WWYD husband’s affair partner posted video melange from 2023

[Anonymous]

OP what I’m most concerned about here is to your absolute certainty that your DH won’t do this again, that he’s not seeing her anymore, etc. The callousness with which he conducted his affair is pretty striking, and given that willingness I’m worried you’re setting yourself up for a repeat, especially since you’re so quick to say you’re in a better place and he’ll never do something like this again.

Clearly you need to do what’s right for you, but you’re taking an awfully rosy view of his contrition and future behavior.

[Anonymous]

Op, I'd be concerned that if your DH was so nonchalant about being on video with her, that there are worse sorts of videos of them floating around...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The video includes dates together and other things (flowers) etc from my husband including his voice in one. No clear pictures of him but notes with his name on it… She’s not married. The affair is well over and my husband and I are in a good place, but feel like I should say something? WWYD? I guess she has the right to post whatever she wants to. Still hard.

This mistress is BOLD!

[Anonymous]

Trust me, she looks pathetic on her social media. I would die of secondhand embarrassment if I saw that. Her own actions are punishment enough. Don’t say a thing.

As for your husband… I dunno. I would tread so carefully there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The video includes dates together and other things (flowers) etc from my husband including his voice in one. No clear pictures of him but notes with his name on it… She’s not married. The affair is well over and my husband and I are in a good place, but feel like I should say something? WWYD? I guess she has the right to post whatever she wants to. Still hard.

If you and your husband are in a good place, why are you checking her social media?
And how are you in a good place after an affair that occurred in 2023 and involved dates, flowers, notes and his consent to be recorded by her? Sounds like it wasn’t just sex and he made no effort to hide it.

This affair just happened (2023 ended 6 days ago) and you're already in a good place?

You're probably not familiar with this OP who I am 99.9999% sure is NOT in a good place- she composed most of the threads about affairs on the relationship forum in 2023 and her husband wrote incredibly nasty things about her to the AP, and then OP somehow got ahold of those texts (I'm not sure who gave them to her, the AP or the DH). She has repeatedly said that the AP is troubled and vulnerable and younger and her DH took advantage of that. The DH is a real piece of work and OP needs to cut him loose like 6 months ago.