Surrogacy help

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm the other poster asking about (and not getting helpful responses on) surrogacy.

Weirdly, I'm in a very similar position as you. I've joined some groups online to learn more about the process. There are altruistic surrogates or ones that do it for lower fees (e.g. medical costs). But the agencies do take a big fee regardless.

Might be possible to find a surrogacy lawyer that has some suggestions for managing an independent relationship not through an agency.

Hi there -- yeah, saw your post and almost responded, but then saw others recommending that you go elsewhere to avoid the trolls. I personally enjoy the trolls, as we all troll from time to time. Makes for good entertainment.

As for your situation, if you are the OP who has lost 6 pregnancies, I am terribly sorry. I can't even begin to imagine what you have been through, and are still going through. Frankly, if I manage to somehow find a good surrogate situation -- which apparently makes me "entitled" and "exploitive" -- then I will probably be inclined to give their name to you first. I have done a lot of research and what you said sounds right. The agencies are the "easy" route, but I was trying to figure out a creative solution to "match" another way. In any event, best of luck in your continued journey.

If you are a man, I’m embarrassed for you and your wife. I could not voluntarily have a baby for a supposed man like yourself. Enjoy trolling, grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Again, you are disgusting. You do not speak for any woman. Ever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Because it happens to benefit you. So humble! So brave!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Um, no, exploiting women is not a choice. Do you not know what exploiting is and how women are agree are being exploited? By people like you who spout that it is a choice. To feed your desperation and want.
You benefit while exploiting someone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Again, you are disgusting. You do not speak for any woman. Ever.

So you do? A woman can speak for all women? A man can speak for all men? A black person can speak for all black people? Etc.

You are taking away a woman's choice. Disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Because it happens to benefit you. So humble! So brave!

Exactly!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Again, you are disgusting. You do not speak for any woman. Ever.

So you do? A woman can speak for all women? A man can speak for all men? A black person can speak for all black people? Etc.

You are taking away a woman's choice. Disgusting.

You speak for no woman. Pig. Get that through your pea brain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Um, no, exploiting women is not a choice. Do you not know what exploiting is and how women are agree are being exploited? By people like you who spout that it is a choice. To feed your desperation and want.
You benefit while exploiting someone.

Wow, incredible sexism. Telling a woman they have no choice because they are being "exploited" whether or not they know it. I guess all women need to be taken care of and can't make their own decisions. Gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Again, you are disgusting. You do not speak for any woman. Ever.

So you do? A woman can speak for all women? A man can speak for all men? A black person can speak for all black people? Etc.

You are taking away a woman's choice. Disgusting.

Np. It’s not your place to speak for a woman just like it’s not a woman’s o
place to speak for your prostate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Again, you are disgusting. You do not speak for any woman. Ever.

So you do? A woman can speak for all women? A man can speak for all men? A black person can speak for all black people? Etc.

You are taking away a woman's choice. Disgusting.

You speak for no woman. Pig. Get that through your pea brain.

So much irony in this. I am saying: "Hey women, do what you want." You are saying: "Hey women, we know what is best for you, so we aren't going to let you choose." Which one of us is "speaking for women?" Pretty clear who has the pea brain in this debate.

[Anonymous]

NP—OP, could you explain more about your statement that you exhausted your circle of family and friends in your search? Did you outright ask people? Or mention that you were thinking about exploring surrogacy, and no one expressed interest? If you asked people, how did you decide which people to ask? Just curious, thanks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Because it happens to benefit you. So humble! So brave!

Keep telling yourself that. Whatever makes you feel better about trying to control women. Gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Um, no, exploiting women is not a choice. Do you not know what exploiting is and how women are agree are being exploited? By people like you who spout that it is a choice. To feed your desperation and want.
You benefit while exploiting someone.

Wow, incredible sexism. Telling a woman they have no choice because they are being "exploited" whether or not they know it. I guess all women need to be taken care of and can't make their own decisions. Gross.

Yes, all women should not be exploited under the guise of having a “choice” that sexist men like you try to manipulate them into thinking so. Gross to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lot of sad people trying to control women on here. Who are you to say a woman can't provide a service with her body if she wants? Wow, so much sexism -- kind of disgusting. OP here, btw.

Lots say it including women. Women are not for exploiting, sexist prick.

Op, you said you are a man. You have no say and you are disgusting to speak for women.

I am saying women should have the choice. You are taking away that choice. Which one of us is disgusting again?

Because it happens to benefit you. So humble! So brave!

Keep telling yourself that. Whatever makes you feel better about trying to control women. Gross.

Whatever make you feel better to control women to benefit you. Gross.