Girlfriend Has An OnlyFans Account

[Anonymous]

Woman here. I had a sugar baby type deal with one guy while in college. I have several friends who were cam girls to pay for school. I don’t see an issue with it. I felt I might as well use my looks for something that was beneficial than dating guys my age for nothing. I came out of school with no college debt. I would do it again if I had to.

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Anonymous wrote:How did you find out?

OP here. She admitted it when I asked her why she was buying a bunch of lingerie and toys that she didn’t use with me.

Wait, she’s still doing it? Okay, that’s a flat out no from me. I would not be okay with my partner acting out sexually for other people’s gratification. Very few people would. It goes against everything our “lizard brains” tell us. Just no.

She enjoys sexual attention from strangers. He has to decide if he’s cool with that. Maybe for some guys it’s a turn on.

Personally the seeking of attention from strangers over the internet — sexual or not — suggests there is a deeper underlying issue in her self esteem. Does she not have any healthy outlets for feeling confident about herself? Over time that kind of insecurity can turn into other issues.

Yep. Cue the cheating and affairs in midlife. She will have profiles on affair websites down the road to her her fix of needed external validation.

She’s not right in the head. Hard pass

Agree the cracks show in mid life. Even if it doesn’t lead to infidelity, do you really want to deal with someone who lacks inner confidence and is willing to go to such lengths for external validation?

[Anonymous]

Woman here. I had a sugar baby type deal with one guy while in college. I have several friends who were cam girls to pay for school. I don’t see an issue with it. I felt I might as well use my looks for something that was beneficial than dating guys my age for nothing. I came out of school with no college debt. I would do it again if I had to.

Is everyone (you and your friends) married now?

[Anonymous]

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Woman here. I had a sugar baby type deal with one guy while in college. I have several friends who were cam girls to pay for school. I don’t see an issue with it. I felt I might as well use my looks for something that was beneficial than dating guys my age for nothing. I came out of school with no college debt. I would do it again if I had to.

Is everyone (you and your friends) married now?

All of us are with the exception of one is in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How did you find out?

OP here. She admitted it when I asked her why she was buying a bunch of lingerie and toys that she didn’t use with me.

Wait, she’s still doing it? Okay, that’s a flat out no from me. I would not be okay with my partner acting out sexually for other people’s gratification. Very few people would. It goes against everything our “lizard brains” tell us. Just no.

She enjoys sexual attention from strangers. He has to decide if he’s cool with that. Maybe for some guys it’s a turn on.

Personally the seeking of attention from strangers over the internet — sexual or not — suggests there is a deeper underlying issue in her self esteem. Does she not have any healthy outlets for feeling confident about herself? Over time that kind of insecurity can turn into other issues.

For many it is about the easy money. What happens in 10 years when she loses her looks? How does she make the easy money? These kind of women
are always looking for the next man to pay the bills. Kin K and Cardi B created this level of nastiness in our society.

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Anonymous wrote:You think it's cheating if she is posting naked pictures of herself on the internet?

OP here. It’s more than pics. She has admitted to playing w herself on camera.

Okay, so she is creating porn. How do you feel about that?

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Anonymous wrote:You think it's cheating if she is posting naked pictures of herself on the internet?

OP here. It’s more than pics. She has admitted to playing w herself on camera.

she's basically a prostitute. Doesn't matter that she doesn't actually touch the guy.

Would you feel ok having some random guy in public pointing her out?

She's basically a prostitute or porn actress. Before the online websites men would pay for this at those peep shows.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I had a sugar baby type deal with one guy while in college. I have several friends who were cam girls to pay for school. I don’t see an issue with it. I felt I might as well use my looks for something that was beneficial than dating guys my age for nothing. I came out of school with no college debt. I would do it again if I had to.

For me, the issue would be that gf is actively doing it and lied about it. I don’t believe that being on onlyfans is inherently bad or makes someone a lesser person. I do think this is information that should be shared with your partner.

[Anonymous]

If you consume porn, you’re really in no position to criticize. If it’s morally wrong for her to be involved, it’s morally wrong for you, too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you consume porn, you’re really in no position to criticize. If it’s morally wrong for her to be involved, it’s morally wrong for you, too.

If OP consider it "moral" issue, then yea, it's hypocritical cause he does watch porn.

But, IMO, watching it for entertainment is not the same as accepting that from your SO. He's watching a total stranger; she's not a total stranger.

[Anonymous]

She belongs in the streets. Also, what's her OnlyFans user id?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I had a sugar baby type deal with one guy while in college. I have several friends who were cam girls to pay for school. I don’t see an issue with it. I felt I might as well use my looks for something that was beneficial than dating guys my age for nothing. I came out of school with no college debt. I would do it again if I had to.

No. You wouldn't do it again because you couldn't. You're too old now and no sugar daddy would want you.

[Anonymous]

Dude, you knowingly dated someone who was a cam girl - A CAM GIRL - and are shocked she's doing gross stuff online? Leave her. And use better judgment next time.

[Anonymous]

what an unbelievable bunch of conservative jerks are on this site. she's not "basically" a prostitute or "basically" a porn star or "basically" cheating. she's not having sex with anyone, and she's not having an emiotonal relationship with anyone. she's performing, so it's most simliar to stripping, except she's doing it in a totally safe environment, where no one's groping her or waiting for her to come out the backdoor or pressuring her to have sex or doing drugs around her. and maybe she didn't reveal it because she was afraid that OP would react in precisely the lousy way he did react. can't blame her for that. if you want to teach people to be upfront about things like this, give them a better, more supportive and understanding - or damn, at least curious - reaction. stop confronting her and start trying to talk to her. plus, you should realize that you're lucky to have found someone who enjoys being sexual.

[Anonymous]

Picture?