DP and no offense, but I think your perspective is just going to be different being on the third team. The level of competition in the league that the first team is in is a big step up. If you go to the games you can see the gap in skill development and coaching between many of these other teams and Valor. The gap is widening, not closing. It can lead to some frustration. |
+1. |
DP This parent was defending the 3rd team coach and his daughter. Wasn’t talking about first team. All parents of any level can be frustrated. But that angry parent lashed out against the whole system |
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GOOOOOOD MORNING everyone! Hope we've all had our mimosas and are ready to discuss the hopeless dreams of our children!
Hope tryouts last night went well for everyone, but we all know someone out there is mad! Lets start today off with some realism today. If any of our kids had real talent, they'd be in an international program by now. Honestly, we should all enjoy our kids playing sub-par soccer together, in a wealthy area, while we wear our Lily Pulitzer rompers and relish in how are kids get to play on artificial turf! Hopes and prayers that one of our kids get's the chance to play for pre-tax $30 a hour, infront of tens of people one day (hopefully the professional head coach is childless)! |
| I can't speak for the boys side, but the lowest teams on the girls side are usually painfully weak. Rec level or worse b/c rec teams usually have at least a few talented athletes. So Valor gives them terrible coaches. If they get someone halfway decent, its a Valor miracle. |
Maybe it's the players and not the coaches. Chicken salad made from chicken crap is still made of crap. |
| Any details from tryouts last night ? |
Yeah, but I'm talking really basic coaching expectations, like showing up on time, or showing up at all, not being crazy, etc. |
Valor should seriously look at cutting the 3rd team program all together. Bad coaches, bad players... nothing more than a fundraiser |
Their 3rd-5th teams are their moneymakers. They play in cheaper leagues, cheaper and fewer tournaments, have cheaper inexperienced coaches, but everyone pays the same fees. Basically their worse teams subsidize their first teams. |
Insane how these entitled parents are okay with their kids being nothing more than monetary support for kids with actual talent. |
if a kid wants to start playing soccer but more competitive than rec leagues. They get placed in 3rd or lower team. The parent agrees. This makes the parents "entitled" for agreeing to pay and give their child a starting point? |
Entitled in general, not specifically in the soccer realm. This is NOVA, remember? Everyone's kid is better and deserves more than everyone else's. Just funny how many people complain about the quality of coaches on 3-5 teams, when they players are terrible as well. As we both know, it's nothing more than a fundraiser for the kids with actual talent. Just hard to believe NOVA parents are okay with that, but then again, they all believe their kid is going to go from 5 to 1 and play for the USNT one day. |
Who were the not good non-parent coaches? |
| Does anyone know who will be coaching the 2011 boys next year? ds didn't make the other teams he hoped to and the Valor tryouts are later. |