My DH left the house to meet a girl...
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Anonymous
| On Friday night, my husband of 10yrs told me he was going to the gym but he went to meet a girl and they kissed. I found out about it today because I sensed something was up and checked his log. I don't want to dissolve my marriage but I'm crushed and violated. Is it possible to move on? Please help. |
Anonymous
| He sounds like a skeezeball. Sorry OP, I think meeting a divorce attorney would be appropriate. |
Anonymous
| Start hiding money. Prepare to exit ... |
Anonymous
| We need more info..and you need more time. take some deep breaths..meet up with some close friends..take care of yourself first and foremost. |
Anonymous
| If it was a girl, you need to call the police. If it was a woman then you just need to work on your relationship. He must feel bad about it if he told you |
Anonymous
| His log? |
Anonymous
| I wouldn't put up with cheating. |
Anonymous
| Get into couples counseling stat. |
Anonymous
| We have been together for 17yrs. We have two little girls and yes, our marriage has been on the rocks but I never saw this coming. I trust this guy with my life but my gut told me something was wrong when his gym trip didn't end by midnight. So I checked his phone log and sure enough, he had been texting a number I didn't recognize fairly consistently. He lied and told me some story but I pushed and he confessed. They kissed once. But it was the calculated nature of their encounter that has me shaken up. This is crushing to me but I'm so committed that I want to move past this. Is it possible? What will it take? How can I trust him again? Our house is full of guests so this is tough to concentrate when I feel paralyzed. He told me he had lied to the girl and told her he was separated but called to tell her the truth today. Apparently she was pissed. I don't care about her but I don't know what to focus on. |
Anonymous
| Oh, OP. Odds are they didn't just kiss. |
Anonymous
| I'm so sorry op. You've touched the tip of the ice berg. Give him a bj tonight - with teeth. |
Anonymous
| You realize that he most likely didnt just kiss her, right? Everyone confesses to the bare minimum. |
Anonymous
| Have him calll her in front of you. My money is on that they didn't just kiss. What a dick. |
Anonymous
| My wife did a similar thing. You will get explanations and excuses and perhaps never the whole story. It's worth not doing anything rash at the moment but I would go to couples counseling for a safe place to talk and see where it goes. |
Anonymous
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Who has a phone log?
I delete all calls and voice mails everyday. Private browse. The only log is in the bowl. |