What if you just want sex?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Apps work. 47f here. You can find one there. No idea how to go about this in real life at this stage.

I am in the same boat. 50f here. Care to share which app(s)

Bumble. I have met nice men and I have also met jerks. You have to make sure they are not married. Many are. Younger men have no issue with no strings sex with no expiration date. I have one I have been seeing almost two years. Much younger.

I have the opposite problem. I am divorced 48 been seeing a 34 years old for almost a year and now she wants something more serious. This is the second time it's happening to me. My younger self would def be down having just sex with a much older woman. But it seems that for us men we don't have have the same luck with younger women because eventually they want something more serious.

?? you’re surprised a 34 year old woman wants to settle down? smh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:50ish male here. Let’s meet up ladies!

where can we find you?

[Anonymous]

You are the dream woman for a lot of men. A woman who just want sex without an expiration date wow. That's amazing lol.

Are men really lining up to bang 50-year olds?

Yes, we are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can someone explain to be what FWB implies in terms of romantic gestures ? Do you meet just to f…k or they are kind of “lighter” romantic partners? Eg taking you to restaurants, concerts giving flowers? I would not mind something lighter without any plans to move in, talk/text too much every day or joint travels . But I do need him to be nice and loving and romantic, and enjoy time with him, in order for the sex component to work .

Otherwise it just feels mechanical

Can someone clarify this question ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can someone explain to be what FWB implies in terms of romantic gestures ? Do you meet just to f…k or they are kind of “lighter” romantic partners? Eg taking you to restaurants, concerts giving flowers? I would not mind something lighter without any plans to move in, talk/text too much every day or joint travels . But I do need him to be nice and loving and romantic, and enjoy time with him, in order for the sex component to work .

Otherwise it just feels mechanical

Can someone clarify this question ?

there are no rules. hopefully women who are 40+ feel entitled to the kind of sex they want - if it’s a ONS or FWB or a lightly romantic companionship with no heavy involvement. just make sure you’re enjoying yourself and safe! no bad s*x is the only rule.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Apps work. 47f here. You can find one there. No idea how to go about this in real life at this stage.

I am in the same boat. 50f here. Care to share which app(s)

Bumble. I have met nice men and I have also met jerks. You have to make sure they are not married. Many are. Younger men have no issue with no strings sex with no expiration date. I have one I have been seeing almost two years. Much younger.

I have the opposite problem. I am divorced 48 been seeing a 34 years old for almost a year and now she wants something more serious. This is the second time it's happening to me. My younger self would def be down having just sex with a much older woman. But it seems that for us men we don't have have the same luck with younger women because eventually they want something more serious.

?? you’re surprised a 34 year old woman wants to settle down? smh.

Why wouldn't a 34 years old man want to settle down?!

[Anonymous]

No wonder the people 40+ are seeing the fastest rise in STDs

[Anonymous]

I have a former lover, older than me. Sex was amazing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:50ish male here. Let’s meet up ladies!

where can we find you?

Be sure Mr. "Let's Meet Up" above gets tested before you hook up. If he's offering his goods this freely, be assured, he's already giving them away plenty of other places too, so it's on you to be the adult and protect yourself. And don't take "I got tested, I'm fine" as an answer....Get it new, and get it on paper. Scoff if you want, but it's reality if you want sex without knowing the person beforehand.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Can someone explain to be what FWB implies in terms of romantic gestures ? Do you meet just to f…k or they are kind of “lighter” romantic partners? Eg taking you to restaurants, concerts giving flowers? I would not mind something lighter without any plans to move in, talk/text too much every day or joint travels . But I do need him to be nice and loving and romantic, and enjoy time with him, in order for the sex component to work .

Otherwise it just feels mechanical

Can someone clarify this question ?

there are no rules. hopefully women who are 40+ feel entitled to the kind of sex they want - if it’s a ONS or FWB or a lightly romantic companionship with no heavy involvement. just make sure you’re enjoying yourself and safe! no bad s*x is the only rule.

What's with the asterisk? You already used the word. Sex. Sex. Sex. Sex. Sex.

You can say "sex." It's OK. Really.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can someone explain to be what FWB implies in terms of romantic gestures ? Do you meet just to f…k or they are kind of “lighter” romantic partners? Eg taking you to restaurants, concerts giving flowers? I would not mind something lighter without any plans to move in, talk/text too much every day or joint travels . But I do need him to be nice and loving and romantic, and enjoy time with him, in order for the sex component to work .

Otherwise it just feels mechanical

I had one who lived in Chicago who came to DC for business. He'd stay with me for several days and we would go to dinner, museums,concerts, etc, and have tons of sex. We would talk on the phone regularly in between trips about mutual interests and hobbies. It was pretty perfect.

[Anonymous]

I've had a FWB for five years. We meet up once a week for dinner and benefits.

[Anonymous]

If a 50 yo woman is askng how to get laid on her terms, she's fat and ugly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can someone explain to be what FWB implies in terms of romantic gestures ? Do you meet just to f…k or they are kind of “lighter” romantic partners? Eg taking you to restaurants, concerts giving flowers? I would not mind something lighter without any plans to move in, talk/text too much every day or joint travels . But I do need him to be nice and loving and romantic, and enjoy time with him, in order for the sex component to work .

Otherwise it just feels mechanical

I had one who lived in Chicago who came to DC for business. He'd stay with me for several days and we would go to dinner, museums,concerts, etc, and have tons of sex. We would talk on the phone regularly in between trips about mutual interests and hobbies. It was pretty perfect.

That sounds like a long distance relationship - what was the difference with FWB label? You were both dating others ?

[Anonymous]

When i was a consultant and single I traveled all week and it was miserable in terms of trying to have a relationship. A guy in my firm was in the same boat and we'd hook up every two weeks or so for a day of fun and plenty of sex. It was great and it lasted for about two years until I took a regular job, met a great guy and started to have a real life. He attended our wedding and he's still a friend.