YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son

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I read online that when he first came home, she used to refer to him as "non verbal" when really, he just didn't understand or speak English! And Myka said several times that she refused to learn even a few Mandarin words to communicate with him!

What a See You Next Tuesday!

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They named their kids Radley, Onyx, Kova and Jaka. That should have been enormous thank warning that they were u fit.

(Joking, but seriously: they need to be utterly shunned by society. Filth people. Stop giving them attention.)

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Anonymous wrote:I really hope that child protective services get involved and they look into the new home, with a full background check. I don't know if it's possible, but I also hope the courts appoint a guardian to monitor and advocate for Huxley. As his legal parents, I also think the blogger family should be financially responsible for him and his therapies for life. They adopted him, taking him from his home country, and then monetized him. They should not be able to walk away. If you're a parent, you have a financial responsibility to pay child support. This family needs to continue to support financially Huxley. The appropriate level of financial support can be decided by a court.

What a weird post. He has legal parents. They aren’t this blogger family.

He is living with a new family but there is no indication that they have adopted him. That's not how "rehoming" works. The blogger family is still his legal family.

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Omg, that’s heartbreaking. That poor boy clearly already had attachement issues and now they will be 100x worse. Imagine learning you have a new mommy and daddy and gaining that trust over almost 3 years and now this. I just hope he is able to recover. My heart aches for him.

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this made my blood BOIL this morning. Looking at her instagram- she is a fake perfect life advertises her cute daughters for likes poster.

Once she realized he didn't fit in her perfect filtered instagram she changed her mind. SICKENING

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Anonymous wrote:Oh, and she has gone on to complain about what a difficult baby little Onyx is, too. I wonder if the older ones will start to worry about the baby being "rehomed".

A lot of moms complain when they have difficult babies....

A lot of moms don’t give their kids away....

He was not a baby. Most moms complain, but you don't complain on video/online where the child and your other kids and their friends and families can hear it all. Imagine what that would do to a child. This kid will go online one day and read all about this. Imagine how that will impact him after all the trauma he's had.

I’m sorry but no, he won’t go online one day and read all this. He has severe special needs and can’t even talk. He will never go and read about himself online.

He may be more there than people realize.

Ehhh, I don’t think so unfortunately. Never heard him talk in any videos on YouTube or IG. He’s four but seems to have the mindset of a 1 year old. I just don’t ever see him being a “normal kid”.

I know several kids including mine who did not talk till after four.

Did they have strokes in the womb and neuro specialists looking at their brain scans advising they would never take this on themselves and that issues would likely be lifelong? Because this child had that. Doesn't justify the parent's actions, but when you have specialists looking at neurological activity and saying, "I wouldn't..." that doesn't bode well normally.

What doctor is going to blab out to the parent of a child that they should give the child away rather than treat the child? It's not even a believable statement, it sounds like an excuse to support their choice to giving him away.

Not giving away a child, but that this was well known prior to adoption and the adoptive parents accepted this risk, against medical advice. And here they are...

Huh? They’ve said a million times how the adoption agency/care he was under in China highly downplayed his special needs. They were told he just had a brain tumor but was a normal kid and it wasn’t until the first day they had him that they realized that wasn’t true and once they were back in the US, they slowly found out how severe his issues were.

Just a year after his adoption they were already trying to adopt another kid from China. They were never dedicated to Huxley. If they were they would obviously prefer to give him the attention he needed instead of jumping into a second adoption. I followed their channel because of Huxley, I was just interested in his story to be honest. The Stauffers knew all along of the repercussions that giving up Huxley would take, so they tried to hide it as long as they could. That’s what pisses me off the most.

I don’t want to jump into conclusions, but it seems they liked the attention the adoption provides them and their incomes. I can’t find any other explanation on why they would find the necessity to adopt a second kid when they knew that Huxley needed stability and special care.

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I never knew of this family until last week and now i can't stop thinking about what they have done.

A NURSE specifically sought out an international adoption of a child with special needs. They crowd sourced funds to adopt/get him and monetized their "journey." From day ONE, he was making money for their (not his) family. They publicly shamed him by recording his difficulties. They find him so hard to deal with that they make a new bio-baby to add to the litter. Once they have a new click-bait bio-baby, they consult imaginary professionals who tell the family the adopted kid needs more intensive support than the nurse-faux-mommy can provide. They take a vacation to Bali and make the adopted kid disappear while they sunbathe. Months go by and people want to know where he is because their followers are more invested than they are. They make another a video saying they're rehoming him because their imaginary professionals told them to, it's what's best for him, and he wanted it. They shed crocodile tears for themselves and say they want to give him (ahem...themselves) more privacy than they offered him during their "journey." Now their bio kids get to worry about being disappeared too....especially the oldest who isn't the husband's kid.

WHAT. THE. F U C K. IS. WRONG. WITH. THESE. HEARTLESS. PEOPLE?!!!??

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Anonymous wrote:I never knew of this family until last week and now i can't stop thinking about what they have done.

A NURSE specifically sought out an international adoption of a child with special needs. They crowd sourced funds to adopt/get him and monetized their "journey." From day ONE, he was making money for their (not his) family. They publicly shamed him by recording his difficulties. They find him so hard to deal with that they make a new bio-baby to add to the litter. Once they have a new click-bait bio-baby, they consult imaginary professionals who tell the family the adopted kid needs more intensive support than the nurse-faux-mommy can provide. They take a vacation to Bali and make the adopted kid disappear while they sunbathe. Months go by and people want to know where he is because their followers are more invested than they are. They make another a video saying they're rehoming him because their imaginary professionals told them to, it's what's best for him, and he wanted it. They shed crocodile tears for themselves and say they want to give him (ahem...themselves) more privacy than they offered him during their "journey." Now their bio kids get to worry about being disappeared too....especially the oldest who isn't the husband's kid.

WHAT. THE. F U C K. IS. WRONG. WITH. THESE. HEARTLESS. PEOPLE?!!!??

That about sums it up. Appalling, isn't it?

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Anonymous wrote:Oh, and she has gone on to complain about what a difficult baby little Onyx is, too. I wonder if the older ones will start to worry about the baby being "rehomed".

A lot of moms complain when they have difficult babies....

A lot of moms don’t give their kids away....

He was not a baby. Most moms complain, but you don't complain on video/online where the child and your other kids and their friends and families can hear it all. Imagine what that would do to a child. This kid will go online one day and read all about this. Imagine how that will impact him after all the trauma he's had.

I’m sorry but no, he won’t go online one day and read all this. He has severe special needs and can’t even talk. He will never go and read about himself online.

He may be more there than people realize.

Ehhh, I don’t think so unfortunately. Never heard him talk in any videos on YouTube or IG. He’s four but seems to have the mindset of a 1 year old. I just don’t ever see him being a “normal kid”.

I know several kids including mine who did not talk till after four.

Did they have strokes in the womb and neuro specialists looking at their brain scans advising they would never take this on themselves and that issues would likely be lifelong? Because this child had that. Doesn't justify the parent's actions, but when you have specialists looking at neurological activity and saying, "I wouldn't..." that doesn't bode well normally.

What doctor is going to blab out to the parent of a child that they should give the child away rather than treat the child? It's not even a believable statement, it sounds like an excuse to support their choice to giving him away.

Not giving away a child, but that this was well known prior to adoption and the adoptive parents accepted this risk, against medical advice. And here they are...

They are giving him away. What else do you want to call it? You want to make it sound nice... we're putting him up for adoption? They aren't even doing a legal adoption.

How do you know that? I thought I heard that they used their adoption agency for the placement in the new home, which almost certainly means that it is a legal adoption.

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Anonymous wrote:Oh, and she has gone on to complain about what a difficult baby little Onyx is, too. I wonder if the older ones will start to worry about the baby being "rehomed".

A lot of moms complain when they have difficult babies....

A lot of moms don’t give their kids away....

He was not a baby. Most moms complain, but you don't complain on video/online where the child and your other kids and their friends and families can hear it all. Imagine what that would do to a child. This kid will go online one day and read all about this. Imagine how that will impact him after all the trauma he's had.

I’m sorry but no, he won’t go online one day and read all this. He has severe special needs and can’t even talk. He will never go and read about himself online.

He may be more there than people realize.

Ehhh, I don’t think so unfortunately. Never heard him talk in any videos on YouTube or IG. He’s four but seems to have the mindset of a 1 year old. I just don’t ever see him being a “normal kid”.

I know several kids including mine who did not talk till after four.

Did they have strokes in the womb and neuro specialists looking at their brain scans advising they would never take this on themselves and that issues would likely be lifelong? Because this child had that. Doesn't justify the parent's actions, but when you have specialists looking at neurological activity and saying, "I wouldn't..." that doesn't bode well normally.

What doctor is going to blab out to the parent of a child that they should give the child away rather than treat the child? It's not even a believable statement, it sounds like an excuse to support their choice to giving him away.

Not giving away a child, but that this was well known prior to adoption and the adoptive parents accepted this risk, against medical advice. And here they are...

They are giving him away. What else do you want to call it? You want to make it sound nice... we're putting him up for adoption? They aren't even doing a legal adoption.

How do you know that? I thought I heard that they used their adoption agency for the placement in the new home, which almost certainly means that it is a legal adoption.

I hope that their legal fees are astronomical and that these two awful people will be forced to spend as much of their waking life as possible working 3 jobs. May caring, nice people surround their children and guide them through life.

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Anonymous wrote:Oh, and she has gone on to complain about what a difficult baby little Onyx is, too. I wonder if the older ones will start to worry about the baby being "rehomed".

A lot of moms complain when they have difficult babies....

A lot of moms don’t give their kids away....

He was not a baby. Most moms complain, but you don't complain on video/online where the child and your other kids and their friends and families can hear it all. Imagine what that would do to a child. This kid will go online one day and read all about this. Imagine how that will impact him after all the trauma he's had.

I’m sorry but no, he won’t go online one day and read all this. He has severe special needs and can’t even talk. He will never go and read about himself online.

He may be more there than people realize.

Ehhh, I don’t think so unfortunately. Never heard him talk in any videos on YouTube or IG. He’s four but seems to have the mindset of a 1 year old. I just don’t ever see him being a “normal kid”.

I know several kids including mine who did not talk till after four.

Did they have strokes in the womb and neuro specialists looking at their brain scans advising they would never take this on themselves and that issues would likely be lifelong? Because this child had that. Doesn't justify the parent's actions, but when you have specialists looking at neurological activity and saying, "I wouldn't..." that doesn't bode well normally.

What doctor is going to blab out to the parent of a child that they should give the child away rather than treat the child? It's not even a believable statement, it sounds like an excuse to support their choice to giving him away.

Not giving away a child, but that this was well known prior to adoption and the adoptive parents accepted this risk, against medical advice. And here they are...

They are giving him away. What else do you want to call it? You want to make it sound nice... we're putting him up for adoption? They aren't even doing a legal adoption.

How do you know that? I thought I heard that they used their adoption agency for the placement in the new home, which almost certainly means that it is a legal adoption.

I hope that their legal fees are astronomical and that these two awful people will be forced to spend as much of their waking life as possible working 3 jobs. May caring, nice people surround their children and guide them through life.

It appears that the influencer gig came to her after she lost her nursing license. Now people are pressuring her sponsors to cut ties with this family. I wonder what act III will be. The husband is a car detailer who was tapping into YouTube to make money from detailing videos (from what I understand), but I assume that will take a hit as well.

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The video about why they gave the boy up is disgusting because there are like a thousand cuts in it. So obviously highly edited and curated to get just the right take for every sentence. Who follows these people? What kind of weird family porn is this?

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Oh they can't recover from this. They will get clicks right after this but their "brand" is dead.

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Anonymous wrote:The video about why they gave the boy up is disgusting because there are like a thousand cuts in it. So obviously highly edited and curated to get just the right take for every sentence. Who follows these people? What kind of weird family porn is this?

High pitched voice, yet not one tear shed. That video is horrendous acting. At times it seems even her husband can't believe the BS lies coming out of her mouth.

[Anonymous]

lmao you know the more you idiots keep clicking on her IG and YouTube videos, the more money they are making right? His adoption story video has sky rocketed to over 5.5 million views. Will advertisers drop her since a bunch of crazies are pressuring them to? Yeah. But the crazies are also sky rocketing their income right now as well with all the clicks.