WWYD husband’s affair partner posted video melange from 2023

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow. A side chick posting a montage of her…married boyfriend?

Side chicks bold as hell these days! Bring back shame.

So true. It’s pathetic but OP don’t engage. She’s begging for scraps and is someone who doesn’t even care if attention is bad attention.

[Anonymous]

For your own sanity, block her. But if he cheated in 2023, you should be honest with yourself that the recovery of your marriage is still new and difficult. I'm glad you're confident in his loyalty, but the wound must still be raw.

[Anonymous]

Do not engage. He either is still communicating with her or still fully in a relationship with her or she is a psycho which is even more reason to not engage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow. A side chick posting a montage of her…married boyfriend?

Side chicks bold as hell these days! Bring back shame.

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry. That’s terrible! How old is this AP?

[Anonymous]

36 - 19 years younger

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:36 - 19 years younger

She sounds pathetic. Probably thought something would come of the relationship and is bitter that she alone and her biological clock is ticking. Ignore her - she is probably trying to get a reaction to stir things up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The video includes dates together and other things (flowers) etc from my husband including his voice in one. No clear pictures of him but notes with his name on it… She’s not married. The affair is well over and my husband and I are in a good place, but feel like I should say something? WWYD? I guess she has the right to post whatever she wants to. Still hard.

Dump him.

[Anonymous]

That shame video funny bro

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The video includes dates together and other things (flowers) etc from my husband including his voice in one. No clear pictures of him but notes with his name on it… She’s not married. The affair is well over and my husband and I are in a good place, but feel like I should say something? WWYD? I guess she has the right to post whatever she wants to. Still hard.

Block her and ignore it if you are all in with your H and if you somehow now trust him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. A side chick posting a montage of her…married boyfriend?

Side chicks bold as hell these days! Bring back shame.

So true. It’s pathetic but OP don’t engage. She’s begging for scraps and is someone who doesn’t even care if attention is bad attention.

*This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:36 - 19 years younger

She sounds pathetic. Probably thought something would come of the relationship and is bitter that she alone and her biological clock is ticking. Ignore her - she is probably trying to get a reaction to stir things up.

Or he's still seeing her and OP is willfully ignorant

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. A side chick posting a montage of her…married boyfriend?

Side chicks bold as hell these days! Bring back shame.

So true. It’s pathetic but OP don’t engage. She’s begging for scraps and is someone who doesn’t even care if attention is bad attention.

She doesn’t need to beg for scraps she already had the tomahawk. 64 ounces, my word! You certainly know how to show a lady a good time! For dessert a soufflé of the richest dark chocolate from Valrhona in France, made with 70% cacao. As the soufflé is prepared tableside, the aroma of melting chocolate wafts through the air. When ready, they leave for dessert, and get it all on video.

[Anonymous]

What would *I* do? I’ll be honest, if this happened in 2023, I’d be analyzing the eff out of that thing and seeing if the dates that I knew matched up. Because if it’s that recent, and significant enough for her to have videos and gifts and stuff (vs a one night stand) I’m sure I’d still be reeling internally.

That said, unless something didn’t match up with the timeline provided by spouse (like something included that was obviously taking place after he said it was over) I would do nothing and never acknowledge to anyone that I’d even seen it. Girlfriend wants a reaction from someone – you or spouse. Give her nothing.

If things didn’t match up, I would be on the phone with my lawyer quick like a bunny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The video includes dates together and other things (flowers) etc from my husband including his voice in one. No clear pictures of him but notes with his name on it… She’s not married. The affair is well over and my husband and I are in a good place, but feel like I should say something? WWYD? I guess she has the right to post whatever she wants to. Still hard.

If you and your husband are in a good place, why are you checking her social media?
And how are you in a good place after an affair that occurred in 2023 and involved dates, flowers, notes and his consent to be recorded by her? Sounds like it wasn’t just sex and he made no effort to hide it.

This. How do you know what the ap was up to, if you're not up in their her business? If you and your spouse were okay, you wouldn't care about ap at all.