College "Moms" Service Provider

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Housemothers" were a traditional thing at universities. It looks like they're reinventing a traditional job, but badly -- a housemother being responsible for the residents of a small building seems a lot more efficient than a bunch of individually hired ones.


What? When? Where?


Boarding schools have something similar.


Because boarding school students are children. College students are adults.
Anonymous
My parents would have laughed in my face.

At 18, you get all the fun plus all the responsibilities.
Anonymous
This whole scenario reminds me of Sex and the City. Charlotte's husband Trey, who had a weirdly intimate relationship with his mother. She was there at all times to care for Trey's boo-boo's.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:oh god the poor future wives


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It’s boys that will lean on this service more than girls


This made me laugh.

My grandpa learned how to cook and use a sewing machine and was pretty non-sexist for a successful exec with a stay-at-home wife.

However, when he was in grad school in the 1930s, he sent his laundry home on the train from Urbana to Cleveland for his college-educated SAHM mother to do and return to him by train.

Women really need to be careful about how children are raised and with what expectations.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My parents would have laughed in my face.

At 18, you get all the fun plus all the responsibilities.


Yeah I’m trying to imagine my parents’ reaction to this… this would not be well received. I ran out of spending money my freshman year (because I was making idiotic spending decisions) and my parents were like: your problem! have fun figuring that out!

So I just dealt with it until payday for my “work-study” job at a campus cafe, serving pizza to my classmates!
Anonymous
Bizarre thread, though I have seen some "care package delivery moms" post on Facebook.

The bummer is that I could picture a poor/working class kid taking on the job of delivering cold medicine to a privileged kid because the money means something to them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:oh god the poor future wives


đź’Ż

It’s boys that will lean on this service more than girls


This made me laugh.

My grandpa learned how to cook and use a sewing machine and was pretty non-sexist for a successful exec with a stay-at-home wife.

However, when he was in grad school in the 1930s, he sent his laundry home on the train from Urbana to Cleveland for his college-educated SAHM mother to do and return to him by train.

Women really need to be careful about how children are raised and with what expectations.


I think that had a lot more to do with how people did laundry in the 1930s. It’s not like he would have had access to a washer/dryer where he lived, or even a laundromat. The clothes would have been sent out for washing either way.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is a mom of a USNA kid who does this.


At USNA every freshman (plebe) is literally assigned a "mom," their first year. IE a family in town that volunteers to sponsor them. I believe most, if not all, service academies have this. We were a sponsor family in Annapolis for 10 years and it was a great experience on both sides.


My friend who lived near USNA did this too. I think it is a wonderful idea.



Isn’t that a really different thing though? Those USNA kids are being put through a LOT. It’s not a typical first year away from home for college age kids. Giving them a safe and comfortable spot away from school makes sense. For normal college kids this sounds ridiculous though.
Anonymous
This we question made me laugh. I had no idea. I do see on parent FB group a very kind local parent who makes offers to drop things off in an emergency etc which I think is so nice. But paying someone to “ check in” in your college kid? I mean mine would be beside herself if some random “paid mom” was trying to contact her. I can’t imagine many college students would be cool with that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Looking for a local mom or sitter in the area to check in on my kid periodically, home cooked goodies for exams, bring medicine when sick etc.
Where can I find something like MindyKNOWS for Cornell?
https://mindyknows.com/

Should I post on a local site?

Cost is not an issue. Happy to pay a monthly fee.

Btw, I think this is a huge business opportunity....


Why do you need this? My college kid would hate this.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looking for a local mom or sitter in the area to check in on my kid periodically, home cooked goodies for exams, bring medicine when sick etc.
Where can I find something like MindyKNOWS for Cornell?
https://mindyknows.com/

Should I post on a local site?

Cost is not an issue. Happy to pay a monthly fee.

Btw, I think this is a huge business opportunity....


Why do you need this? My college kid would hate this.


Mine, too. Are you actually just trying to advertise Mindyknows?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Tulane has a lady that does this.
People love her and pass her name around. You pay her a monthly fee. She cooks/checks in, buys groceries, drives them to target/WF and airport. Also to sports or dr appts.


Tulane, WashU

I sense a trend of the demographic of kid that needs this

Let’s just say the stereotypes are true


Wow. I am that demographic and my freshmen kid got sick and I sent them a care package and moved in with my life. I think this is the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. Antisemitic much?
Anonymous
When I was in college, my grandmother occasionally baked and sent me cookies. That was great. Everything else is complete overkill. There is presumably a drugstore and a health center. If your child is too ill to shop but not ill enough to be in the health center or hospital, a friend or dormmate can pick up some Advil.
Anonymous
Why is everyone with nose out of joint. I think this is a great service esp for freshman year and if you are sending a child far. I think it is a great business model. If you are not interested just move on.
Anonymous
Great idea for a “mom”! I could make some real money doing this as a side hustle.
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