Boyfriend and I Don’t Agree On Wedding

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

OP here. My cousin married her sisters rapist. That’s ghetto.

What? That is crazy.

OP here. He is also raising the kid with my cousin who was a result of the rape. My cousin ( who was raped at 14) is now protecting my cousins ( her sisters) 15 daughter because the husband had made passes at her. My cousin refuses to believe it.

How is he raising the kid with the other cousin? I think you're making shit up.

OP here. I’m not. You clearly can’t comprehend what I’m saying.

My cousins ( sisters) are who I’m taking about. While my older cousin was dating the man who is now her husband, he raped her 14 year old sister and got her pregnant. They broke up ( not because of this) and later reconnected and got married. He fully acknowledges it’s his son and is now raising with my older cousin because my younger cousin couldn’t control and handle him ( two armed robbery charges at 17). My oldest cousins 15 year old daughter went to live with my younger cousin because my oldest cousins husband has been making passes at her. My oldest cousin doesn’t believe it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

OP here. My cousin married her sisters rapist. That’s ghetto.

What? That is crazy.

OP here. He is also raising the kid with my cousin who was a result of the rape. My cousin ( who was raped at 14) is now protecting my cousins ( her sisters) 15 daughter because the husband had made passes at her. My cousin refuses to believe it.

How is he raising the kid with the other cousin? I think you're making shit up.

She said her cousins and said they were sisters.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

OP here. I don’t care about being sensitive.

And we don't care about your wedding.

OP here. Then don’t reply.

I can see why you are having trouble coming to an agreement with your boyfriend you don't want to hear any opinion but your own, and when other's suggest something you don't like you either get nasty or have a million and one excuses as to why you can't do a reasonable thing. .

It's pretty easy not to use the term ghetto which is offensive, instead, you just doubled down.

But let's be real here, you don't actually want to talk about planning your wedding or get advice on that you want to gossip about your cousin being molested.

OP here. I said I don’t care about being sensitive. PP can decide not to come on here all she wants. I’m not going to be sensitive because her feelings might get hurt.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

OP here. I don’t care about being sensitive.

And we don't care about your wedding.

OP here. Then don’t reply.

I can see why you are having trouble coming to an agreement with your boyfriend you don't want to hear any opinion but your own, and when other's suggest something you don't like you either get nasty or have a million and one excuses as to why you can't do a reasonable thing. .

It's pretty easy not to use the term ghetto which is offensive, instead, you just doubled down.

But let's be real here, you don't actually want to talk about planning your wedding or get advice on that you want to gossip about your cousin being molested.

OP here. I said I don’t care about being sensitive. PP can decide not to come on here all she wants. I’m not going to be sensitive because her feelings might get hurt.

It's not just me who told you ghetto was inappropriate. SEveral posters did and you doubled down on your ignorance. Your BF should run you are as toxic as the family you don't want to come to your wedding.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

OP here. I don’t care about being sensitive.

And we don't care about your wedding.

OP here. Then don’t reply.

I can see why you are having trouble coming to an agreement with your boyfriend you don't want to hear any opinion but your own, and when other's suggest something you don't like you either get nasty or have a million and one excuses as to why you can't do a reasonable thing. .

It's pretty easy not to use the term ghetto which is offensive, instead, you just doubled down.

But let's be real here, you don't actually want to talk about planning your wedding or get advice on that you want to gossip about your cousin being molested.

OP here. I said I don’t care about being sensitive. PP can decide not to come on here all she wants. I’m not going to be sensitive because her feelings might get hurt.

OP, you called your family “ghetto”. May I observe that the apple hasn’t fallen far from the tree? Your responses are truly execrable.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

OP here. I don’t care about being sensitive.

And we don't care about your wedding.

OP here. Then don’t reply.

I can see why you are having trouble coming to an agreement with your boyfriend you don't want to hear any opinion but your own, and when other's suggest something you don't like you either get nasty or have a million and one excuses as to why you can't do a reasonable thing. .

It's pretty easy not to use the term ghetto which is offensive, instead, you just doubled down.

But let's be real here, you don't actually want to talk about planning your wedding or get advice on that you want to gossip about your cousin being molested.

OP here. I said I don’t care about being sensitive. PP can decide not to come on here all she wants. I’m not going to be sensitive because her feelings might get hurt.

It's not just me who told you ghetto was inappropriate. SEveral posters did and you doubled down on your ignorance. Your BF should run you are as toxic as the family you don't want to come to your wedding.

OP here. Cry more. Take your work white savior nonsense somewhere else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

Then ignore it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:what about 60-80 people? Both your stepdad and bio dad could walk you down the aisle together. Or courthouse ceremony with a big party a few months later?

OP here. I don’t want my bio dad to walk me down the aisle. He was never really in my life and honestly has no manners. He acts like a child. My stepdad has been there for me my whole life. I know I will get backlash from some family members if I exclude my dad from the wedding. He will not come if he doesn’t walk me down the aisle.

Why does someone have to walk you down the aisle? This is not 1921, no one is giving you away.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

Then ignore it.

You are a delight! Were you raised in a barn?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

OP here. I don’t care about being sensitive.

And we don't care about your wedding.

OP here. Then don’t reply.

I can see why you are having trouble coming to an agreement with your boyfriend you don't want to hear any opinion but your own, and when other's suggest something you don't like you either get nasty or have a million and one excuses as to why you can't do a reasonable thing. .

It's pretty easy not to use the term ghetto which is offensive, instead, you just doubled down.

But let's be real here, you don't actually want to talk about planning your wedding or get advice on that you want to gossip about your cousin being molested.

OP here. I said I don’t care about being sensitive. PP can decide not to come on here all she wants. I’m not going to be sensitive because her feelings might get hurt.

It's not just me who told you ghetto was inappropriate. SEveral posters did and you doubled down on your ignorance. Your BF should run you are as toxic as the family you don't want to come to your wedding.

OP here. Cry more. Take your work white savior nonsense somewhere else.

Does your boyfriend know you're a racist? YOur family drama is the least of your issues.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

OP here. I don’t care about being sensitive.

And we don't care about your wedding.

OP here. Then don’t reply.

I can see why you are having trouble coming to an agreement with your boyfriend you don't want to hear any opinion but your own, and when other's suggest something you don't like you either get nasty or have a million and one excuses as to why you can't do a reasonable thing. .

It's pretty easy not to use the term ghetto which is offensive, instead, you just doubled down.

But let's be real here, you don't actually want to talk about planning your wedding or get advice on that you want to gossip about your cousin being molested.

OP here. I said I don’t care about being sensitive. PP can decide not to come on here all she wants. I’m not going to be sensitive because her feelings might get hurt.

It's not just me who told you ghetto was inappropriate. SEveral posters did and you doubled down on your ignorance. Your BF should run you are as toxic as the family you don't want to come to your wedding.

OP here. Cry more. Take your work white savior nonsense somewhere else.

Does your boyfriend know you're a racist? YOur family drama is the least of your issues.

Once someone plays the race card the whole post is going to be about nothing else.

[Anonymous]

50/50 will not work in your situation, you should pay as you. If you invite 20 people then you pay for them only. Let him invite and pay all the cost for his guests.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

Then ignore it.

You are a delight! Were you raised in a barn?

Maybe she was raised in a ghetto.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

OP here. I don’t care about being sensitive.

And we don't care about your wedding.

OP here. Then don’t reply.

I can see why you are having trouble coming to an agreement with your boyfriend you don't want to hear any opinion but your own, and when other's suggest something you don't like you either get nasty or have a million and one excuses as to why you can't do a reasonable thing. .

It's pretty easy not to use the term ghetto which is offensive, instead, you just doubled down.

But let's be real here, you don't actually want to talk about planning your wedding or get advice on that you want to gossip about your cousin being molested.

OP here. I said I don’t care about being sensitive. PP can decide not to come on here all she wants. I’m not going to be sensitive because her feelings might get hurt.

It's not just me who told you ghetto was inappropriate. SEveral posters did and you doubled down on your ignorance. Your BF should run you are as toxic as the family you don't want to come to your wedding.

OP here. Cry more. Take your work white savior nonsense somewhere else.

Does your boyfriend know you're a racist? YOur family drama is the least of your issues.

Using the term ghetto does not make you a racist. The word racist has lost its true meaning that’s to idiots like you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is your family ghetto? If you’re white, that’s racist.

No it’s not.

Racist or not, it’s a distasteful adjective that should be excised from the vocabulary of anyone aspiring to sensitivity and/or refinement.

Then ignore it.

You are a delight! Were you raised in a barn?

Maybe she was raised in a ghetto.

Maybe she was.

Op, you're getting ahead of yourself. Get engaged first. Or maybe even figure out if you really want to be married.