Husband didn’t come home

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Anonymous wrote:I think OP found him by now, and won't be back to tell us the details.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband did this once in 20 years, also after a work dinner. He never drinks and for some reason decided to keep up with his coworkers so after dinner they went to the bar next door until it closed at 2am. He could hardly walk so he go in the back seat of his car and slept it off. I was absolutely panicked. His phone was dead. I had a 3yo and was pregnant with our second. This was pre-uber days though so idk if this would be likely to happen now that it's so easy to get a ride home on demand.

I once fell to the ground leaving a bar and having drank only 3 drinks. I was unable to move and pick up the phone that was ringing. I woke up about 3 hours later. I have no medical conditions and I can drink a lot more than I did that night.
I have no idea what happened that night.
I have had two people disappear like that. One I found at home and completely out of it, but sobered up.

This exact thing has happened to me. I also had 3 drinks over several hours and when I got up and walked out, my mind was totally coherent, but my legs literally did not work. My mind was telling me to do things like call out for help or get up off the ground, but my body would not respond. It was terrifying and has never happened to me other than that one time 15+ years ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One more thing you might check (I know this is a long shot) is your EZ Pass account if he uses it do drive to/from work.

Excellent idea though I'd check it even if he doesnt use it to commute to work. Could show if car has gone someplace strange.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband did this once in 20 years, also after a work dinner. He never drinks and for some reason decided to keep up with his coworkers so after dinner they went to the bar next door until it closed at 2am. He could hardly walk so he go in the back seat of his car and slept it off. I was absolutely panicked. His phone was dead. I had a 3yo and was pregnant with our second. This was pre-uber days though so idk if this would be likely to happen now that it's so easy to get a ride home on demand.

I once fell to the ground leaving a bar and having drank only 3 drinks. I was unable to move and pick up the phone that was ringing. I woke up about 3 hours later. I have no medical conditions and I can drink a lot more than I did that night.
I have no idea what happened that night.
I have had two people disappear like that. One I found at home and completely out of it, but sobered up.

This exact thing has happened to me. I also had 3 drinks over several hours and when I got up and walked out, my mind was totally coherent, but my legs literally did not work. My mind was telling me to do things like call out for help or get up off the ground, but my body would not respond. It was terrifying and has never happened to me other than that one time 15+ years ago.

My assumption is someone slipped something into your drink and PP's.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband did this once in 20 years, also after a work dinner. He never drinks and for some reason decided to keep up with his coworkers so after dinner they went to the bar next door until it closed at 2am. He could hardly walk so he go in the back seat of his car and slept it off. I was absolutely panicked. His phone was dead. I had a 3yo and was pregnant with our second. This was pre-uber days though so idk if this would be likely to happen now that it's so easy to get a ride home on demand.

I once fell to the ground leaving a bar and having drank only 3 drinks. I was unable to move and pick up the phone that was ringing. I woke up about 3 hours later. I have no medical conditions and I can drink a lot more than I did that night.
I have no idea what happened that night.
I have had two people disappear like that. One I found at home and completely out of it, but sobered up.

This exact thing has happened to me. I also had 3 drinks over several hours and when I got up and walked out, my mind was totally coherent, but my legs literally did not work. My mind was telling me to do things like call out for help or get up off the ground, but my body would not respond. It was terrifying and has never happened to me other than that one time 15+ years ago.

You both probably had your drinks drugged. It happens.

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Anonymous wrote:I think OP found him by now, and won't be back to tell us the details.

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+2 He probably got very drunk and who knows what happened from there.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband did this once in 20 years, also after a work dinner. He never drinks and for some reason decided to keep up with his coworkers so after dinner they went to the bar next door until it closed at 2am. He could hardly walk so he go in the back seat of his car and slept it off. I was absolutely panicked. His phone was dead. I had a 3yo and was pregnant with our second. This was pre-uber days though so idk if this would be likely to happen now that it's so easy to get a ride home on demand.

I once fell to the ground leaving a bar and having drank only 3 drinks. I was unable to move and pick up the phone that was ringing. I woke up about 3 hours later. I have no medical conditions and I can drink a lot more than I did that night.
I have no idea what happened that night.
I have had two people disappear like that. One I found at home and completely out of it, but sobered up.

This exact thing has happened to me. I also had 3 drinks over several hours and when I got up and walked out, my mind was totally coherent, but my legs literally did not work. My mind was telling me to do things like call out for help or get up off the ground, but my body would not respond. It was terrifying and has never happened to me other than that one time 15+ years ago.

You both probably had your drinks drugged. It happens.

+1

This happened to my sister. A coworker drugged her drink at a work happy hour, and it was like she was paralyzed (but she said her brain was also a little hazy too). It was terrifying. She left the org, and now avoids places that have a heavy drinking culture.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband did this once in 20 years, also after a work dinner. He never drinks and for some reason decided to keep up with his coworkers so after dinner they went to the bar next door until it closed at 2am. He could hardly walk so he go in the back seat of his car and slept it off. I was absolutely panicked. His phone was dead. I had a 3yo and was pregnant with our second. This was pre-uber days though so idk if this would be likely to happen now that it's so easy to get a ride home on demand.

I once fell to the ground leaving a bar and having drank only 3 drinks. I was unable to move and pick up the phone that was ringing. I woke up about 3 hours later. I have no medical conditions and I can drink a lot more than I did that night.
I have no idea what happened that night.
I have had two people disappear like that. One I found at home and completely out of it, but sobered up.

This exact thing has happened to me. I also had 3 drinks over several hours and when I got up and walked out, my mind was totally coherent, but my legs literally did not work. My mind was telling me to do things like call out for help or get up off the ground, but my body would not respond. It was terrifying and has never happened to me other than that one time 15+ years ago.

You both probably had your drinks drugged. It happens.

+1

This happened to my sister. A coworker drugged her drink at a work happy hour, and it was like she was paralyzed (but she said her brain was also a little hazy too). It was terrifying. She left the org, and now avoids places that have a heavy drinking culture.

It’s sort of amazing the different worlds people live in. I have no idea of where or how to buy these drugs. Didn’t stop me being accused of drugging a girls drink (who didn’t go home with) during study abroad 20+ years ago. I have no idea now and definitely no idea then in a foreign country of how to procure these substances. What circles do you have to run in to both have these and bring them to a work HH!? But I agree, the PPs sound like they were drugged.

As an aside, I think the girl, who was visiting a group from her college from another program/country, was drugged by one of the guys in the group she was visiting. But wow, that was uncomfortable - that whole group probably still thinks I’m a rapist.

Anyway, not to derail the thread - I’m just sitting here like everyone else waiting for an update from the OP.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband did this once in 20 years, also after a work dinner. He never drinks and for some reason decided to keep up with his coworkers so after dinner they went to the bar next door until it closed at 2am. He could hardly walk so he go in the back seat of his car and slept it off. I was absolutely panicked. His phone was dead. I had a 3yo and was pregnant with our second. This was pre-uber days though so idk if this would be likely to happen now that it's so easy to get a ride home on demand.

I once fell to the ground leaving a bar and having drank only 3 drinks. I was unable to move and pick up the phone that was ringing. I woke up about 3 hours later. I have no medical conditions and I can drink a lot more than I did that night.
I have no idea what happened that night.
I have had two people disappear like that. One I found at home and completely out of it, but sobered up.

This exact thing has happened to me. I also had 3 drinks over several hours and when I got up and walked out, my mind was totally coherent, but my legs literally did not work. My mind was telling me to do things like call out for help or get up off the ground, but my body would not respond. It was terrifying and has never happened to me other than that one time 15+ years ago.

You both probably had your drinks drugged. It happens.

+1

This happened to my sister. A coworker drugged her drink at a work happy hour, and it was like she was paralyzed (but she said her brain was also a little hazy too). It was terrifying. She left the org, and now avoids places that have a heavy drinking culture.

Someone did this to my friend at Gold Cup.

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Hope he's ok, OP. Agree with the others that he was up to some shady ish if he is actually ok.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My husband did this once in 20 years, also after a work dinner. He never drinks and for some reason decided to keep up with his coworkers so after dinner they went to the bar next door until it closed at 2am. He could hardly walk so he go in the back seat of his car and slept it off. I was absolutely panicked. His phone was dead. I had a 3yo and was pregnant with our second. This was pre-uber days though so idk if this would be likely to happen now that it's so easy to get a ride home on demand.

I once fell to the ground leaving a bar and having drank only 3 drinks. I was unable to move and pick up the phone that was ringing. I woke up about 3 hours later. I have no medical conditions and I can drink a lot more than I did that night.
I have no idea what happened that night.
I have had two people disappear like that. One I found at home and completely out of it, but sobered up.

It sounds like you were roofied. I'm sorry

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Anonymous wrote:My husband did this once in 20 years, also after a work dinner. He never drinks and for some reason decided to keep up with his coworkers so after dinner they went to the bar next door until it closed at 2am. He could hardly walk so he go in the back seat of his car and slept it off. I was absolutely panicked. His phone was dead. I had a 3yo and was pregnant with our second. This was pre-uber days though so idk if this would be likely to happen now that it's so easy to get a ride home on demand.

I once fell to the ground leaving a bar and having drank only 3 drinks. I was unable to move and pick up the phone that was ringing. I woke up about 3 hours later. I have no medical conditions and I can drink a lot more than I did that night.
I have no idea what happened that night.
I have had two people disappear like that. One I found at home and completely out of it, but sobered up.

This exact thing has happened to me. I also had 3 drinks over several hours and when I got up and walked out, my mind was totally coherent, but my legs literally did not work. My mind was telling me to do things like call out for help or get up off the ground, but my body would not respond. It was terrifying and has never happened to me other than that one time 15+ years ago.

You both probably had your drinks drugged. It happens.

+1

This happened to my sister. A coworker drugged her drink at a work happy hour, and it was like she was paralyzed (but she said her brain was also a little hazy too). It was terrifying. She left the org, and now avoids places that have a heavy drinking culture.

It’s sort of amazing the different worlds people live in. I have no idea of where or how to buy these drugs. Didn’t stop me being accused of drugging a girls drink (who didn’t go home with) during study abroad 20+ years ago. I have no idea now and definitely no idea then in a foreign country of how to procure these substances. What circles do you have to run in to both have these and bring them to a work HH!? But I agree, the PPs sound like they were drugged.

As an aside, I think the girl, who was visiting a group from her college from another program/country, was drugged by one of the guys in the group she was visiting. But wow, that was uncomfortable - that whole group probably still thinks I’m a rapist.

Anyway, not to derail the thread - I’m just sitting here like everyone else waiting for an update from the OP.

It was a large, big-name trade association. It’s very likely some DCUMs work there.

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Anonymous wrote:This is not like him. He takes the kids to school every morning. It’s 6am and he still isn’t home. I will go by the restaurant after i drop the kids this morning. However it is downtown so I imagine the car could be towed if it was parked on the street overnight

Do you have find my iPhone app? All our devices are connected so you can look it up on his IPad or your phone, etc….

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In my nyc days there would def be big holiday open bar parties where if I had to be in early the next morning, associates, VPs, would be passed out at their desk.
To far from home and “ordering a car” was not possible at midnight.

These days maybe could…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think OP found him by now, and won't be back to tell us the details.

I think so, too. I hope everything works out ok op.