Woman I was dating ended this because of a picture

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You’re 35, supposedly in a serious relationship with someone, yet a photo was posted of you drunk with your arm around another woman at a bar.

What’s the question? Did you grovel and beg for her back? Are you even telling the truth?

She was/is a friend. How is that an issue?

Keep at it OP, keep at it. It’s a great look.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can only suppose she has a history of being cheated on, or she's insecure. I know some people are physically affectionate with others (of either sex) and that it just signifies friendship or camaraderie, not sexual or romantic interest.

But lesson learned, OP. Don't put your arm around random women when you're not assured of your date.

There’s more to the story. I simplified it for DCUM. So, a woman who is friends with us and my ex, saw me at the bar with the woman. She took the pictures of me and the MOH at the bar, posted it online, and sent the pictures to my ex and said she was going to “expose me”. So, I had to reach out to my ex and explain what what was going on. As I mentioned, I wanted to get ahead of this and told the woman I was seeing. Again, there’s a still a little bit more to it but that’s the gist.

Give us the rest of the story, OP. You're sounding more and more guilty with every post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don’t people pose like that in group pictures all the time?

This is my question. If OP put his arm around her to pose for a group picture, the "gf" is overreacting. If OP had his arm around her at the bar while talking (which is what it sounds like in his description) and got caught in a picture in that position, he doesn't have reasonable boundaries and "gf" is right to leave before she has expectations of him.

Op here,

It was a candid picture.

She's right to move on.

[Anonymous]

There’s more to the story. I simplified it for DCUM. So, a woman who is friends with us and my ex, saw me at the bar with the woman. She took the pictures of me and the MOH at the bar, posted it online, and sent the pictures to my ex and said she was going to “expose me”. So, I had to reach out to my ex and explain what what was going on. As I mentioned, I wanted to get ahead of this and told the woman I was seeing. Again, there’s a still a little bit more to it but that’s the gist.

Oh this is messy. Yeah, GF is done OP. For good reason. Clean up your side of the street before introducing the next “one” to the family.

[Anonymous]

OP is at fault as he's the man and he allowed himself to get in that situation.

His now-ex GF will remain single since she seems to be ready to walk away at the slightest issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is at fault as he's the man and he allowed himself to get in that situation.

His now-ex GF will remain single since she seems to be ready to walk away at the slightest issue.

Stop being so dramatic. He tells her she’s the one, she goes away for the weekend, he has his arms around another woman, meanwhile another woman wants to expose him, and he’s in communication with his ex? This are not green flags for a new relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is at fault as he's the man and he allowed himself to get in that situation.

His now-ex GF will remain single since she seems to be ready to walk away at the slightest issue.

And?

[Anonymous]

Troll city

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Was it a posed or candid shot?

The way you describe it sounds like it was a candid shot and you were in the background with your arm around another woman. I don’t know what positions you were in but there is an intimacy to being that physically close.

[Anonymous]

Keep your hands to yourself.

[Anonymous]

Seems like the hand was there too long. You do come across as creepy. Nobody thinks you have anything to do with that woman, so no need to explain that part.

[Anonymous]

She doesn’t want to date a guy who’s flirty with other women. Thats her right, not much you can do about it other than move on.

[Anonymous]

You are dumb. Why did you tell her? YOU gave it too much importance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can only suppose she has a history of being cheated on, or she's insecure. I know some people are physically affectionate with others (of either sex) and that it just signifies friendship or camaraderie, not sexual or romantic interest.

But lesson learned, OP. Don't put your arm around random women when you're not assured of your date.

There’s more to the story. I simplified it for DCUM.

So, a woman who is friends with us and my ex, saw me at the bar with the woman. She took the pictures of me and the MOH at the bar, posted it online, and sent the pictures to my ex and said she was going to “expose me”.

So, I had to reach out to my ex and explain what what was going on. As I mentioned, I wanted to get ahead of this and told the woman I was seeing. Again, there’s a still a little bit more to it but that’s the gist.

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Great, it’s the Wait Look There’s More Troll.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Posed shot, fine. Candid shot, not fine.

It was candid.

Well, there you go. She ended it because she's not up for a future of having to believe your lame explanation every time you get caught getting handsy with someone else. I don't blame her.