NY mom murdered

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sadly, as a just a handyman at 44, he likely targeted her for her $$$.

Wtf? He targeted her out of some maniacal possessive rage.
Besides the fact that all the capable handymen around here make a good amount of money.

Not day laborers with no insurance and living in one of the most expensive places in the US.

My question is WTH did she see in him. other than she apparently loves Guatemala from her social media posts.

[Anonymous]

Okay so it wasn’t the husband but it was the boyfriend of two years, which is pretty close.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sadly, as a just a handyman at 44, he likely targeted her for her $$$.

Wtf? He targeted her out of some maniacal possessive rage.
Besides the fact that all the capable handymen around here make a good amount of money.

Not day laborers with no insurance and living in one of the most expensive places in the US.

My question is WTH did she see in him. other than she apparently loves Guatemala from her social media posts.

Wtf, maybe he was funny! Maybe they had shared interests! Maybe she was attracted to how he could do things with his hand. She was already rich, maybe his job didn’t matter to her. I mean obviously she shouldn’t have gone out with him because he is a psycho killer but if you’re just looking for a nice affair partner a handyman seems kind of ideal. Different from your husband, flexible schedule, maybe plays in a band or something. Who knows?

[Anonymous]

I hope that everyone who kept blaming the poor 13-year-old son (despite all the evidence to the contrary) can learn from this. Same with the people who stated as fact that the husband ordered a hit, even though that theory made no sense in light of the facts. I can't imagine the trauma the family is experiencing.

The killer seems both psychopathic (think how long it takes to stab someone 58 times) and dim-witted (the attempt at diversion with the text to the husband). May he rot in prison for the rest of his life!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay so it wasn’t the husband but it was the boyfriend of two years, which is pretty close.

Except the killer is garbage and didn't care about her sons. Also, there's no evidence that they had a two-year affair. The guy only commented on her FB during a brief time in 2020, same as when she went missing that night. It's possible she broke it off with him and he stalked her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay so it wasn’t the husband but it was the boyfriend of two years, which is pretty close.

No, it is not close at all...why would you say that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay so it wasn’t the husband but it was the boyfriend of two years, which is pretty close.

No, it is not close at all...why would you say that.

Because some people can't stop blaming the victims, which is weird.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This lady had a lot of insecurities for sure..
dying her hair blonde...
going out all night
having boyfriends..
seems like she needs constant attention from Men.

Tons of seductive selfie posts on Social Media.

Now it's making me wonder even more about all the other women I know who obsessively post selfies fishing for complements.

I'm sure not all of them are crazy, but some of them definitely are. I've made a study of this. It's 100% a red flag for a personality disorder, especially when they basically do different versions of the same face/pose repeatedly, with frequency, when privacy is set to public on these, when their selfies outnumber all other kinds of content 5:1, when they like/heart every comment. Sometimes there is all this plus inspirational quotes, but not always ... I even know a personality disordered man who does all of the above. And they always otherwise appear to be normal, upstanding, nice, moms and dads--if you are not very close to them, you would never know.

Now it sounds like I'm criticizing the victim, and I apologize for that. I mainly just wanted to comment on the selfies thing. I don't know if this woman was mentally ill, and she didn't deserve to be killed in any case.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay so it wasn’t the husband but it was the boyfriend of two years, which is pretty close.

No, it is not close at all...why would you say that.

Because some people can't stop blaming the victims, which is weird.

I’m not blaming the victim, I’m blaming victims’ intimate partners.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This lady had a lot of insecurities for sure..
dying her hair blonde...
going out all night
having boyfriends..
seems like she needs constant attention from Men.

Tons of seductive selfie posts on Social Media.

Now it's making me wonder even more about all the other women I know who obsessively post selfies fishing for complements.

I'm sure not all of them are crazy, but some of them definitely are. I've made a study of this. It's 100% a red flag for a personality disorder, especially when they basically do different versions of the same face/pose repeatedly, with frequency, when privacy is set to public on these, when their selfies outnumber all other kinds of content 5:1, when they like/heart every comment. Sometimes there is all this plus inspirational quotes, but not always ... I even know a personality disordered man who does all of the above. And they always otherwise appear to be normal, upstanding, nice, moms and dads--if you are not very close to them, you would never know.

Now it sounds like I'm criticizing the victim, and I apologize for that. I mainly just wanted to comment on the selfies thing. I don't know if this woman was mentally ill, and she didn't deserve to be killed in any case.

OMG! YES! The prolific cheater mom (51 too) has tons of the same exact pose in the driver seat of her car with the seatbelt on ...selfie. Chin titled (granted the chin is big), head cocked and come f*k me expression.

Why are you posting constant selfies of yourself in your car like that?? I think these are the same ones she uses on her dating profiles/affair websites.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sadly, as a just a handyman at 44, he likely targeted her for her $$$.

Wtf? He targeted her out of some maniacal possessive rage.
Besides the fact that all the capable handymen around here make a good amount of money.

Not day laborers with no insurance and living in one of the most expensive places in the US.

My question is WTH did she see in him. other than she apparently loves Guatemala from her social media posts.

Wtf, maybe he was funny! Maybe they had shared interests! Maybe she was attracted to how he could do things with his hand. She was already rich, maybe his job didn’t matter to her. I mean obviously she shouldn’t have gone out with him because he is a psycho killer but if you’re just looking for a nice affair partner a handyman seems kind of ideal. Different from your husband, flexible schedule, maybe plays in a band or something. Who knows?

That is the problem right there in bold. Mentally stable people are out cheating and lying...and particularly with men in their own home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sadly, as a just a handyman at 44, he likely targeted her for her $$$.

Wtf? He targeted her out of some maniacal possessive rage.
Besides the fact that all the capable handymen around here make a good amount of money.

Not day laborers with no insurance and living in one of the most expensive places in the US.

My question is WTH did she see in him. other than she apparently loves Guatemala from her social media posts.

Wtf, maybe he was funny! Maybe they had shared interests! Maybe she was attracted to how he could do things with his hand. She was already rich, maybe his job didn’t matter to her. I mean obviously she shouldn’t have gone out with him because he is a psycho killer but if you’re just looking for a nice affair partner a handyman seems kind of ideal. Different from your husband, flexible schedule, maybe plays in a band or something. Who knows?

That is the problem right there in bold. Mentally stable people are not out cheating and lying...and particularly with men in their own home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This lady had a lot of insecurities for sure..
dying her hair blonde...
going out all night
having boyfriends..
seems like she needs constant attention from Men.

Tons of seductive selfie posts on Social Media.

Now it's making me wonder even more about all the other women I know who obsessively post selfies fishing for complements.

I'm sure not all of them are crazy, but some of them definitely are. I've made a study of this. It's 100% a red flag for a personality disorder, especially when they basically do different versions of the same face/pose repeatedly, with frequency, when privacy is set to public on these, when their selfies outnumber all other kinds of content 5:1, when they like/heart every comment. Sometimes there is all this plus inspirational quotes, but not always ... I even know a personality disordered man who does all of the above. And they always otherwise appear to be normal, upstanding, nice, moms and dads--if you are not very close to them, you would never know.

Now it sounds like I'm criticizing the victim, and I apologize for that. I mainly just wanted to comment on the selfies thing. I don't know if this woman was mentally ill, and she didn't deserve to be killed in any case.

OMG! YES! The prolific cheater mom (51 too) has tons of the same exact pose in the driver seat of her car with the seatbelt on ...selfie. Chin titled (granted the chin is big), head cocked and come f*k me expression.

Why are you posting constant selfies of yourself in your car like that?? I think these are the same ones she uses on her dating profiles/affair websites[b].

Definitely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wtf, maybe he was funny! Maybe they had shared interests! Maybe she was attracted to how he could do things with his hand. She was already rich, maybe his job didn’t matter to her. I mean obviously she shouldn’t have gone out with him because he is a psycho killer but if you’re just looking for a nice affair partner a handyman seems kind of ideal. Different from your husband, flexible schedule, maybe plays in a band or something. Who knows?

I bet

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sadly, as a just a handyman at 44, he likely targeted her for her $$$.

Wtf? He targeted her out of some maniacal possessive rage.
Besides the fact that all the capable handymen around here make a good amount of money.

Not day laborers with no insurance and living in one of the most expensive places in the US.

My question is WTH did she see in him. other than she apparently loves Guatemala from her social media posts.

Maybe she had a thing for 'John Oates' from Darry Hall& John Oates.

pretty similar look.