Way to make ASS_U_mptions that everyone has those kinds of gyms available within a reasonable driving distance after work and/or near their homes. No one wants to spend 3 hours after work to go lift because they have to drive 50 minutes out of the way each way to get to a powerlifting gym all because idiots don't know basic etiquette. People have errands and families they still need to get to in the evening. The simpler solution is obviously not to do stupid as hell faux pas like arm curls, shoulder presses, and deadlifts in or around the racks used for squatting when so much other space and equipment is available to do those in other parts of the gym. |
It’s sounds like she may be new at the gym. Why didn’t you just say something? |
In this area, those convenient gyms definitely exist. You tell me where you live or work, I'll tell you where that gym is. But, if you find it "simpler" to go to a gym where you can't do what you want because the equipment is inadequate, as I said, that's on you. Don't come in here whining like a b***h and expecting sympathy though. |
S/he has my sympathy. These people need to get a clue. Learn how to share gym equipment properly. It’s not that hard. |
No one is asking for sympathy you clod. People need to learn basic damn etiquette at the gym, duh. Would you go golfing for the first few times without reading up on etiquette on a golf course? Would you go lap swimming the first few times before reading up on etiquette in the event a pool is crowded when you get there? No? Then why do people do it at the gym? |
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You probably complain all of January and into February as well. Learn how to adapt, work in, or find a new gym. This is on you. |
? 1135 is lightweight. |
This is how I know you're a troll. and my total was over 1,200 back in my 30s, but I've lost some strength in my mid 40s. But still happen with a 4 digit total. But I know you're a troll (and not a powerlifter) because powerlifters are the most supportive and kind group of athletes I've ever met. I've never met another powerlifter that would disparage somebody else's lift. |
It isn’t his fault the gym only has one rack. Pick a better gym. |
Do you even lit heavy bro? 😎 |
I go to a gym which only has two squat racks with platforms and they can be pretty difficult to get. I generally do not have much time for my workout but it never happened to me that I did not manage to get the squats in when I needed (and I squat 2-3 times a week). If someone is there deadlifting or doing some random stuff that does not require the rack, I open my mouth and ask them if I can squat there. I was never told no. If both racks are taken by people actually squatting and it looks like they will take a while, i ask both how much they have and wait if it is up to three sets. If they both just started i pick the ones whose starting setup is closest to mine and ask to work in. People either share or really speed up. In my experience talking works very well and sometimes people are just oblivious. The girl likely had no idea that you were waiting and would have moved if you communicated with her. |
Yikes. I have used the stair machine while leaning on the arms when I was trying to build fitness back up after an injury. It helped me get into some cardio without putting as much weight on my recovering leg. |
So you aren't complaining that she was hogging the machine, you are complaining that we was working out near the machine? Just walk up, say excuse me and start using the machine. She probably was just doing that because there was a little space there. There is limited space in the gym, you are always going to be near someone else working out. |
OP, what did she say when you asked her if you could work in? |