Aftercare is cruel to kindergarteners

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This has been covered before. Some folks have to work full time and don't really have a choice. .

Sure they do. Downsize, downsize, downsize. You don't need to live in a 3,000 sq ft place, hire help for cleaning and yardwork, wear the best clothes, have an iPhone5, drive an SUV with only one or two kids, use coupons and shop the specials. Cook more, go out to eat once a month or less.

It can easily be done, even in this area. But people here are too set on keeping up their extravagant lifestyles.

Priorities.

I live in a basement studio apartment and use public transportation.
Where should I downsize at?

Move home.

Let me guess, you're going to tell me they're dead or homeless.

I have NO family in the area (or within 500 miles of here)
I cant move a long distance because my childs father resides here and my child deserves a chance to have a relationship with him

So please Im still waiting for you to make my life and kindergartners problems alllllll better ( well your at it can you tell me how I can buy him school supplies and clothes without working overtime and leaving him even more because hes going to be scarred from it Im sure)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This has been covered before. Some folks have to work full time and don't really have a choice. .

Sure they do. Downsize, downsize, downsize. You don't need to live in a 3,000 sq ft place, hire help for cleaning and yardwork, wear the best clothes, have an iPhone5, drive an SUV with only one or two kids, use coupons and shop the specials. Cook more, go out to eat once a month or less.

It can easily be done, even in this area. But people here are too set on keeping up their extravagant lifestyles.

Priorities.

I live in a basement studio apartment and use public transportation.
Where should I downsize at?

Ah, see, now your problem is misplaced priorities BEFORE having children. You're not supposed to have children unless you know that you and your spouse (but mostly your spouse, if you are a woman) will always, in perpetuity, be able to afford a 3,000 sf place with paid cleaning and yardwork, the best clothes, the latest phone, etc. Which, of course, requires you (if you are a woman) to first pick the right (and by "right", I mean "highly well-paid") spouse. You mean you didn't know that?! Well, you should have. Too late now, though. It's still All Your Fault your children are growing up like feral dogs.

(Not actually the PP.)

your so right that pesky condom that broke obviously did not understand that I wasnot financially ready...

Ill have to discuss with my birth control that it cant fail because I dont have the a 3,000 sf place with paid cleaning and yardwork, the best clothes, the latest phone, etc.

I am sure it will remember that and do better lol

though witha special needs 5 year old and working full time I may never have time to date or have sex again

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This has been covered before. Some folks have to work full time and don't really have a choice. .

Sure they do. Downsize, downsize, downsize. You don't need to live in a 3,000 sq ft place, hire help for cleaning and yardwork, wear the best clothes, have an iPhone5, drive an SUV with only one or two kids, use coupons and shop the specials. Cook more, go out to eat once a month or less.

It can easily be done, even in this area. But people here are too set on keeping up their extravagant lifestyles.

Priorities.

I live in a basement studio apartment and use public transportation.
Where should I downsize at?

Move home.

Let me guess, you're going to tell me they're dead or homeless.

I have NO family in the area (or within 500 miles of here)
I cant move a long distance because my childs father resides here and my child deserves a chance to have a relationship with him

So please Im still waiting for you to make my life and kindergartners problems alllllll better ( well your at it can you tell me how I can buy him school supplies and clothes without working overtime and leaving him even more because hes going to be scarred from it Im sure)

Surprise, surprise... you're not married to your baby daddy... any wonder why your life lacks stability?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This has been covered before. Some folks have to work full time and don't really have a choice. .

Sure they do. Downsize, downsize, downsize. You don't need to live in a 3,000 sq ft place, hire help for cleaning and yardwork, wear the best clothes, have an iPhone5, drive an SUV with only one or two kids, use coupons and shop the specials. Cook more, go out to eat once a month or less.

It can easily be done, even in this area. But people here are too set on keeping up their extravagant lifestyles.

Priorities.

I live in a basement studio apartment and use public transportation.
Where should I downsize at?

Ah, see, now your problem is misplaced priorities BEFORE having children. You're not supposed to have children unless you know that you and your spouse (but mostly your spouse, if you are a woman) will always, in perpetuity, be able to afford a 3,000 sf place with paid cleaning and yardwork, the best clothes, the latest phone, etc. Which, of course, requires you (if you are a woman) to first pick the right (and by "right", I mean "highly well-paid") spouse. You mean you didn't know that?! Well, you should have. Too late now, though. It's still All Your Fault your children are growing up like feral dogs.

(Not actually the PP.)

your so right that pesky condom that broke obviously did not understand that I wasnot financially ready...

Ill have to discuss with my birth control that it cant fail because I dont have the a 3,000 sf place with paid cleaning and yardwork, the best clothes, the latest phone, etc.

I am sure it will remember that and do better lol

though witha special needs 5 year old and working full time I may never have time to date or have sex again

oh, it's ALWAYS failed birth control, NEVER that you just couldn't keep your knees closed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Surprise, surprise... you're not married to your baby daddy... any wonder why your life lacks stability?

(PP, I do hope that you will ignore the Everything Bad That Happens To You Is All Your Fault (And When I Say "You", I Mean You, Because This Rule Does Not Apply To Me) trolls.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Surprise, surprise... you're not married to your baby daddy... any wonder why your life lacks stability?

(PP, I do hope that you will ignore the Everything Bad That Happens To You Is All Your Fault (And When I Say "You", I Mean You, Because This Rule Does Not Apply To Me) trolls.)

yeah, deciding to have unprotected sex is something that just "happens" to you, poor victim.

(don't try pulling out the rape card, if that excuse comes out as an after thought, it's a lie)

[Anonymous]

yes it is cruel but people have no choice; childcare options on this country are terrible

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Surprise, surprise... you're not married to your baby daddy... any wonder why your life lacks stability?

(PP, I do hope that you will ignore the Everything Bad That Happens To You Is All Your Fault (And When I Say "You", I Mean You, Because This Rule Does Not Apply To Me) trolls.)

yeah, deciding to have unprotected sex is something that just "happens" to you, poor victim.

(don't try pulling out the rape card, if that excuse comes out as an after thought, it's a lie)

Im pretty sure I stated the condom broke ...

which FYI condoms are a form of protection

and who said my life lacks stability? because I don't live like you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Surprise, surprise... you're not married to your baby daddy... any wonder why your life lacks stability?

(PP, I do hope that you will ignore the Everything Bad That Happens To You Is All Your Fault (And When I Say "You", I Mean You, Because This Rule Does Not Apply To Me) trolls.)

yeah, deciding to have unprotected sex is something that just "happens" to you, poor victim.

(don't try pulling out the rape card, if that excuse comes out as an after thought, it's a lie)

Im pretty sure I stated the condom broke ...

which FYI condoms are a form of protection

and who said my life lacks stability? because I don't live like you?

"The condom broke" is second in line to "I was raped".

Who said your life lacks stability? YOU did by claiming to have no options.

Poor Me = No Stability

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:yes it is cruel but people have no choice; childcare options on this country are terrible

I dont find them terrible. We have a lot of options here for daycare which I am thankful for. Some are really expensive (I pay 100 a week for aftercare in the suburbs)

My child goes to a Martial arts studio and they give him a snack, have a 30 minutes reading time, 45 minute martial arts class, and help with homework.

so I pick him up feed him dinner, shower and jammies, and then we have time to play board games, read books, or play together before bed

hes happy and well taken care of and they put up with the fact he is difficult and takes alot of one on one attention.

[Anonymous]

Oh good, the psycho abortion poster is back.

[Anonymous]

"The condom broke" is second in line to "I was raped".

Who said your life lacks stability? YOU did by claiming to have no options.

Poor Me = No Stability

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1.
the state or quality of being stable.
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firmness in position.
3.
continuance without change; permanence.
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do you see anything in there about stability having anything to do with Options?

anywhere?

my kid having to go to daycare and me living in a studio have to do with that this lifestyle we live gives us stability. your an idiot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Canadians, your medications cost 1/4 of what we pay here, your government fixes the prices on brand medications and allows for importation of cheap generics before the Us patent on brands expires.

True. And how many new drugs has Canada come up with since they nationalized their drug industry?

Zero.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

"The condom broke" is second in line to "I was raped".

Who said your life lacks stability? YOU did by claiming to have no options.

Poor Me = No Stability

sta·bil·i·ty [stuh-bil-i-tee] Show IPA
noun, plural sta·bil·i·ties.
1.
the state or quality of being stable.
2.
firmness in position.
3.
continuance without change; permanence.
4.
Chemistry . resistance or the degree of resistance to chemical change or disintegration.
5.
resistance to change, especially sudden change or deterioration: The stability of the economy encourages investment.


do you see anything in there about stability having anything to do with Options?

anywhere?

my kid having to go to daycare and me living in a studio have to do with that this lifestyle we live gives us stability. your an idiot

Maybe. But I know how to spell "you're" and how to own my mistakes without projecting poor me victimhood.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe. But I know how to spell "you're" and how to own my mistakes without projecting poor me victimhood.

Ha. Um, you're the person who's been talking about rape and abortion in this thread, correct?