My DH left the house to meet a girl...

[Anonymous]

As a man, I can with 100% confidence tell you that they didn't just kiss. I would assume they had sex.

[Anonymous]

Op here. He swears they only kissed. I don't believe anything anymore. He wasn't gone long enough to fuck. But I don't know anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He swears they only kissed. I don't believe anything anymore. He wasn't gone long enough to fuck. But I don't know anymore.

gym trip didn't end until midnight? not gone long enough to fuck? is his nickname the hedgehog? I call troll.

[Anonymous]

It takes mere minutes to do the deed. He had sex,

Make him call her and put the phone on speaker. Decide after you hear the whole story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He swears they only kissed. I don't believe anything anymore. He wasn't gone long enough to fuck. But I don't know anymore.

They always swear they only kissed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who has a phone log?
I delete all calls and voice mails everyday.
Private browse.

The only log is in the bowl.

You sound paranoid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He swears they only kissed. I don't believe anything anymore. He wasn't gone long enough to fuck. But I don't know anymore.

They always swear they only kissed.

So true. Just like everyone tells a cop they only had two beers.

[Anonymous]

Troll.

[Anonymous]

I so wish I was a troll. OMG.

[Anonymous]

Yes, you can move on with this. My sister and her husband went through something very similar 4 years ago. It's taken a lot of patience, hard work and therapy, but they've made it through. The key will be whether your husband wants to work on this.

Make no decisions about anything--not whether to stay married or to get divorced. No moving out or any other changes. Just get to a good marriage counselor stat. If he refuses to go, well then, there's your answer. You need to go alone so you can figure out your next steps.

[Anonymous]

Therapists in DC must be filthy rich.

[Anonymous]

It depends if OP's DH is alpha.

If he is, OP has more incentive to stay.

If not, then she won't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Start hiding money. Prepare to exit ...

amen

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It depends if OP's DH is alpha.

If he is, OP has more incentive to stay.

If not, then she won't.

Lol. You MRAs are so sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He swears they only kissed. I don't believe anything anymore. He wasn't gone long enough to fuck. But I don't know anymore.

They always swear they only kissed.

And they always say the "I told her everything" story.

I doubt he told her anything close to the truth, just as he is not telling you anything close to the truth.
Good idea about speaker phone, but honestly, what will that do other than continue the back and forth. You have to figure out if you want to stay with him knowing that he cheated or whether you want to move on. Take care of yourself. Get your thoughts in order, save money, get your professional life in order (if you are sahm or have cut back on work to take care of your kids).

Good luck to you.