The rise of male virginity

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Anonymous wrote:This seems like yet another way to blame women for the problems of men.

I don't see it so much as blaming women as observing the social interaction between men and women. Sex between young adults is usually something that only happens with the permission of the woman involved. So when there is a decline in sexual activity, it's not unreasonable to look at both the emerging social behavior of the men, as well as the women.

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Anonymous wrote:“Young men between 18 and 30 years of age saw one of the biggest declines in sexual activity, with 28 percent saying they had no sex over the last year. Young women in the same age range, however, report higher rates of sexual activity, with only 18 percent saying they had no sex in the past year.”

This sounds like the remaining 72 percent of men would be on average having more sex since the women rate is up. Maybe a variation of the winner take all economy, but with sex….lol

Maybe the women are having sex with each other.

This is another possible consideration, although I do question just how many women are now having their sexual urges satisfied this way. There is certainly an increasing gender/sexual fluidity, whereby some people are confusing strong liking for someone to be the same as sexual preference. I would just be very cautious about extrapolating this out to be some significant segment of the population.

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Anonymous wrote:“Young men between 18 and 30 years of age saw one of the biggest declines in sexual activity, with 28 percent saying they had no sex over the last year. Young women in the same age range, however, report higher rates of sexual activity, with only 18 percent saying they had no sex in the past year.”

This sounds like the remaining 72 percent of men would be on average having more sex since the women rate is up. Maybe a variation of the winner take all economy, but with sex….lol

Maybe the women are having sex with each other.

That's exactly what I was thinking. LOL. I can't believe no one else read the stats that way.

How is this a political topic? The source article is plainly labeled "healthcare." Get out of my children's bedrooms.

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Kooky opinion alert: I do not think we are that far away from hyper-realistic sex robots becoming available to the general public Perhaps that technology will allow the incels to have the "perfect woman" for them.

Not that long ago, online dating was only for nerds and the desperate. Now it is ubiquitous. I bet a similar progression happens for sex robots. First only rich nerds will use them. But then most single men (and a small number of women) will buy them, and then finally we will begin seeing advice columns where married women write in complaining about how much time their husbands are spending with a robot, and whether it is cheating, etc. By then, society will have irrevocably changed.

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Anonymous wrote:gun violence, right winged extremism, polarization, all of this is tied to the recent phenomenon of male inceldom

https://thehill.com/policy/healthcare/436476-number-of-americans-not-having-sex-reaches-record-high-report/

Young men are behind women in college attainment, career satisfaction and many fall into video games and drugs. history has shown that a high % of sexless young men in a society will lead to chaos and revolutions common in places like the Middle East and Africa.

what is the driver of this phenomenon and how can it be solved?

Long term solutions will take time, but in short term: Ban Assault weapons.

This Chicago Incel wouldn't have been able to take out his rage on almost 50 victims with just these knives he possessed in 2019:

Illinois law enforcement interacted with shooting suspect Robert E. Crimo III twice before a mass shooting at a Fourth of July parade in Highland Park on Monday, police said.

Crimo is in custody and has not yet been charged in connection to the shooting.

Deputy Chief Christopher Covelli, a spokesperson for the Lake County Sheriff’s Office, said in April 2019, someone contacted the Highland Park Police Department a week after learning that Crimo had attempted to die by suicide.

Since it was a delayed report, Covelli said police went to his house and spoke with Crimo and his parents.

"The matter was being handled by mental health professionals at that time. There was no law enforcement action to be taken. It was a mental health issue handled by those professionals," Covelli said.

He said the second interaction happened in September 2019 when a family member reported that Crimo had a collection of knives and he said "he was going to kill everyone."

"The police responded to his residence. The police removed 16 knives, a dagger and a sword from Crimo's home," Covelli said, adding that at that time, there was no probable cause to arrest Crimo because there were no complaints that were signed by any of the victims.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's multi-dimensional, not necessarily "inceldom," and will continue. You have unchecked immigration and free trade that has decimated earnings potential, the decline of male-oriented industries in general, educational environments geared toward areas where women excel, and maybe most importantly, a steep decline in cultural expectations (no judgment), etc.

I must say as an aside, once I started playing FPSs as a late teen my interest in dating and sex pretty much declined by half. Reality is video games, playing them, winning, was and is like a constant low-key high. It may sound weird to say it but it's like a drip in your arm for ten hours, and it's free, without all the annoyances of relationships. For some people I really do believe video games can be addictive and destructive.

THIS

and they lose social skills in the process.

SCOTUS can't force women to mate with these Incels

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How do we know this Chicago kid wasn't getting any? Did I miss something?

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Anonymous wrote:Legalize and regulate sex work.

Right. If you can't keep them pregnant and barefoot then let them be whored out to feckless men. Let's start with your daughter(s) because mine has plans to do something meaningful with her life.

People are already doing sex work now in the U.S., both coerced and by their own free will.

Legitimize it, regulate it, make it safe for both sides of the transaction. Let these weird incel virgins pay a boatload for what they are not currently getting. I honestly think it will make a number of them a bit more normal to simply be with a woman.

If anything, they will have less money for AR-15s and body armor.

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Our boys are being feminized- don’t allow it if you want grandkids

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Male toxicity - women don't want to have anything to do with them.

No big surprise there.

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Anonymous wrote:Male toxicity - women don't want to have anything to do with them.

No big surprise there.

This is why the Latina faction of the Latinx population is so damaging, as they cater to boys’ boys.

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Anonymous wrote:Our boys are being feminized- don’t allow it if you want grandkids

There is so much wrong with this statement that I honestly don't know where to begin.

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Anonymous wrote:“Young men between 18 and 30 years of age saw one of the biggest declines in sexual activity, with 28 percent saying they had no sex over the last year. Young women in the same age range, however, report higher rates of sexual activity, with only 18 percent saying they had no sex in the past year.”

This sounds like the remaining 72 percent of men would be on average having more sex since the women rate is up. Maybe a variation of the winner take all economy, but with sex….lol

Maybe the women are having sex with each other.

This is another possible consideration, although I do question just how many women are now having their sexual urges satisfied this way. There is certainly an increasing gender/sexual fluidity, whereby some people are confusing strong liking for someone to be the same as sexual preference. I would just be very cautious about extrapolating this out to be some significant segment of the population.

All you would need is like 10% of the women for that…it is most likely what is happening.

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Anonymous wrote:This is easy. Women have increased their standards in men. Women can still easily get sex when they need it. Not so for the men.

And women can order sperm off the Internet if they want to have a baby, or use IVF/egg donation if they meet a man when they are older.

Those procedures do have a high failure rate and require a D&C which can not be preformed anymore. Also they usually fertilize a group of eggs which in some states would be consider a live person.

That would be a whole bunch of people in a petrie dish. Should the state name them when prosecuting everyone?

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Anonymous wrote:This is easy. Women have increased their standards in men. Women can still easily get sex when they need it. Not so for the men.

i see a lots of cat ladies and robot sex dolls in the future

Exactly.

When sex robots hit the market, young men aren’t even going to talk to young women anymore.

Good news for cats, I guess.

Lol it will not be just young men. The major market would be marred men. It is DCUM consensus that the vast majority of women(mostly married) are just having obligation sex with their partner(male or female).

I can see the cross selling buy a sex robot and get a free game!

But only for a decade or so. Younger men see less and less reason to get married (maybe women too? Not sure, but they want kids…)
So there will just be fewer married men in general

I have nephews and nieces 21-24(not 30 anyone over 25 is not young but is an adult). They do not date. They may hang out sometimes but a lot of times it is all internet related. So they tend to stay in the same groups with no outsider interaction. They also do not “go out” to meet the opposite sex. I do not think they are looking to meet the opposite sex when they go out or online specially the guys. They all went to “elite” private schools, big name universities and got great jobs at well know finance and consultancy firm making bank.

The times have changed. Each generation does its own thing.

Exactly my point.
I am curious to see if they ever get married/partnered and have kids though. And how they will meet their future spouse.