How do you handle inconsequent/irresponsible guests? (long)

[Anonymous]

Well whether this is fake or not some people do not know their limits when coming in someones house. If you do not want something to happen to your child then you say NO. If you do not want a a visitor to spend the night just say NO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well whether this is fake or not some people do not know their limits when coming in someones house. If you do not want something to happen to your child then you say NO. If you do not want a a visitor to spend the night just say NO.

Ditto. Grow some backbone, OP. This is especially important now that you are a mother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look, I hate to say it OP, but your post does sound fake. All the other shit aside, what kind of person wakes up a new mom at 6 in the morning? You went a little over the top there, unless, could it be..... stolen bouquet bride? How the hell did you manage to get knocked up in the first place?

Desparation on the part of the SO, obviously.

[Anonymous]

I'm calling bullshit on this post. If a person refers to their child as "it", then I question the validity of the post.

[Anonymous]

So which is it, DH is gone on a 15 day trip or did he in fact come home from work and you discussed it? You just contradicted yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is the OP again. I was sitting for dinner with a friend today (who is also a participant here) and she's one of you saying this post is a fake. When I told her this was me and who the guest in discussion is she could picture the whole train wreck happening right before her eyes.
My friend has met this couple and this woman was trouble in my life before that's why if you knew me this would make sense.
This great friend pointed out that TTC drugs can contribute to various changes in mood and behavior thus explaining this woman's weird behavior.
I don't owe you ladies anything and that's one of the reasons why I'm here. I would never do anything to hurt DH's relationship with his friend that's why I thought sucking it up would be the right thing to do. Today as he came back from work we talked and told me his friend called to apologize for his wife's behavior. They also asked if the baby was doing fine and begged us to let them know if the baby gets sick (like it would help in any way... whatever).
I knew exactly what was coming when I posted this and I just wanted to know what was the right thing to do and you taught me exactly what I needed to learn (one way or the other, being nice or being nasty). I'm wise enough to get the message ignoring the messenger (not sure if this expression makes sense in English).
Thank you very much for your insight. Next time such thing happens I'll be ready to go.

How does your friend know the SO of your DH's college buddy? It doesn't add up OP, it just doesn't add up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm the OP. English is not my first language and I don't know why this is an issue here. You get what I mean anyway so why nitpick on my grammar or spelling?
Anyway, I'm a FTM and I've read so many times that FTMs are overprotective and that germs are good and blah blah blah I didn't want to be the germophobe mom who doesn't allow people to touch the baby and stuff so I thought the right thing to do was just to suck it up. WWYD?
I BF and we supplement so that's why the baby gets a bottle once in a while. Will you also flame me for feeding the baby formula?
Why am I crazy or delusional? I bet you all would call me cuckoo if I was the mother who doesn't allow anybody to touch her baby...

For a good thirty seconds I took FTM as "female to male" and my eyes were just like this

I guess first time mom makes a lot more sense!

[Anonymous]

17:02 we entertain a lot and my friends are often invited to my house as are DH's friends. They've met several times at my house throughout the years.

16:27 my husband calls me every day as he walks from office to the hotel. It's a long walk and we're in different time zones so we have time to talk about how his and our day was.


Anyways, I don't owe you anonymous ladies any explanation about my personal life. I got what I needed. Next time I'll be the bitchy FTM that won't allow ppl touch her baby. It's totally not worth the pain I'm going through right now. Between making some guests happy and having a healthy baby I'll stick to the second.

[Anonymous]

22:10, chill out.

[Anonymous]

Was the inconsequent guest the same lady that stole your bouquet?

[Anonymous]

FBFN,

Please, please. Start a blog. I will read it every day. Because you are clearly just making this crazy shit up! Honestly, you could be a screen writer. Forget everything negative I ever said about you. I'm a fan.

Is English really your second, third, fourth language or are you actually just a bored American housewife, idle worker, (or teenager) sitting a laptop somewhere cracking yourself up, Borat style?

I don't care. Just start a blog where you basically chronical your life (and past lives, as a health care provider, social worker, police officer, justice of the peace, and superhero) and times in this country, America, which is "worse than a third-world country."

Update me when you have an address. Thanks in advance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:FBFN,

Please, please. Start a blog. I will read it every day. Because you are clearly just making this crazy shit up! Honestly, you could be a screen writer. Forget everything negative I ever said about you. I'm a fan.

Is English really your second, third, fourth language or are you actually just a bored American housewife, idle worker, (or teenager) sitting a laptop somewhere cracking yourself up, Borat style?

I don't care. Just start a blog where you basically chronical your life (and past lives, as a health care provider, social worker, police officer, justice of the peace, and superhero) and times in this country, America, which is "worse than a third-world country."

Update me when you have an address. Thanks in advance.

I've seen you talking about this nanny so many times before. What kind of obsession is this? You should look into some professional help, honestly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:FBFN,

Please, please. Start a blog. I will read it every day. Because you are clearly just making this crazy shit up! Honestly, you could be a screen writer. Forget everything negative I ever said about you. I'm a fan.

Is English really your second, third, fourth language or are you actually just a bored American housewife, idle worker, (or teenager) sitting a laptop somewhere cracking yourself up, Borat style?

I don't care. Just start a blog where you basically chronical your life (and past lives, as a health care provider, social worker, police officer, justice of the peace, and superhero) and times in this country, America, which is "worse than a third-world country."

Update me when you have an address. Thanks in advance.

I've seen you talking about this nanny so many times before. What kind of obsession is this? You should look into some professional help, honestly.

c'mon, nanny. that's not nice. I said I was a fan!

[Anonymous]

you women are vile! no wonder why half of you are divorced, bitter and envious of your happy neighbors and friends.

[Anonymous]

I agree, why is everyone ganging up on op? The original post is definitely a little off (particularly not using a pronoun for most of the references to her child), but she doesn't sound mean at all. She just asked for advice.