Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?

[Anonymous]

Lift weights. Lose the beer gut.

[Anonymous]

Based on the two threads, men and women want the same thing: partners who are not fat. When a man suggests such a thing, he's a pig. When a woman suggests such a thing, she's a woman.

[Anonymous]

I agree with the shallow comment. It's a lot more than being physically attractive. I think some of these women are being just as "piggish" as the men on the other thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree with the shallow comment. It's a lot more than being physically attractive. I think some of these women are being just as "piggish" as the men on the other thread.

Both threads are about physical attraction. It's okay for men AND women to want that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the words, "I cherish you" ever came out of my mouth while speaking to my wife, she'd laugh me out of the room.

yes i would too.
Give me a man with a sense of irony, sarcasm and humour - no unimaginative and cheesy romantic gestures sourced from the internet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I agree with the shallow comment. It's a lot more than being physically attractive. I think some of these women are being just as "piggish" as the men on the other thread.

Both threads are about physical attraction. It's okay for men AND women to want that.

But the fact is that a physically unattractive man can more easily attract women than a physically unattractive woman can attract a man.

And no, it is not more "shallow" to value looks rather than money or status.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Poop silently

So true

[Anonymous]

Be kind to others. Show empathy to those who deserve it.

Have a great sense of humor. Nothing is more attractive in a man than the ability to make people laugh on cue.

Practice common sense and use it wisely.

And please...If lost, ask for directions.

That's hot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the words, "I cherish you" ever came out of my mouth while speaking to my wife, she'd laugh me out of the room.

But then you would win for making her laugh.

[Anonymous]

I look for a man what I'd look for in a woman friend too- someone who is kind, lacks drama, is intelligent, and is fun to be around.

I don't expect you to make some huge effort to look hot but at least care about your health and have a presentable appearance (clean, normally dressed, not obese, smells ok).

And you don't have to be some sort of super high earner but at least care and have a plan for your career.

And if you have kids, I just want you to care about them, their futures, and be engaged with them.

Same with me- just care. It's the little things that count- little kindnesses, showing you care.

[Anonymous]

Put in effort - in bed, around the house, with your appearance. Dress nicely and smell good. Be well groomed. Be a gentleman. Be patient. Be kind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I agree with the shallow comment. It's a lot more than being physically attractive. I think some of these women are being just as "piggish" as the men on the other thread.

Both threads are about physical attraction. It's okay for men AND women to want that.

But the fact is that a physically unattractive man can more easily attract women than a physically unattractive woman can attract a man.

And no, it is not more "shallow" to value looks rather than money or status.

I think both men and women mostly judge on appearances.

It's just that woman prefer different things, like height and sort of an impressive and competent appearance. Those are still "looks." A woman will tolerate being slightly out of shape from a tall and strong looking man who dresses we'll and gives off a vibe of competence, but being tall and strong are still a part of your appearance.

[Anonymous]

Be rich. The rest will follow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree with the shallow comment. It's a lot more than being physically attractive. I think some of these women are being just as "piggish" as the men on the other thread.

Why does biology upset you so much?

Evolutionary loser?

[Anonymous]

I like a guy who knows how to use a vacuum cleaner. And do laundry. And load a dishwasher.