How to hint sex drive in OLD?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I didn’t know as soon as a man turned 50 he was feeble. Someone needs to tell those 50+ hikers, mountain climbers, white water kayakers, etc. that they’re too old…

1. A 59 year old joined the special forces a few years ago and he was near the top of his class. His son is in the same unit.
2. The oldest man to summit Everest was 80.
3. At 57 I can still go 2x a day, and OP would be "arriving" 3-5 times a night.

[Anonymous]

I am very good looking and thin but I am concerned about attracting only those who look for sex and commitment phobic men.

The quality of troll posts in DCUM has dropped to a new low.

The OP's post contains all kinds of issues. She wants a sexually giving man who loves to hike, that doesn't work too much but has enough money to take her on expensive trips.

OP - If you are hot as you believe you are, you will have no problem attracting the wealthy, very fit, older (but not too old), sexy (without sex being the center of your relationship) man you are looking for when hunting via OLD.

Other than being "very good looking and thin", what do you bring to the table?

Any man who has all the attributes you want to the degree you want them will be in top .1% of dating men. He can find everything you are adversting (and more) from someone younger. Specifically, a man like that can find someone like you were when you captured your 15 year older ExDH but without the wear of being in your mid-40s.

[Anonymous]

OP - You noted that you like to hike.

Put on your best (i.e., most form-fitting) athletic wear and start hiking through the Sunrise Senior Living Homes near you.

When you see a man that is interested (e.g., he tries to push his wheelchair fast enough to follow), wait to if he has money. You can tell because the staff will come and push him toward you (as they will be looking for the tip you can give them when you reel him in.)

The rest is up to you. Round them up, Cowgirl.

[Anonymous]

This is a troll, folks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I am very good looking and thin but I am concerned about attracting only those who look for sex and commitment phobic men.

The quality of troll posts in DCUM has dropped to a new low.

The OP's post contains all kinds of issues. She wants a sexually giving man who loves to hike, that doesn't work too much but has enough money to take her on expensive trips.

OP - If you are hot as you believe you are, you will have no problem attracting the wealthy, very fit, older (but not too old), sexy (without sex being the center of your relationship) man you are looking for when hunting via OLD.

Other than being "very good looking and thin", what do you bring to the table?

Any man who has all the attributes you want to the degree you want them will be in top .1% of dating men. He can find everything you are adversting (and more) from someone younger. Specifically, a man like that can find someone like you were when you captured your 15 year older ExDH but without the wear of being in your mid-40s.

OP here. I didn’t bring to table at my 22 yo even a small particle of what I can bring now. I wasn’t independently wealthy, had no experience in life and business, didn’t know how to raise kids or even how to pick a proper partner. The very concept of an egalitarian marriage wouldn’t be realistic with me 20 yo me vs 40+ yo me. And I am still in great shape for any 40+ man. Hopefully not all men look for 20 year olds who would be a showcase of beauty to supplement his image and wealth.

And you made it up that I want “a man to take me on these trips”. I’ve been taking 2-3 family members with me and can easily pull of off taking 2 more FWBs in addition to keep me fully satisfied at night. It’s just not what I am looking for: I need a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I didn’t know as soon as a man turned 50 he was feeble. Someone needs to tell those 50+ hikers, mountain climbers, white water kayakers, etc. that they’re too old…

1. A 59 year old joined the special forces a few years ago and he was near the top of his class. His son is in the same unit.
2. The oldest man to summit Everest was 80.
3. At 57 I can still go 2x a day, and OP would be "arriving" 3-5 times a night.

Do you want more kids ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I am very good looking and thin but I am concerned about attracting only those who look for sex and commitment phobic men.

The quality of troll posts in DCUM has dropped to a new low.

The OP's post contains all kinds of issues. She wants a sexually giving man who loves to hike, that doesn't work too much but has enough money to take her on expensive trips.

OP - If you are hot as you believe you are, you will have no problem attracting the wealthy, very fit, older (but not too old), sexy (without sex being the center of your relationship) man you are looking for when hunting via OLD.

Other than being "very good looking and thin", what do you bring to the table?

Any man who has all the attributes you want to the degree you want them will be in top .1% of dating men. He can find everything you are adversting (and more) from someone younger. Specifically, a man like that can find someone like you were when you captured your 15 year older ExDH but without the wear of being in your mid-40s.

OP here. I didn’t bring to table at my 22 yo even a small particle of what I can bring now. I wasn’t independently wealthy, had no experience in life and business, didn’t know how to raise kids or even how to pick a proper partner. The very concept of an egalitarian marriage wouldn’t be realistic with me 20 yo me vs 40+ yo me. And I am still in great shape for any 40+ man. Hopefully not all men look for 20 year olds who would be a showcase of beauty to supplement his image and wealth.

And you made it up that I want “a man to take me on these trips”. I’ve been taking 2-3 family members with me and can easily pull of off taking 2 more FWBs in addition to keep me fully satisfied at night. It’s just not what I am looking for: I need a relationship.

OP, didn’t you post a month or so ago about how you are so rich and worried about finding a man who isn’t going to just use you for your money? I think I recognize your hubris and braggadocio.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Begging for sex the day after a csection? This can’t be real. How dumb could you be?

You have zero knowledge about female body. When V is not damaged during birth (C-section), it takes a month to recover from surgery. During breastfeeding V continues muscular spasms directed in returning to its normal size. The spasms also instigate sexual desire. If a woman is not exhausted with night wake ups and has a good help with the baby, sex drive is insane

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Begging for sex the day after a csection? This can’t be real. How dumb could you be?

+1 The day after my c section I was eating colace like tic tacs and guzzling water trying to take a dump. Not to mention the pain from major abdominal surgery.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Begging for sex the day after a csection? This can’t be real. How dumb could you be?

You have zero knowledge about female body. When V is not damaged during birth (C-section), it takes a month to recover from surgery. During breastfeeding V continues muscular spasms directed in returning to its normal size. The spasms also instigate sexual desire. If a woman is not exhausted with night wake ups and has a good help with the baby, sex drive is insane

But the day after a c-section you are still zonked on pain meds. Sex is the last thing on most women’s minds at that point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Begging for sex the day after a csection? This can’t be real. How dumb could you be?

You have zero knowledge about female body. When V is not damaged during birth (C-section), it takes a month to recover from surgery. During breastfeeding V continues muscular spasms directed in returning to its normal size. The spasms also instigate sexual desire. If a woman is not exhausted with night wake ups and has a good help with the baby, sex drive is insane

I think this is a man. He’s writing it one-handed.

[Anonymous]

Op, you can't have it all. you can't have a smart, successful man and that is also young. If you get younger then you won't respect him. You are too entitled.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I am very good looking and thin but I am concerned about attracting only those who look for sex and commitment phobic men.

The quality of troll posts in DCUM has dropped to a new low.

The OP's post contains all kinds of issues. She wants a sexually giving man who loves to hike, that doesn't work too much but has enough money to take her on expensive trips.

OP - If you are hot as you believe you are, you will have no problem attracting the wealthy, very fit, older (but not too old), sexy (without sex being the center of your relationship) man you are looking for when hunting via OLD.

Other than being "very good looking and thin", what do you bring to the table?

Any man who has all the attributes you want to the degree you want them will be in top .1% of dating men. He can find everything you are adversting (and more) from someone younger. Specifically, a man like that can find someone like you were when you captured your 15 year older ExDH but without the wear of being in your mid-40s.

OP here. I didn’t bring to table at my 22 yo even a small particle of what I can bring now. I wasn’t independently wealthy, had no experience in life and business, didn’t know how to raise kids or even how to pick a proper partner. The very concept of an egalitarian marriage wouldn’t be realistic with me 20 yo me vs 40+ yo me. And I am still in great shape for any 40+ man. Hopefully not all men look for 20 year olds who would be a showcase of beauty to supplement his image and wealth.

And you made it up that I want “a man to take me on these trips”. I’ve been taking 2-3 family members with me and can easily pull of off taking 2 more FWBs in addition to keep me fully satisfied at night. It’s just not what I am looking for: I need a relationship.

If you really are All That --you're so smart, make a bundle, sex drive like crazy, super fit! -- then why can't you also figure out how to find a relationship? How can you be so perfect in every department yet not bright enough to figure that out?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I am very good looking and thin but I am concerned about attracting only those who look for sex and commitment phobic men.

The quality of troll posts in DCUM has dropped to a new low.

The OP's post contains all kinds of issues. She wants a sexually giving man who loves to hike, that doesn't work too much but has enough money to take her on expensive trips.

OP - If you are hot as you believe you are, you will have no problem attracting the wealthy, very fit, older (but not too old), sexy (without sex being the center of your relationship) man you are looking for when hunting via OLD.

Other than being "very good looking and thin", what do you bring to the table?

Any man who has all the attributes you want to the degree you want them will be in top .1% of dating men. He can find everything you are adversting (and more) from someone younger. Specifically, a man like that can find someone like you were when you captured your 15 year older ExDH but without the wear of being in your mid-40s.

OP here. I didn’t bring to table at my 22 yo even a small particle of what I can bring now. I wasn’t independently wealthy, had no experience in life and business, didn’t know how to raise kids or even how to pick a proper partner. The very concept of an egalitarian marriage wouldn’t be realistic with me 20 yo me vs 40+ yo me. And I am still in great shape for any 40+ man. Hopefully not all men look for 20 year olds who would be a showcase of beauty to supplement his image and wealth.

And you made it up that I want “a man to take me on these trips”. I’ve been taking 2-3 family members with me and can easily pull of off taking 2 more FWBs in addition to keep me fully satisfied at night. It’s just not what I am looking for: I need a relationship.

If you really are All That --you're so smart, make a bundle, sex drive like crazy, super fit! -- then why can't you also figure out how to find a relationship? How can you be so perfect in every department yet not bright enough to figure that out?

Also, if OP is all of that, she won’t need to pursue. Men will be finding her. The fact that they aren’t…well, it speaks volumes.

[Anonymous]

Dude you’re already too old now for any man to want to start a family with you.