What if you just want sex?

[Anonymous]

Female, 49, great job, great kids, great friends, in great shape.... divorced and I cannot imagine ever wanting to become partnered up again. I am done, done, done. Maybe someday I will change my mind about that but right now that's how I feel. But sex is nice, and I don't want to give that up. Other than creepy apps, how does one go about finding friends with benefits? (Or even just good benefits, without the "friends" part?")

[Anonymous]

I found mine on an app. We’ve been fwb for over a year.

[Anonymous]

Apps work. 47f here. You can find one there. No idea how to go about this in real life at this stage.

[Anonymous]

You date a rich man who can afford a maid and takeout, and you don't let him pay for you, and you don't bother him between dates.
Or have affairs with any of the galf of married men on your block who have dead bedrooms.

Or hang out at a college / college bars / pickleball club

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You date a rich man who can afford a maid and takeout, and you don't let him pay for you, and you don't bother him between dates.
Or have affairs with any of the galf of married men on your block who have dead bedrooms.

Or hang out at a college / college bars / pickleball club

Lots of young & horny bucks at pickleballclub. You can also join a tennis club and bang young + horny tennis instructors, but you will have to share them with multiple women who are also in your situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Female, 49, great job, great kids, great friends, in great shape.... divorced and I cannot imagine ever wanting to become partnered up again. I am done, done, done. Maybe someday I will change my mind about that but right now that's how I feel. But sex is nice, and I don't want to give that up. Other than creepy apps, how does one go about finding friends with benefits? (Or even just good benefits, without the "friends" part?")

You are the dream woman for a lot of men. A woman who just want sex without an expiration date wow. That's amazing lol.

[Anonymous]

I have 3 guys like that. More in my phone who check in every once in awhile. Met all through friends and ex co-workers. Ex boss is actually really good at hooking me up. He supplied me with three already.
Bunch of separated, never married, divorced single men. All have kids, so it's not like I can go over, but they can come to my place.
I'm always home. My own kids are away a lot, which makes it very easy. Zero drama.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Female, 49, great job, great kids, great friends, in great shape.... divorced and I cannot imagine ever wanting to become partnered up again. I am done, done, done. Maybe someday I will change my mind about that but right now that's how I feel. But sex is nice, and I don't want to give that up. Other than creepy apps, how does one go about finding friends with benefits? (Or even just good benefits, without the "friends" part?")

You are the dream woman for a lot of men. A woman who just want sex without an expiration date wow. That's amazing lol.

a troll !

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Female, 49, great job, great kids, great friends, in great shape.... divorced and I cannot imagine ever wanting to become partnered up again. I am done, done, done. Maybe someday I will change my mind about that but right now that's how I feel. But sex is nice, and I don't want to give that up. Other than creepy apps, how does one go about finding friends with benefits? (Or even just good benefits, without the "friends" part?")

You are the dream woman for a lot of men. A woman who just want sex without an expiration date wow. That's amazing lol.

a troll !

Lol. What trollish about that statement? Isn't it true. Isn't it the case that women are more likely to eventually want something not just about sex after awhile?

[Anonymous]

I'm with you, OP - similar in age and in what I'm looking for right now.

I have plenty of options, but they're all married or in complicated situations and I don't want to deal with any of that. I haven't had much luck on the apps (but haven't tried that hard). I want sex too but it seems unnecessarily complicated!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Apps work. 47f here. You can find one there. No idea how to go about this in real life at this stage.

I am in the same boat. 50f here. Care to share which app(s)

[Anonymous]

This sounds gross. You just want to sleep with random men? Ugh this is why the cougar stereotype exists.

[Anonymous]

No trolling! This is me too and almost the same demographics.

No one ever approaches me except married dads. It’s ridiculous, but I’ve never even opened a dating app so I guess I can’t complain since I refuse to even try!

I read all the OLD threads on here and I’m TERRIFIED.

I live in a very family focused area here so there are almost no single people and I’m trapped! Sucks. Plenty of husbands can’t stop chatting me up and it’s pretty lame and transparent! No thanks!

[Anonymous]

50ish male here. Let’s meet up ladies!

[Anonymous]

Buying gadgets would be the easiest route. Why let randos in your life and expose yours and children's lives to complications?