The rise of male virginity

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/

Article which is sited. Seem like people are just jumping to conclusions that fit their world views.

Looks like it started in 2012. It is not virgins but no sex in the past year. Both sexes were at roughly at 15% in 2012 male jumped from 15 to 28 and women leveled off with an uptick and another leveling off at 18%. The age group is really large 18-30. After 25 you are not considered young. You are in adulthood. Article also talks about 18-34 living with their parents. 35% of males and 29% of females. That is a scary number.

I think something happen to the data here. Maybe the males are defining sex differently vs women ans the increase of people living at home.

It's the rise of social media and gaming. Look at the timeline, it syncs up perfectly. Social media skews your views about attraction and what you "deserve" in a partner (women and men). Gaming distracts from a career and IRL relationships (vast majority men).





This country needs required military or civil service when these kids leave HS.

incels blame the 20/80 rule but i think the reality is cheap dopamines like video games and porn

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Legalize and regulate sex work.

Yes. Let's solve our issues of male violence and misogyny by promoting the idea that women's bodies are something to use and are a commodity. That will solve our cultural problems. /s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/

Article which is sited. Seem like people are just jumping to conclusions that fit their world views.

Looks like it started in 2012. It is not virgins but no sex in the past year. Both sexes were at roughly at 15% in 2012 male jumped from 15 to 28 and women leveled off with an uptick and another leveling off at 18%. The age group is really large 18-30. After 25 you are not considered young. You are in adulthood. Article also talks about 18-34 living with their parents. 35% of males and 29% of females. That is a scary number.

I think something happen to the data here. Maybe the males are defining sex differently vs women ans the increase of people living at home.

It's the rise of social media and gaming. Look at the timeline, it syncs up perfectly. Social media skews your views about attraction and what you "deserve" in a partner (women and men). Gaming distracts from a career and IRL relationships (vast majority men).





This country needs required military or civil service when these kids leave HS.

So men 18-30 would rather play video game vs have sex with a women….lol. What does that say about women’s sexual appeal to men? This is very bad news for women. Every third man you see is off the market. Too bad there is not salary/wealth component of the study. Would be interesting to see if the desirable wealthy men are not having sex at the same rate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/

Article which is sited. Seem like people are just jumping to conclusions that fit their world views.

Looks like it started in 2012. It is not virgins but no sex in the past year. Both sexes were at roughly at 15% in 2012 male jumped from 15 to 28 and women leveled off with an uptick and another leveling off at 18%. The age group is really large 18-30. After 25 you are not considered young. You are in adulthood. Article also talks about 18-34 living with their parents. 35% of males and 29% of females. That is a scary number.

I think something happen to the data here. Maybe the males are defining sex differently vs women ans the increase of people living at home.

It's the rise of social media and gaming. Look at the timeline, it syncs up perfectly. Social media skews your views about attraction and what you "deserve" in a partner (women and men). Gaming distracts from a career and IRL relationships (vast majority men).





This country needs required military or civil service when these kids leave HS.

incels blame the 20/80 rule but i think the reality is cheap dopamines like video games and porn

Maybe those cheap dopamines explain the 18% of women who do not have sex. Too much Downton Abbey and vibrators?

[Anonymous]

This is easy. Women have increased their standards in men. Women can still easily get sex when they need it. Not so for the men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is easy. Women have increased their standards in men. Women can still easily get sex when they need it. Not so for the men.

i see a lots of cat ladies and robot sex dolls in the future

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is easy. Women have increased their standards in men. Women can still easily get sex when they need it. Not so for the men.

i see a lots of cat ladies and robot sex dolls in the future

Exactly.

When sex robots hit the market, young men aren’t even going to talk to young women anymore.

Good news for cats, I guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is easy. Women have increased their standards in men. Women can still easily get sex when they need it. Not so for the men.

i see a lots of cat ladies and robot sex dolls in the future

Exactly.

When sex robots hit the market, young men aren’t even going to talk to young women anymore.

Good news for cats, I guess.

Lol it will not be just young men. The major market would be marred men. It is DCUM consensus that the vast majority of women(mostly married) are just having obligation sex with their partner(male or female).

I can see the cross selling buy a sex robot and get a free game!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Young women who are generally (generally!) less interested in sex than young men now have better things to do than providing it to them whether in forms of early marriage or otherwise.
Men scared by how easy it is to be accused of rape (not defending rapists but definitely false accusations out there)
Gender roles and dating rules are confusing/changing and fluid therefore many not playing the game
A culture of seclusion over videogames and obscure interests (always was there but I guess there’s an increase of virtual activities so that people don’t have to meet face to face)
Promiscuity out of fashion in general, hard to get a sexual partner without committing

There is also a rise in anti-woman media on the Internet. Incels, pickup artists, "men's rights" activists, and the "manosphere" generally has infected the attitudes of a lot of young men. The kind of messaging that encourages boys to give up on and/or hate women. (To your post, it makes them think that the risks of false rape accusations are way more likely that they actually are.)

Can’t disagree with you
The point is, it’s hard to get laid nowadays (for a young man at least)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Young women who are generally (generally!) less interested in sex than young men now have better things to do than providing it to them whether in forms of early marriage or otherwise.
Men scared by how easy it is to be accused of rape (not defending rapists but definitely false accusations out there)
Gender roles and dating rules are confusing/changing and fluid therefore many not playing the game
A culture of seclusion over videogames and obscure interests (always was there but I guess there’s an increase of virtual activities so that people don’t have to meet face to face)
Promiscuity out of fashion in general, hard to get a sexual partner without committing

There is also a rise in anti-woman media on the Internet. Incels, pickup artists, "men's rights" activists, and the "manosphere" generally has infected the attitudes of a lot of young men. The kind of messaging that encourages boys to give up on and/or hate women. (To your post, it makes them think that the risks of false rape accusations are way more likely that they actually are.)

Can’t disagree with you
The point is, it’s hard to get laid nowadays (for a young man at least)

I guess we really are returning to the 1950s!

[Anonymous]

I guess another issue is the feminization of men in the recent decade. While many women, especially the progressive ones, harp openly on social justice and gender fluidity, they can't fight biology and are naturally more attracted to traditional males who favor strength and order.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/

Article which is sited. Seem like people are just jumping to conclusions that fit their world views.

Looks like it started in 2012. It is not virgins but no sex in the past year. Both sexes were at roughly at 15% in 2012 male jumped from 15 to 28 and women leveled off with an uptick and another leveling off at 18%. The age group is really large 18-30. After 25 you are not considered young. You are in adulthood. Article also talks about 18-34 living with their parents. 35% of males and 29% of females. That is a scary number.

I think something happen to the data here. Maybe the males are defining sex differently vs women ans the increase of people living at home.

It's the rise of social media and gaming. Look at the timeline, it syncs up perfectly. Social media skews your views about attraction and what you "deserve" in a partner (women and men). Gaming distracts from a career and IRL relationships (vast majority men).





This country needs required military or civil service when these kids leave HS.

So men 18-30 would rather play video game vs have sex with a women….lol. What does that say about women’s sexual appeal to men? This is very bad news for women. Every third man you see is off the market. Too bad there is not salary/wealth component of the study. Would be interesting to see if the desirable wealthy men are not having sex at the same rate.

Well there’s nothing about wanting vs having sex. Maybe those men would love a happy go lucky girl without commitment hangups or any other hangups for that matter… but there aren’t many
It’s all anecdata but American women are generally harder to get than in many other countries I hear!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I guess another issue is the feminization of men in the recent decade. While many women, especially the progressive ones, harp openly on social justice and gender fluidity, they can't fight biology and are naturally more attracted to traditional males who favor strength and order.

Or maybe they are too busy harping and aren’t really having sex with anyone

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Young women who are generally (generally!) less interested in sex than young men now have better things to do than providing it to them whether in forms of early marriage or otherwise.
Men scared by how easy it is to be accused of rape (not defending rapists but definitely false accusations out there)
Gender roles and dating rules are confusing/changing and fluid therefore many not playing the game
A culture of seclusion over videogames and obscure interests (always was there but I guess there’s an increase of virtual activities so that people don’t have to meet face to face)
Promiscuity out of fashion in general, hard to get a sexual partner without committing

There is also a rise in anti-woman media on the Internet. Incels, pickup artists, "men's rights" activists, and the "manosphere" generally has infected the attitudes of a lot of young men. The kind of messaging that encourages boys to give up on and/or hate women. (To your post, it makes them think that the risks of false rape accusations are way more likely that they actually are.)

Can’t disagree with you
The point is, it’s hard to get laid nowadays (for a young man at least)

I guess we really are returning to the 1950s!

But without the perceived promise and attraction of marriage which used to drive many sexual encounters…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I guess another issue is the feminization of men in the recent decade. While many women, especially the progressive ones, harp openly on social justice and gender fluidity, they can't fight biology and are naturally more attracted to traditional males who favor strength and order.

Whatever gets you through the night…how is the video and sex robot?