DP - we are in a recession. The economy, and specifically the local job market, has been deliberately crashed. I am not one who expects telework to return anytime soon, but "just get another job" is a clueless response. It's the kind of thing people say when they don't want to acknowledge the harm being caused. I think some of the PPs are clueless in their expectations (understatement) but that doesn't negate the lasting harm being done. You shouldn't shrug it off and pretend that harm is legitimate organizational goal of public servants. |
Again, why don’t you tell us how YOU think it would have played out if the agency had simply reverted back to 2019 policies? The EO/memo clearly gave agency heads wide discretion to “make exemptions they deem necessary.” And said that it should be implemented “consistent with applicable law.” Also said “as soon as practicable.” Those are two (possibly 3) HUGE outs. Yet the agency chose to throw out the CBA and go all-in by mid April. That was a CHOICE. You may agree with it, but don’t pretend it wasn’t a choice. The EO very easily could have instead simply said, “require all employees to return to in-person work for ALL working hours, unless an employee has a reasonable accommodation under applicable law.” Period. Why didn’t it? Just poor drafting? Didn’t think of it? |
Yep, it's this and only this. They want people to quit and that's all it is. |
You seem to like using “clueless” a lot. I think you should look into using it as an adjective for yourself. If anyone is clueless, it’s you! You’re the employee they actually want to get rid of because you’re the one on spa day, massages, laundry, cooking and everything else inbetween the real hours you work. And hence, can’t get over the fact that it is now gone and will come up with all sorts of absurd scenarios about DT hoping management and leadership takes one for employees like you. Guess what—they’ve decided and they don’t care to. They want people like you out. So please leave! You’re just not that important! Go find a job that will give you that flexibility with this pay. |
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A country that doesn't support high performing working parents doesn't have the morals to create an intelligent, functioning society. No wonder we see school shootings, people are anxious, depressed, this country will prioritize everything over working parents. BTW, I am not a fed but I did a 1.5 hr each way commute when my kids were between 2 yrs to 8yrs old, after that we moved inside the beltway 20 mins from my work and also Covid happened, now I WFH 3 days a week and my kids are also rising high schoolers so yes, I lucked out in the sense that between 9 yr - 13 yr of their age I WFH completely. I can't express how helpful it was to be able to earn and be present at home.
I know firsthand how families struggle to provide financially, do long commutes and then take out time for their children. If possible, I don't want other moms to go through what I did for 6 yrs, I want better for other moms, I want better for my own daughter. Yes, I am aware there are certain professions where WFH accommodations are not possible but just because we can't do it for some doesn't mean we shouldn't do it for the rest, it is important that as a society we provide working parents as much support as possible. I am looking at you, the party of "family values"[/quote] +1000000000 You put into words exactly how I feel. I feel floored to see women snapping at other women in this thread. Shouldn’t we want to help each generation progress and have greater ability to find fulfillment through work, family, and personal interests? I also hope it is better for the next generation. I feel like a failure to have this happen during my lifetime. [/quote] Yep thank you! I posted before in response to the breastfeeding comment. Many of us just want to be present for our children as much as possible while also working. Telework, even the two day hybrid schedule we had during covid allowed for that. I have a 10 year old, 8 year old and 3 year old. Thankfully my husband works from home most of the time so is able to do drop off and pick up. My older two finish at 3 pm three days a week. Other than picking them up at the bus stop which takes my husband 5 minutes, they are pretty much self sufficient. They come home, prepare their own snacks and entertain each other. They have a tutor come in at 4 pm to teach them my mother tongue so they are pretty busy until I come back. Two days a week they are enrolled in an after school program and are done at 4:30 pm. My youngest is in daycare and her daycare closes at 6 pm. Before returning to the office full time, I would drop all three kids off at the morning and be home by 8 am to start my work day. I woke them up and prepared breakfast and we all ate together. My husband would get an early start at work and was responsible for pick up. Now I leave at 6:30 am so that I can be in the office at 7:30 am so they see me for 5 minutes in the morning, if at all. I leave the office at 4 pm and I am in the house at around 5 pm. My husband still does the daycare pick up because I am rushing to prepare dinner (we split our duties… I cook and he does laundry). My three year old is now super clingy because she barely sees me. My older two miss me. I miss out on their random conversations and discussions in the morning. Sure we have dinner together but it’s less time than before. I love my job and felt like I could balance being a good mother and a parent. Now I am seeing my children less and I don’t think that’s a good thing. We were advancing so much when it came to balancing work life and home life. Now we are going backwards. I am lucky that I don’t have the child care issues that many people have, and if my husband has to go to the office we tons of support. [/quote] ALL of this. I only want to add that we are also living through an adolescent mental health crisis. Allowing families flexibility is crucial for the future of the generations we are raising. |
PP here. Understood. I’m not shrugging it off but being pragmatic. I’ve known quite a few people who have recently found new jobs. I think it’s a bit defeatist to just assume you must continue working at the SEC. Jobs and industries and even cities change and people typically fare the best when they accept this and take action. |
| ^Yes finding another job is an option but the reality is for most people it won't be quick. YMMV but everyone I know that's been able to leave and be gainfully employed - so not leaving to retire or be a stay home parent - is either very senior/like SO level or very young, as in can go to any biglaw firm as a 2nd-4th yr associate. That leaves a ton of 30-50 somethings all looking for the same opportunities. Not saying one should be defeatist and say oh well it'll never happen but the reality is everyone could be here a while - so I see why people are trying to figure out the boundaries/stretch the boundaries etc to make this workable. |
I think there’s also an attitude that the SEC is the only place they can work, and they can’t accept that the terms of employment have changed and it’s time to move on. Many government employees are risk adverse and the prospect of changing jobs is scary. There is also a certain entitlement about what they deserve working for the SEC. I’d guarantee that most SEC employees complaining and trying to stretch boundaries haven’t even worked on their resume. |
Omg yes. I’ve worked here for a long time but not as long as most of my coworkers - 8 yrs. In my mind you always keep your resume sharp, keep networking bc you never know when you’ll need or want to leave a place. And even with all that there’s no guarantee of a job ASAP unless you’re an SO or 2nd year associate. My colleagues maybe they are working on resumes, networking etc, I obviously don’t know what anyone is doing. But on the surface it looks like a TON of time and energy is being spent complaining about RTO, worrying about how much telework they can get away with, planning days off etc. |
| Spa days, massages, laundry, cooking and everything else inbetween the real hours you work. |
Yes. I can empathize as I lost my job with the financial crisis. I had to move cities and practically start a new career. Plenty of people have done something similar. To sit back and insist you must live in DC and work for the SEC is likely a bad decision. If you want to come out of this ahead, you work on your resume, network and interview for any good job with a salary you can accept. This includes in any metro in the US. For whatever reason there seem to be hoards of government employees (I am including SEC) who are too good to look for a new job or consider relocating. Just read the post going in about how challenging it is to find a new job. Of course it is! But millions of Americans start new jobs every year. SEC employees are not so special that they can’t also do so. My prediction is that next on the list will be heavily monitoring employee computer usage, badge swipes and massive RIFs. |
I assumed badge swipes are already being monitored? At least my group is functioning that way - very nervous to be out of the building for 31 minutes. But in any event yeah few years after the recession, I didn’t get promoted at an up and out company and got pushed out so I’ve always been of the - nothing is forever, be prepared to move or start over - view of the world, even in a “good” government job like SEC. That is not at all my coworkers’ view as best I can tell. |
| I am not at the SEC but a different agency and my attitude is when the current working conditions get too annoying I will look for another job but to say people should be ready to relocate anywhere in the US at the drop of a hat and anything else is silly is a bit much. If someone is single perhaps. But for people with mortgages, spouses who have a job in the area, kids who might be finishing up high school etc it’s not really tenable. |
It’s not. They thought they were set for life with a cushy $250k job with WFH 3x a week and you can’t get fired. |
It is if you want to pay your bills and keep saving for retirement. Right now people are still delusional about employment in DC and the future state. The challenge that very few people at the SEC have lived through true trauma. They don’t have the grit or drive to find a new job in Dallas or New York or wherever. But their mortgage! But their kids in HS! So they stay put and pester their manager about WFH. |