Where do kids in their 20’s meet potential spouses?
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Anonymous
| No way was I getting married in my 20s! Way too much fun to be had and lots of sex partners. At 33 I met my husband in my own neighborhood at a picnic. Turns out he lived 3 blocks away from me. |
Anonymous
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Met my spouse at a house party in Arlington that had an ice luge with vodka pouring down it. Neither of us contracted herpes that night (or any other), and we've been happily married for 20+ years.
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Anonymous
NP. 27 is only slightly below the avg rate of marriage in the US. Definitely not “ridiculously young.” |
Anonymous
I also met my husband at a house party in Arlington! No ice luge, though. The cute guy I was pursuing passed out, and i ended talking to another guy nearby. I married him 2 years later. Like a few others, online dating never interested me. |
Anonymous
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I am old and met my spouse the old fashioned way, at a bar 😂.
My much youbger sister met hers … at a house party in Arlington! And my much younger cousin met hers on Hinge. |
Anonymous
| No wonder so many people complain about immaturity, infidelity, behavioral issues, and alcoholism in spouses, considering a lot picked theirs from bar and drinking parties. |
Anonymous
Not this PP but I met my DH at work and got married at 26. We both did go to college, terminal degrees for both of us. We had children a year later, and our children have been in the magnet programs that all the harpies on DCUM covet. We make good money and eat processed food sometimes. Statistics show you are dumb like rock and need to MYOB thanks. |
Anonymous
Just like PP, we met at 25 and 27 (not in college but through common friends)and both had professional degrees and career track jobs. We feel so thankful listening to dating problems people in their 30's and 40's face. |
Anonymous
| People who meet in mid 30's or after, often have lot of baggage and also desperation to have families. It often leads to hasty decisions and bitter divorces. |
Anonymous
| Everywhere. Why is this a problem ? Especially since online dating has been added to the repertoire ? The biggest difficulty for singles today is that there are too many avenues available to meet others so it is easy to be dismissive. |
Anonymous
| Not having enough relationship experience and having too much, both can lead to issues but both are partly couple and circumstances dependent, can succeed or fail with or without sincerity and dedication. |
Anonymous
Gross. Seriously, potential partner material? Tinder's just for sex. |
Anonymous
| We worked together and he walked up to me and asked to take me out. I said yes, when? He said tonight and that was it--we have been together ever since. |
Anonymous
Statistics are high for people who get married in their 30s and 40s - people too set in their ways, hasty decisions based on biological clock. Statistics are also not good for people who meet in bars or other venues they would demure from answering when family and friends ask "how did you guys meet?" I've known people who married in their 20s, even had kids (yes, plural) before hitting 30. They seem pretty happy and committed and, *gasp* jumped the hurdles for their professional licensing requirements. So no, these aren't uneducated and unaccomplished people. Lots of people want to justify why they are older and still single so like to justify their life choices. |
Anonymous
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I'm 41 now but I met my husband at 24 online. This was before the apps, it was a dating website. We were students at the same grad school and sometimes we legitately forget we met online and think we met in grad school.
I feel like anyone I know who met their spouse in their 20s either met them in school or online. |