of them I used an argument about politics to exit the friendship and the other I just phased her out. I wish I wasn’t like this.


I think this is way more common than you think. Most people don’t have the self awareness to admit (even to themselves) why they ended the friendships.
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Anonymous wrote:Way back when the internet was just getting started I was in undergrad (comp sci) and loved making websites etc

And horny but I have never attracted to any female who was not a perfect 10. I’m ok looking but back then being a geeky need type I would never be able to pull a 10 so my brilliant self came up with a master plan

I signed up for modeling sites as an amateur photographer. I’d make contact with super super hot upcoming models. 9/10/ etc. I was young 20s and met up with girls 18-25

And needless to say 99% of these girls were desperate for money. Ofc back then I didn’t have money either so my master plan was to design a very exclusive and highly discreet escort website. I basically pimped out amazingly gorgeous models. I didn’t do it for money my deal was I always had to audition the girls before they could be added to my website. I basically spent 5yrs in my 20s have hot sex with the most gorgeous girls possible. A couple of them went on to become very well known models working in internationally.

I was always scared of stds and I always made them get recent std tests at the auditions. I ran it pretty professionally, always protected myself and my identity while knowing each and every thing I needed to know about my girls

The girls made a ton of money. Officially my cut was 25% but I almost never took the cash payment.. my payment was sex. A lot of it!

I never forced girls to do anything and I wasn’t like the abusive pimp stereotype because for me the motivation was not money. It was great sex with HOT HOT women and I would not get that if there was any negativity. Most of these girls became very friendly and close. It was more like FWB relationships.

After a while the agency got big enough that I couldn’t keep up. I hired a girl to manage. My manager basically got almost all the commission from girls who I did have time (or motivation) to collect my “payment” from. all I was interested in was auditioning new hot girls. And yes even I got tired of having sex with that super hot 10 after a while. I’d be more interested in trying out the new girl.

Never advertised on Craigslist or backpage or all that crap we were very high end. $1k+ an hour (back in the late 90s) and we had a very strict screening process. I never kept records but every now and then we would be contacted by seriously well known guys.

I’m glad I got out unscathed. Never any issues with law enforcement or being outted. Closed shop after about 5ys as my real career took off. I have a TS clearance and was worried it would all come out during investigation but nothing did. Now I’m in my 50s have kids and doing great in life. I did manage to pull a very hot solid 9.5 super sweet and smart girl to marry and have kids with. This secret goes to my grave with me.


You are an f'ing predator. I despise men like you. Despite how you try to sell it, you took advantage of young women and you are a loser and a creep.

I don’t agree at all with what the pp did. What he did was wrong. However the women were not blameless. Both he and the women were equal opportunity offenders.
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Anonymous
While in college I did a threesome with two guys. I wasn’t drunk or anything I was just in my wild phase. Once was enough for me as it was far from enjoyable.
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Anonymous wrote:I am on a home program of exercises for PFT for urinary leaks. I am supposed to be including use of vaginal weights. I moved up to level 4 and seem to be doing worse with it each day. Discouraged, I sloughed off on that and Kegels for 3 days.
This morning I had a fairly full bladder but went out to move the hose watering the back yard started leaking badly, couldn't stop, ended up just squatting and emptying my bladder on the walkway.


Get the mini sling and get on HRT.

The US is shit for postpartum/menopause care. Women in other countries don’t have this issue.


slings are a bad idea

HRT and PT are the way to go.
Anonymous
Nobody I know would ever believe this, but I have an obsession with someone I briefly dated over 30 years ago. Never fell for someone so fast, and by all appearances, vice versa. But the classic right person wrong time scenario. Was processing a breakup, moving within two years, other stuff going on.

The other person was really disappointed and hurt when I said we couldn't keep going, never heard from them again. Do know they married and had children. And really happy for them - they deserved to find a loving person and happiness.

Have no idea if that person thinks about me once in a blue moon, or I was just a quick, long forgotten fling. Nit I do know that even today, they had an impact on me.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:While in college I did a threesome with two guys. I wasn’t drunk or anything I was just in my wild phase. Once was enough for me as it was far from enjoyable.


How does that even come about? Particularly without a lot of drinking.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:While in college I did a threesome with two guys. I wasn’t drunk or anything I was just in my wild phase. Once was enough for me as it was far from enjoyable.


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