| I found out my gf has an OnlyFans account. I believe she has a similar account on another social media platform. I confronted her and she said it’s no big deal. She used to work as a can girl to support herself and doesn’t see an issue with it because there is no cheating involved. I find it cheating. I love her but I’m questioning my relationship. I used to think she was such an amazing woman with strong morals values, but now I don’t know what to think. I know some will find it hot or be okay with it, but it sickens me. I don’t know if I should try to work through this or break up with her. |
| Ewwwww. Gross |
| Just break up with her. You're not able to respect her anymore. Don't waste her time or yours. |
| She’s a low class hooker. Pass. |
| She is not marriage material. This is a direction reflection of her morals and values. Can you imagine having a daughter and this be her role model? There are many women who have self-respect and moral. Please break up with her and go find one of them. |
| It wouldn’t work for me, especially since she still thinks it’s okay, but you have to decide if you can be okay with it. This really requires some introspection on your part. I don’t think any of us can provide an answer for you. |
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The downfall of civilization thanks to women who look up to birds like Kim K and Cardi B.
She’s for the streets as they say. You can’t turn a h*e into a housewife. |
| How did you find out? |
| She probably does have strong moral values, they just don't align with yours. So you should break up. |
| Future Ashley Madison cheater in middle age. Dump her skanky butt. |
| You think it's cheating if she is posting naked pictures of herself on the internet? |
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I think you should take at least a week to think about your values. Would you be ok continuing to date and possibly marry this lady when you know she'd continue with OnlyFans? (A week of thinking is needed to ensure you aren't making an off the cuff judgment)
You could have a conversation with her as well (after your week of thinking), letting her know that it's something that, while she might not feel its' cheating, you are extremely uncomfortable with. If your relationship will work, she has to be understanding of your point of view, but you also have to understand this might be her livelihood. You would have to prepare to support her financially (to the quality of life she is used to) if you request she give it up. Personally I am a woman and I would absolutely not be comfortable with my spouse (man or woman) having an OnlyFans. That said, if I really loved the girl I'd try to work things through first. If you off the cuff dump her and don't even try to communicate, you probably never really loved her
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| No big deal |
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Does she perform sex acts online or just bare her boobs and a$$.
If no sex acts, then IMO, not that different to our former first lady and playboy bunnies. Would you have an issue with dating a former playboy bunny, or Melania? If she performs sex acts for money, wether she touches the johns or not, she's just a glorified hooker. |
This. She probably thinks being a sugar baby is ok too. |