Where do kids in their 20’s meet potential spouses?

[Anonymous]

I’m 34. My ex-husband (I got married at 24 and divorced at 30) I met in grad school. My current husband I met through a hobby (running and training for marathons).

It’s hard to meet people. The first wave is usually in college/grad school. It used to be through work, but with more work from home, that’s getting trickier. Sometimes friends of friends or hobbies. But other than that, it’s apps. There’s no bar scene anymore…everything is pre-planned with no spontaneity, like it’s weird to talk to people you don’t already know at a bar. The apps can be pretty depressing, but that’s how my 30 year old brother dates.

[Anonymous]

I met my DH through a volunteer group when I was 29. My sister met her husband through mutual friends who were on a softball team with him. A guy I work with is engaged -- his fiance had worked on our team before he arrived and someone else in the dept thought they'd be a good match and introduced them. Now apps definitely seem to dominate (my brother and SIL met that way) but in addition to that, people should just be out in the world living their lives and nurturing friendships generally.

[Anonymous]

I made a resolution and kept to it, of speaking to one new guy every day. Met my DH commuting. Turns out a friend knew him too. Worked in an adjoining office so that helped.

[Anonymous]

College is the best place.

[Anonymous]

My son just got engaged to a wonderful young woman. He's 28 and she's 26; they've been dating for two years. They met through her mom, who was the volunteer coordinator at Big Brothers/Big Sisters, where my son was a volunteer mentor.

[Anonymous]

Where?

In their 30s.

[Anonymous]

I met my wife at church.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My son just got engaged to a wonderful young woman. He's 28 and she's 26; they've been dating for two years. They met through her mom, who was the volunteer coordinator at Big Brothers/Big Sisters, where my son was a volunteer mentor.

Wow, you seemed to raise a son who is a prize!

I love that he wanted to be a big Brother, and how flattering that the MIL thought he was good enough for her daughter!

Home run. Good job Mom!!

[Anonymous]

Apparently grad school was rated the top place to find a good mate. Then online.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:College is the best place.

College is the best place to get laid, not to get married. You're in your very early 20's, what do you know about life? 99.9997% of people at that age are not ready.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Met my husband at 25 at a mutual friend's fundraiser at the bar.

Ok, but OP is asking about NOW. You’re like, 40? People meet online these days.

[Anonymous]

I mean, I met my husband at a bar when I was 22, haha

[Anonymous]

Mother of three 20 somethings. College and grad school are the big ones. But of those who don't meet their SOs that way...it's aallll apps.

[Anonymous]

Another +1 to online. I met my now husband on Bumble in 2016 when I was 25. We got married in 2021.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hobbies and volunteering, actually. Some of my friends met people in sports leagues, board gaming groups, axe throwing leagues, that kind of thing.

where does one find such groups? A young friend who just moved to the area said she'd love to find a card playing group and volleyball group, but, I don't know where to direct her.