Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
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Anonymous
| Keeping in line with the theme of the other thread. What say you, ladies? |
Anonymous
| Don't be broke. Be a mind reader. Have muscles and hair. |
Anonymous
| Help out without us having to ask. Don't want us fat, don't bring fatty shit to the house. Do your share. Be okay with me going to happy hour with friends. Get your own hobbies and your own friends. |
Anonymous
| Be ambitious and want to make something of yourself. Want to provide for your children and wife. |
Anonymous
| Stay in shape. Love the sh*t out of me and our kiddos. Be an equal partner. |
Anonymous
| Have a big dick and know how to use it and dont have a beer belly or a bald head. |
Anonymous
| Surprise me with a hug, or a little shoulder rub, or a dance around the kitchen just because. Send me to sit on the couch after dinner with my feet up once in a blue moon while you clean up and put the kids to bed. Send me a text message in the middle of the day that says I love you. |
Anonymous
| Say what you mean and mean what you say. |
Anonymous
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Don't sit on the couch for extended periods while I'm doing chores.
Send me love notes just because. Every once in a while, do something sexy to sweep me off my feet. Jewelry for no reason. Tell me you cherish me. |
Anonymous
Be funny and make people around you laugh every single day 
(but unfortunately you cannot make yourself funny - you either are or aren't. And most men (and women) are not  )
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Anonymous
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Virile
Kind Generous Smart Knows how to fix stuff Resourceful Loving Ambitious You don't need to buy me anything! |
Anonymous
| If the words, "I cherish you" ever came out of my mouth while speaking to my wife, she'd laugh me out of the room. |
Anonymous
I was thinking about this the other day. All of those romantic songs (especially the ones from the 70s and 80s). Kenn Rogers, all the other duets, etc. Lady in Red. If you actually spoke the lyrics to your wife or girlfriend, they would think it was the most pansy, unattractive thing ever. Somehow it's OK to hear it in a song or read it in a poem, but not hear it from your man. |
Anonymous
| My DH lost 80lbs and lifts weights. I was not attracted to him when he was obese. I can't get enough of him now. |
Anonymous
I'd gag at most of this. Choreplay doesn't work on me either. |