How to minimize the effects of divorce on a child ?

[Anonymous]

OP, if not trolling, you should post in special concerns forum that ex and his new wife seem to be prepping for a custody battle.

Also put your jurisdiction in case people can suggest good lawyers.

Some judges will favor a 2 parent home. It is not a given that the status quo will hold.

Not sure if you are in denial or if this is not real.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, if not trolling, you should post in special concerns forum that ex and his new wife seem to be prepping for a custody battle.

Also put your jurisdiction in case people can suggest good lawyers.

Some judges will favor a 2 parent home. It is not a given that the status quo will hold.

Not sure if you are in denial or if this is not real.

op here gona meet with s lawyer the crappy part is that he needs both parents I Don't want to turn him against is dad .

[Anonymous]

Don't get divorced.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, if not trolling, you should post in special concerns forum that ex and his new wife seem to be prepping for a custody battle.

Also put your jurisdiction in case people can suggest good lawyers.

Some judges will favor a 2 parent home. It is not a given that the status quo will hold.

Not sure if you are in denial or if this is not real.

op here gona meet with s lawyer the crappy part is that he needs both parents I Don't want to turn him against is dad .

He does not feel the same way about you but do keep saying that. Regardless of what you do, say or believe, they may make a claim of parental alienation. The goal may be primary custody with you paying cs.

Are their families from here? Or may they be planning a move?

Based on their actions and “secrets” they are clearly planning something so you need to be strategic to try to block changes to the 50/50. A lot can depend on the judge.