Tell us your deepest secret

[Anonymous]

If I told you it wouldn’t be a secret anymore.

[Anonymous]

1. I don't understand anything I do at work. I've had the same job for 28 years, and wonder if the other people who do this understand it but can't figure out a way to ask them without giving away that I don't.

2. Also, if I get too sick or whatever to work before I die, I will be homeless in about 6-8 years after stopping work. If this happens, I will end my life.

3. Speaking of 2, I fully believe in suicide. If someone doesn't want to live, they shouldn't have to. Not all problems are temporary, and I don't think someone should live miserably so other people won't be sad (never mind that not everyone has people who would be sad if they were dead).

My only exception to thinking this is parents - they should live miserably until their kids are at least 24-25, then they can end it. I've known a few people whose parents killed themselves when they (the people I have known) were children, and it really messed them all up deeply.

I've had this stance since I was about 12, and have never wavered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I told you it wouldn’t be a secret anymore.

You and me both. Shhhh

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ok sure this is anonymous right? I realized in my early 50s that I am bisexual. Female, now 60. It's just so wild. I wonder if other people in my life might suspect.

Uh. You know this happens to every woman, right?

No it doesn’t. You are bi.

NP. I’d wager the majority of us.

NP. I'm in my 60s. Still not attracted to women.

[Anonymous]

Nothing crazy, but I have a huge crush on my boss. I tried to give him a ride once after work. Pulled a u-turn and stopped right next to him 12 am telling him GT wasn't safe at this time. He said my car was too small. I told him that my boss, the jerk, doesn't pay me enough to get a bigger car.
A week later I told him that it was a good call the he declined. I've been hinting...
I think he knows. I gave my notice yet again. I have left him about 10 times and he hires me back every time.
I wouldn't want to date him. Just one night. Few hours? Five minutes? He is so hot to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nothing crazy, but I have a huge crush on my boss. I tried to give him a ride once after work. Pulled a u-turn and stopped right next to him 12 am telling him GT wasn't safe at this time. He said my car was too small. I told him that my boss, the jerk, doesn't pay me enough to get a bigger car.
A week later I told him that it was a good call the he declined. I've been hinting...
I think he knows. I gave my notice yet again. I have left him about 10 times and he hires me back every time.
I wouldn't want to date him. Just one night. Few hours? Five minutes? He is so hot to me.

Stop harassing the poor man. He's not into you.

[Anonymous]

My body count is 250+. All pro.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. I don't understand anything I do at work. I've had the same job for 28 years, and wonder if the other people who do this understand it but can't figure out a way to ask them without giving away that I don't.

2. Also, if I get too sick or whatever to work before I die, I will be homeless in about 6-8 years after stopping work. If this happens, I will end my life.

3. Speaking of 2, I fully believe in suicide. If someone doesn't want to live, they shouldn't have to. Not all problems are temporary, and I don't think someone should live miserably so other people won't be sad (never mind that not everyone has people who would be sad if they were dead).

My only exception to thinking this is parents - they should live miserably until their kids are at least 24-25, then they can end it. I've known a few people whose parents killed themselves when they (the people I have known) were children, and it really messed them all up deeply.

I've had this stance since I was about 12, and have never wavered.

Your 1 made me laugh. I feel the same and I am a manager which makes it worse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hit my autistic/ADHD child when he was little. It wasn’t a spanking as a prescribed punishment. I just lost my sh!t. He’s in his late teens now, and I’ve apologized multiple times. I still feel so ashamed any time he brings it up. DH and the other kids pretend it never even happened.

I lost my temper at my adhd son too in a way that also ashames me (he might also be on the spectrum). We brought in a behavior specialist to help us cope with his triggering behaviors. You’re not alone - these are very challenging kids who make life very stressful despite their good qualities. It doesn’t make our reactions okay, but it’s okay to need extra help coping with special needs.

[Anonymous]

A very high profile man hit on me (think Musk level, dinners with presidents etc., but not Musk) . We had almost a year long secret affair. He was saying same s..t that Musk was saying to women: that he wanted to fertilize me, loved me etc.

He wanted me to join a triad with him and his other woman. He traveled a lot, so women would need to be bisexual and sleep with each other when he’s on trips. No men was allowed to date his chicks. He also had a male friend ( another well known figure) and suggested that if I want another man when he’s absent, that friend could f..k me and they both would f..k me sometimes in BDSM style. Eg I’m a slave on chains etc.

What’s the worst, I really liked the dude, he was hot. He flew to my city and we f….d in hotels. But I eventually backed off when he suggested that I meet his other woman and try to sleep with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. I don't understand anything I do at work. I've had the same job for 28 years, and wonder if the other people who do this understand it but can't figure out a way to ask them without giving away that I don't.

2. Also, if I get too sick or whatever to work before I die, I will be homeless in about 6-8 years after stopping work. If this happens, I will end my life.

3. Speaking of 2, I fully believe in suicide. If someone doesn't want to live, they shouldn't have to. Not all problems are temporary, and I don't think someone should live miserably so other people won't be sad (never mind that not everyone has people who would be sad if they were dead).

My only exception to thinking this is parents - they should live miserably until their kids are at least 24-25, then they can end it. I've known a few people whose parents killed themselves when they (the people I have known) were children, and it really messed them all up deeply.

I've had this stance since I was about 12, and have never wavered.

Your 1 made me laugh. I feel the same and I am a manager which makes it worse.

Same. I am George Costanza with the Penske file.

[Anonymous]

Never

[Anonymous]

I need to declutter my home but I am undergoing chemo. I am as worried about the declutter as my health and treatment. Most days I am completely lacking in energy and unable to get out of bed, The moment I have some energy, I am back for another infusion. Oh Lord!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My body count is 250+. All pro.

What does that mean? You are a hooker?

[Anonymous]

I am a single woman who has been already married. I raised my child on my own. They just turned 21 today. I am single and am in an open relationship — the wife knows about me — with a much younger man. He is a great human being, and a hot firefighter. We are all in the secret together.