Ask me anything: I am a kept woman

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No, I don't know that. You don't know it either.
You all are very concentrated on the wife and how he's married. We don't talk about his marriage when we're together. Even if he's having sex with her every night that he's home, it's fine with me. This is just not a huge deal in my opinion.

OP, you sound dead inside. It is a bit concerning.

[Anonymous]

I think the OP is in high school. There is a lack of emotional depth missing.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What will you do if you get pregnant? If you get an STD?

I'd abort. I'd get the STD treated.
I know you all think since he'll cheat on his wife with me, he'll cheat on me. You're entitled to your opinion. But I know him and I don't think he's "cheating" on me, and I'm entitled to my opinion too.

If you're "the one" then why isn't he leaving his wife for you? He can't "cheat" on you because you have no hold over him.

But I don't think I'm the one. I don't really want him to leave his wife for me. I don't want to be a stepmother.
And I know he can't cheat on me, which is why I put it in quotes.

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Anonymous wrote:I think the OP is in high school. There is a lack of emotional depth missing.

There is also a lack of concrete details. (Says the poster who is pushing to find out exactly how the supposed boyfriend is gifting her $33k in one lump sum.) This is 28 pages of B.S.

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Anonymous wrote:[

No, I don't know that. You don't know it either.
You all are very concentrated on the wife and how he's married. We don't talk about his marriage when we're together. Even if he's having sex with her every night that he's home, it's fine with me. This is just not a huge deal in my opinion.

OP, you sound dead inside. It is a bit concerning.

Lol, I'm not dead just because I don't have the same viewpoint as many of you.

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So.. you're with him for the lifestyle and sex. You don't care that he's sleeping with his wife. You don't even care that he's married. You obviously aren't concerned with how your affair with him may some day affect his children. You aren't in love with him. A pregnancy would simply mean an abortion. An STD = antibiotics.

What if you end up with AIDS?
How would you react to his wife confronting you and telling you to leave her husband alone? You're not in love with him and are quite sure you could support yourself so would you leave him alone?
What would it take for you to leave him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you realize you have low self-esteem?

Care to answer this? Or is it too close to home?

The big question is why you don't want more for yourself. And I don't mean in the material sense.

[Anonymous]

How do you know he can't cheat on you?

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Anonymous wrote:How do you know he can't cheat on you?

Simple fact that you aren't in a committed relationship? It's tough to "cheat" on someone you're cheating with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the OP is in high school. There is a lack of emotional depth missing.

There is also a lack of concrete details. (Says the poster who is pushing to find out exactly how the supposed boyfriend is gifting her $33k in one lump sum.) This is 28 pages of B.S.

PP here--meant emotional depth missing, or lack of emotional depth! Arg. And I agree with the responder.

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Anonymous wrote:And how much $$ does he earn per year?

And what is his ethnicity?

He's also a white American. I have never asked what he earns per year. My guess is mid to high six figures?

You are so naive. six figures is not very much money.

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Anonymous wrote:So.. you're with him for the lifestyle and sex. You don't care that he's sleeping with his wife. You don't even care that he's married. You obviously aren't concerned with how your affair with him may some day affect his children. You aren't in love with him. A pregnancy would simply mean an abortion. An STD = antibiotics.

What if you end up with AIDS?
How would you react to his wife confronting you and telling you to leave her husband alone? You're not in love with him and are quite sure you could support yourself so would you leave him alone?
What would it take for you to leave him?

There's no reason my relationship has to affect his children. I'm certainly not going to tell them, and neither is he. It's really up to he and I if we continue our relationship. His wife doesn't know me. She's not going to confront me. I don't think they're having sex. I do think she knows he's with someone and looks the other way because it means he doesn't bother her for the sex she won't give him. I'd leave him if this wasn't working for us.

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Anonymous wrote:Do you realize you have low self-esteem?

Care to answer this? Or is it too close to home?

The big question is why you don't want more for yourself. And I don't mean in the material sense.

I don't think I do, so there's really nothing to say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So.. you're with him for the lifestyle and sex. You don't care that he's sleeping with his wife. You don't even care that he's married. You obviously aren't concerned with how your affair with him may some day affect his children. You aren't in love with him. A pregnancy would simply mean an abortion. An STD = antibiotics.

What if you end up with AIDS?
How would you react to his wife confronting you and telling you to leave her husband alone? You're not in love with him and are quite sure you could support yourself so would you leave him alone?
What would it take for you to leave him?

There's no reason my relationship has to affect his children. I'm certainly not going to tell them, and neither is he. It's really up to he and I if we continue our relationship. His wife doesn't know me. She's not going to confront me. I don't think they're having sex. I do think she knows he's with someone and looks the other way because it means he doesn't bother her for the sex she won't give him. I'd leave him if this wasn't working for us.

wow you're kidding yourself

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you realize you have low self-esteem?

Care to answer this? Or is it too close to home?

The big question is why you don't want more for yourself. And I don't mean in the material sense.

And again, not answering this. I think you know this is the issue, right?