DP who also had the only white kid in AOPS. Agree, it is a stereotype that all Asians grind at Math. But at the same time it is true that most math enrichment programs are heavily Asian around here! That said the point of AOPS is not that the kids there love math and eat it up like candy. It’s simply to give your kid extra math so they are better at it. And that absolutely works, whatever the level or interest of the kid. |
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Some of the low income immigrant communities have children involved in helping with family work/business from a young age, which actually helps develop math skills — even if it’s just pretending to help mom make change or helping dad measure something out. My own father, who was an engineer, was the child of immigrants and helped in his parents work basically as soon as he could speak and walk. There’s lots of fun ways to learn math as a child if you build it into their daily life (dividing up cookies, figuring out how long until dinner, how many eggs in the recipe, etc.).
My kid loved math and there was a really fun after school program that she did after K. Sadly, we couldn’t find enough interested families-even if our UMC neighborhood—to support even one group, so they didn’t offer it in future years and the whole program (a non profit founded by Stanford grads) collapsed a few years later. Music, dance, sports (which are all great) all filled up. There is definitely a social prejudice against math for most Americans. I’d actually be curious in seeing how many generations it takes before Asian-Americans are just as bad as the rest of us. |
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The Chinese- and Indian-ancestry kids who are in America predominately come from families who could, for cultural, biological, and genetic reasons, study hard and perform well on tests. In many cases these traits were selected for over millennia. America is fortunate to have these smart and hard-working families and kids. Hopefully their smarts and grit doesn’t get beat out of them by the system.
It’s insane that we can’t say these Asian kids perform better in part because they are just biologically smarter than the average non-Asian American kid. Academic achievement is at least 50% genetic in early childhood, and even more so as kids get older. |
| Studies keep looking earlier and earlier as an attempt to find out which teachers are responsible for the achievement gap, because we are uncomfortable with the truth: some people, some families, some cultures have more successful ways of raising their children. |
All of it is cultural. |
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I sent my son to Kumon at 4. He was in a play based preschool which we loved but I also wanted him to be prepared for K. So I taught him reading with 100 Easy Lessons and for math he did Kumon starting one year before K so he was 4 years and 8 months old.
I laughed when the Kumon director told me he was behind since a lot if families start at 3. We were the only Latino preschool aged family. Almost all of the other preschool aged students were Asian and a couple seemed Eastern European. The director handed us 5 pages of homework but when I saw she gave the Asian families 10 pages per day I said I wanted the same amount (you pay the same price regardless of how many pages you get). A year later my son was doing great in math and was good in word problems I think from all the creative play at his preschool. Yet when he started K he wasn’t put into the highest math group and wasn’t given the extra math enrichment challenge homework.. An Asian parent asked me why my son wasn’t with all the other Kumon kids in that group because she knew he was on the same level as her kid (Kumon letters go by letters so you can easily tell what level kids are at). I went to speak to the teacher and she said he met the k math standards but didn’t think to keep testing him. She just assumed he wasn’t advanced. So she worked with him one in one the next day for a few minutes then called and said she had been mistaken and of course he should be in the highest group. And wasn’t it so great he was so high in math. And what a surprise it was. It was so infuriating. |
It may be cultural but it’s not genetic. Academics are largely about inputs and dose-dependent. Any kid send to AOPS for a year will outperform peers and see big personal increases in scores. |
depends on the definition of “success.” I know tiger kids of different races and there can be significant emotional/mental health issues involved. |
see the moms talking is a big part of it
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They need to toughen up and get over it. |
This is probably the dumbest and least evidence-based claim I have ever heard. Intelligence is definitely mostly hereditary. Go read some articles. Google scholar is your friend. |
+1. Wth is PP talking about? |
PP here. I stated this poorly. The immigrant was a Hispanic immigrant, but I've seen this attitude with both AA and Hispanics. They believe that school should teach them everything they need to know. My point was that Asians don't believe this and actively teach and read to their kids outside of school. Achievement starts in the home. Schools teach a bare minimum these days and the minimum drops every year. You should see how many 2nd graders still can't read, when this should have been a requirement to start first grade. |
WTH is AOPS? -Asian American whose kid scored 800 on math and 5 on AP Calc and AP lit |
Art of Problem Solving -Another Asian American whose kid scored 800 on math, reading and writing and 5 on all AP exams taken. |