Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?

[Anonymous]

Listen
Talk
Laugh
Share chores
Be kind
Don't get more than ten pounds overweight
Have good hygiene
Be an interesting conversationalist

[Anonymous]

Talk to me. Listen to me. Want me.

[Anonymous]

Poop silently

[Anonymous]

Strong morals
Great sense of humor
Mature
Good career
Manly: can handle a drill and diagnose what's wrong with a car.
Good manners

[Anonymous]

Don't get fat. Exercise. Dress nice.

[Anonymous]

Eat healthy and workout--outdoors if at all possible (run, bike, swim, row, hike...)
Shave your face
Trim
I find a man who can do home repairs/fix things SO attractive. Especially if you take the initiative/I don't need to nag and beg you to do it
Be a gentleman. Open doors, give up your seat on a crowded bus for someone who needs it more than you do, take off your hat indoors

[Anonymous]

Don't have anger issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the words, "I cherish you" ever came out of my mouth while speaking to my wife, she'd laugh me out of the room.

I was thinking about this the other day. All of those romantic songs (especially the ones from the 70s and 80s). Kenn Rogers, all the other duets, etc. Lady in Red. If you actually spoke the lyrics to your wife or girlfriend, they would think it was the most pansy, unattractive thing ever. Somehow it's OK to hear it in a song or read it in a poem, but not hear it from your man.

I was thinking about this last night when I was listening to the Temptations singing "Ain't too proud to beg." He talks about how he doesn't mind looking weak or people laughing at him begging because it's that important that the girl stay with him. If the guy actually did these things, the woman would not be attracted to him, but the way David Ruffin belts it out, it's badass.

[Anonymous]

DH now lifts weights and hot a hair transplant - perfect

[Anonymous]

Be physically strong and fit. With a decent diet and a good weight lifting regimen, most men can achieve it. It's the single biggest turn on for me when a man is muscular.

Make time for sex and don't always follow the same pattern. Be ready to spice things up and get naughty.

Be physically affectionate. Be playful. Be dominant in the bedroom.

Outside the bedroom, be an equal partner, e.g. the initiative on kid issues (feeding, bathing, etc).

Be a good provider: you don't have to make tons of money, but pull your weight and seek out ways to grow your career.

Treat my family nicely. Tell me to take a break sometimes. Tell me, with words, how much you appreciate me.

Not everyone has to do all of these things all the time, but even some of these attributes will make a man more attractive .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have a big dick and know how to use it and dont have a beer belly or a bald head.

I'm f#$@ed. 4x

[Anonymous]

Have some confidence.

Be a generous lover and don't expect your penis to be all it takes to make ME feel good.

Treat our kids well. Be a decent parent. Don't add stress by making it harder.

[Anonymous]

No flab! Listen to me and ask me about my day, feelings, thoughts.

[Anonymous]

Being bald is okay. But if you're going bald, shave your head and rock it - that's hella sexy.

Dress well for your body. Men can get free personal shoppers at Macys too.

If you have hair that grows in weird parts of your body, take care of that before I notice it. Manscape.

Don't let me hear bodily functions. Nothing you do in the bathroom is anything I want to know about.

[Anonymous]

lots of very shallow women on this thread