You do realize for generations women didn’t work or they worked part time have two parents working outside the home is difficult and not what many of us signed up for when we stayed in the government. We have figured out how to manage. But like hell if I’m not going to complain. And in time will likely look for another job. |
100% I resent people that tell women to “buck up” and deal. Working moms are disproportionately impacted by this. |
Then that’s a problem between you and your husband, not you and your job. |
I think 2+ years of full RTO, and likely 10 years to recovering 3+ days. Personally I'm looking around but prepared to tough it out until the job market gets better, which is probably 1-2 years. Yes, it sucks. Yes, it's bad for everyone and has no upside. Yes, it's an enormous (intentional) blow to women in the workforce. But I know too many riffed feds, so I won't be complaining right now. Head down, wait it out - or leave, if you have that option. |
This is the standard response of somebody who resents the progress women made during the pandemic. Working moms are statistically among the most efficient and motivated workers, but as a group they opt out of leadership roles and/or full time work because of family obligations like afterschool care. The pandemic telework situation created a surge in these women working more hours and seeking promotions, purely because they didn't have to commute. It was a net positive for employers. |
This. It’s a huge setback for women but probably part of this administration’s plan. |
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For Christ’s sake they think giving people $5000 will make them have kids? Is someone gonna tell them that one of the ways to encourage babies is to give flexibility in the workplace? Flexibility like maybe . . . Telework.
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Not at all. It only affects women more than men if the women don’t insist on men doing their equal share around the house and with kids. This sucks for everybody, but there need not be a gender divide. |
Thanks. I’ll let my husband know he needs to start breastfeeding our infant. |
As you should, because even in the short period of time (particularly relative to the time one raises kids) when someone is breastfeeding, there are plenty of things your husband can do to even out the burden. |
PP don’t respond to these trolls. They will never change. It’s not even about breastfeeding, which last for a relatively short period of time. We actually want to raise our kids and spend time with them, while also having a career. It’s hard to do that when you are out for such a long part of the day due to commuting back and fourth. Ppl like PP will never understand. |
Well he wants us to be in the office. That’s all I know. He just got here. So I have no idea how he feels about ad hoc telework. Does he trust our directors discretion? I have no idea. But the more we abuse it or bring attention to it by asking them to write a policy down on paper, the greater the chance the policy will be something we don’t like. Best for us to shut up and wait. Maybe once day he’ll decide that one, two, or three days of telework is actually not that bad. Time for all of us to just suck it up and do our work. There is a lot of scrutiny so it’s not the best time to bring attention to things like telework. |
That’s true, but it applies equally to men and women. |
Actually I do. I had 2 kids no grown and college grads and working. I worked and it is hard and a struggle. You need to stop complaining and either find paid help (or extended family) or find a new job. Your complaining are whines and will not change your work situation. |
Oh you are one of those women who tells other women it was bad for me, so deal. This is why we can’t have progress. |