Yup yup yup, the sting especially. In our case, was more likely kids who were legacy or stood out in politics or moreso on an instrument. Sending you some extra mental strength. it's going to be a long RD. Hang in there! |
Thanks. Appreciate it. They would have applied to a different school that was less of a gamble, but everything they liked was ED, which we can't do. Then, in the meantime, they got the interview, and it went really well, and they had a decent nat'l award and got hopeful of at least deferral. Ah well. They just work so hard, I really wanted something that wasn't such a buzzkill, but they'll survive. |
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Same for my kid. High stat for everything. Magnet. Asian-American male. Wanted CS. Full Pay.
But, I am thinking that perhaps this may turn out a blessing in disguise because he has also applied to state schools and quite possibly will get into one. A kid with this kind of stat going to even a lower rated school remains the same kid. If he can save 300K in college cost then that is an immense leg up for him. As for the CS bit? He will still do the CS easily but will need to be creative in how he gets his first job and what he learns by himself. That should not be a problem for him because he is really a genius in CS. Yes, it will be a long RD road and the next 15 days are going to be awful because he will be back at the drawing table. But, que sera sera. Till date, every adversity has been a blessing in disguise. We are the luckiest family and so this will be no different from before. |
I'm not an expert on this, but it seems like going to these uber elite schools matters very little for most kids in terms of their professional trajectories. To the extent it does, it's for a few niche programs and a handful of specific careers (academia)....but I'm guessing for STEM and CS, going to a school like Yale is really no better than going to a strong state school.... |
| The resilience on display is impressive. |
You're old fashioned if you think Yale is looking for sjws. SJWs are a dime a dozen. |
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| DD’s best friend was accepted. 1600/3.99 unweighted/14 AP classes from our public school in California. Not a legacy, first generation or minority and full need based scholarship. Amazing young woman. She is waiting on MIT - Yale is not her first choice! |
| Op, my DC went through it a few years ago. It stung! It does work out though. DC ended up at a school that is a great fit and is very happy and not looking back. Best of luck to your DD. |
Very odd to not use her SCEA on MIT if that is her first choice. Why would she not have done that? |
Is it really true? It doesn’t seem so for TJHSST kids. |
What do you mean? They admit a ton from TJ every year. |
MIT will be out on Saturday. She better not have applied early to both Yale and MIT. That’s wrong. |
No. You can't do that. She must have applied regular decision to MIT. |
It they take like 2-3 students from a small private school every year and 4-7 from TJ, I don’t think the percentage works out. Also, these TJ kids work so hard, I dare to say average TJ kids work harder than many top students at base schools. |