
Lord! Your agreeing with your own statement doesn't make it right. |
That doesn't count. |
It being right is what makes it right. |
For football and basketball you might have a point, but rich/UMC families use sports as a backdoor into the Ivies. Sports like crew, polo, squash and other obscure sports act as “affirmative action” for affluent kids. They are often white. The idea that they generate interest and donations for the school is the same rationale for keeping legacy admissions. They are both problematic. |
I don’t necessarily disagree with the idea that they’re problematic on some level, but at the same time those athletes, no matter the sport, stay connected through their sport and often end up in high-dollar professions in part because of their sport. Networking etc etc. And that drives donations, and donations drive endowments, and endowments pay for operating costs. It’s a business, and the sooner people get that, the easier it is to stomach. l But remember, the product that the Ivies are selling is NOT education, it’s prestige. Care more about education and less about prestige and you and your children will live much happier lives. |
DP. Let me ask a broader question. Why, precisely, are things such as legacy admissions and athletic set-asides problematic? |
Pretty easy, legacy admissions is essentially favoritism since often legacy admits don't have to show anywhere as much rigor in the process as other applicants. As for athletic shoo ins, it shows that colleges prioritize sports and $$ over education (while there are exceptions, very many of the athletes are not into learning; they've been busy with sports their whole life). |
So what? I mean, seriously, so what? In the case of legacies, schools are prioritizing taking care of their alumni by giving preferential treatment to their children to secure donations. In the case of athletics, schools are deciding that being competitive in those sports are important enough that they’re going to get preference in admissions. My guess is that your argument is that those things SHOULDN’T be important to these prestigious institutions. But they are. So the key question becomes - if you disagree with their priorities, why are you still obsessed with getting your kids in there? And the answer, invariably, is your thirst for prestige. But that means you have to play the game you’re in. |
Exactly right, I disagree with the premise of colleges being primarily a business and secondarily an avenue for education; I think it's a terrible thing for our society and leads to messed up kids and families. I don't personally give a hoot about prestige, but if you look at top institutions, they obviously also provide an excellent education in many of their programs, if they didn't, they wouldn't have become prestigious. So yes, I think it's ridiculous that a large percentage of admits are not for education reasons. |
They are sports teams combined with hedge funds that teach some classes on the side. |
So either play the game or don’t. They would cease to exist if not for the way that they exist. So either play the game or don’t. |
#fakenews |
It is a silly notion to not believe that some kids are indeed smarter than others, and much smarter, without actually having to try that hard. I work in an industry that attracts a lot of really bright people, but everyone knows who the really, really, smart people are. They are the ones who have photographic memories and the ability to think, reason and cut through the weeds much faster than others. They produce massive quantities of high-quality work quickly and efficiently. They also manage to have families that they spend time with, coach their kid's soccer team, and do things like community theater or partake in juried photography exhibitions in their spare time. They aren't on anti-depressants and they don't take drugs to increase their stamina. They just have a ton of stamina because the act of living doesn't wear them out. They have energy at the end of the day because everything is just easier for them. Some people just have a greater capacity than others, it's not about being more organized or working harder, they are just brilliant. You know it when you see it. As an adult, I know who I want on my team, and trust me it isn't the guy who stays up all night long burning the midnight oil, night after night, after night. Because inevitably they crash and burn...when one week rolls into the next, and the next, and they are just keeping up. So they quit and decide to stay home with the kids, or they get a gov't job or teach... all things they could have done without having to go through the experience of pushing themselves past exhaustion and then burning out and flaming out. I've seen your now adult kids in the workplace and it isn't pretty. Churn and burn baby. |
Nailed it. Spot the hell on. The kids you’re referring to are derisively called the “try-hards” at TJ. They are overworked, miserable, and invariably end up at VCU despite their solid GPAs. |
My neighbor was boasting about this after their kid got into TJ. Basically the prep centers performed exit interviews on students who'd recently taken the test to compile question banks. The county inevitably reused questions so many it seen them at the prep centers. |