NY mom murdered

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Money does not buy happiness. She married a rich guy but her personal life was a mess.
What a humiliation to the poor kids.
Not sure, if the husband knew or if he was faithful to her. but I feel for the kids.
also, here we are admiring her beauty but inside she was so not beautiful.... i would have gotten a divorce than had a boyfriend...

Mentally ill? And probably an opioid and/or alcohol addict? Life sounds a mess. Doesn't sound normal in any way.

Someone stable does not have multiple affairs and online date in middle age with kids. Anyone that does this is suffering from some type of mental illness. Histrionic personality disorder, Bipolar, Borderline, Narcissist, etc. Her mysterious disappearance before speaks to it. Narcs can be very charming and portray a perfect image to the public.

Anyways, she needed help and its unfortunate she didn't get any before this undeserved brutal murder. I feel very sorry for her family and loved ones.

+1

Mental illness and/or some type of addiction (alcohol, drugs, or sex addict). The type of cheating she was doing and blatantly in her own neighborhood speaks to very high instability.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Her poor kids, and parents (in Hungary). What a nightmare..

Their lives have been ruined. So sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s possible she and her husband had an open marriage. I wouldn’t be surprised.

I wonder about this. Because early on the police said they were looking for the handyman she had a romantic relationship with. How would they know they were involved so early on unless the husband told them?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Her poor kids, and parents (in Hungary). What a nightmare..

Their lives have been ruined. So sad.

I think the one young son is going to really have a hard time that he was in the house when it happened and possibly could have stopped it (he couldn't but I think it is going to be very normal for him to feel that guilt). This is going to be such severe trauma and PTSD.

[Anonymous]

I feel awful for the kids. This is massively traumatic for teenagers between the death of their mom, it happening in their "safe place," the cheating with another man (men?), the rumors, etc.

I hope they find peace, a sense of safety, and healthy futures.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s possible she and her husband had an open marriage. I wouldn’t be surprised.

I wonder about this. Because early on the police said they were looking for the handyman she had a romantic relationship with. How would they know they were involved so early on unless the husband told them?

The messages on the phone.

I also think the affair was discovered when he called the cops when she stayed out all night 2 years ago and never came home.

People in open marriages aren't calling the cops. It was stated the affair had been over (as far as he knew).

I think the husband knew, but I certainly don't think it was condoned. Dealing with a mentally unstable cheater, is soul crushing and they are master manipulators. I am sure during Covid her illicit activities had to come to a halt with everyone at home and they started right back up once restrictions were lifted and everyone went back to work and school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s possible she and her husband had an open marriage. I wouldn’t be surprised.

I wonder about this. Because early on the police said they were looking for the handyman she had a romantic relationship with. How would they know they were involved so early on unless the husband told them?

The messages on the phone.

I also think the affair was discovered when he called the cops when she stayed out all night 2 years ago and never came home.

People in open marriages aren't calling the cops. It was stated the affair had been over (as far as he knew).

I think the husband knew, but I certainly don't think it was condoned. Dealing with a mentally unstable cheater, is soul crushing and they are master manipulators. I am sure during Covid her illicit activities had to come to a halt with everyone at home and they started right back up once restrictions were lifted and everyone went back to work and school.

All of her friends were interrogated by the Police and told not to talk. There is no way one of her friends did not know about this affair. It's likely one of these women told the Police and were scared for their safety too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s possible she and her husband had an open marriage. I wouldn’t be surprised.

I wonder about this. Because early on the police said they were looking for the handyman she had a romantic relationship with. How would they know they were involved so early on unless the husband told them?

The messages on the phone.

I also think the affair was discovered when he called the cops when she stayed out all night 2 years ago and never came home.

People in open marriages aren't calling the cops. It was stated the affair had been over (as far as he knew).

I think the husband knew, but I certainly don't think it was condoned. Dealing with a mentally unstable cheater, is soul crushing and they are master manipulators. I am sure during Covid her illicit activities had to come to a halt with everyone at home and they started right back up once restrictions were lifted and everyone went back to work and school.

All of her friends were interrogated by the Police and told not to talk. There is no way one of her friends did not know about this affair. It's likely one of these women told the Police and were scared for their safety too.

They would do anything they could to help the police catch the person that killed their friend, definitely spill about any relationships she had. It would be one of the first things police asked them do to the 'crime of passion/personal nature of the crime'. They would also ask what she said about her marriage/husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel awful for the kids. This is massively traumatic for teenagers between the death of their mom, it happening in their "safe place," the cheating with another man (men?), the rumors, etc.

I hope they find peace, a sense of safety, and healthy futures.

+1

If only more people thought about their children before making such unhealthy choices in their life, just to get their rocks off.

[Anonymous]

Wonder how tall this guy is? and could never tell that his hair is that way from the video.
he is so dumb.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s possible she and her husband had an open marriage. I wouldn’t be surprised.

I wonder about this. Because early on the police said they were looking for the handyman she had a romantic relationship with. How would they know they were involved so early on unless the husband told them?

The messages on the phone.

I also think the affair was discovered when he called the cops when she stayed out all night 2 years ago and never came home.

People in open marriages aren't calling the cops. It was stated the affair had been over (as far as he knew).

I think the husband knew, but I certainly don't think it was condoned. Dealing with a mentally unstable cheater, is soul crushing and they are master manipulators. I am sure during Covid her illicit activities had to come to a halt with everyone at home and they started right back up once restrictions were lifted and everyone went back to work and school.

All of her friends were interrogated by the Police and told not to talk. There is no way one of her friends did not know about this affair. It's likely one of these women told the Police and were scared for their safety too.

If I were having an affair with the handyman I would never tell my friends about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wonder how tall this guy is? and could never tell that his hair is that way from the video.
he is so dumb.

He's from Guatamala. Guatamala has, on average, some of the shortest people in the world. The average Guatamalan man is 5'4!

https://www.insider.com/shortest-people-in-world-by-country-2019-6#4-guatemala-15639cm-5-feet-157-inches-22

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s possible she and her husband had an open marriage. I wouldn’t be surprised.

I wonder about this. Because early on the police said they were looking for the handyman she had a romantic relationship with. How would they know they were involved so early on unless the husband told them?

The messages on the phone.

I also think the affair was discovered when he called the cops when she stayed out all night 2 years ago and never came home.

People in open marriages aren't calling the cops. It was stated the affair had been over (as far as he knew).

I think the husband knew, but I certainly don't think it was condoned. Dealing with a mentally unstable cheater, is soul crushing and they are master manipulators. I am sure during Covid her illicit activities had to come to a halt with everyone at home and they started right back up once restrictions were lifted and everyone went back to work and school.

All of her friends were interrogated by the Police and told not to talk. There is no way one of her friends did not know about this affair. It's likely one of these women told the Police and were scared for their safety too.

If I were having an affair with the handyman I would never tell my friends about it.

Cheaters tend to hang out with other cheaters. Birds of a feather and all. I am sure at least one close confidante knew.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s possible she and her husband had an open marriage. I wouldn’t be surprised.

I wonder about this. Because early on the police said they were looking for the handyman she had a romantic relationship with. How would they know they were involved so early on unless the husband told them?

The messages on the phone.

I also think the affair was discovered when he called the cops when she stayed out all night 2 years ago and never came home.

People in open marriages aren't calling the cops. It was stated the affair had been over (as far as he knew).

I think the husband knew, but I certainly don't think it was condoned. Dealing with a mentally unstable cheater, is soul crushing and they are master manipulators. I am sure during Covid her illicit activities had to come to a halt with everyone at home and they started right back up once restrictions were lifted and everyone went back to work and school.

All of her friends were interrogated by the Police and told not to talk. There is no way one of her friends did not know about this affair. It's likely one of these women told the Police and were scared for their safety too.

If I were having an affair with the handyman I would never tell my friends about it.

And she was actively online affair dating. Guarantee they gossiped about that.

Cheaters tend to hang out with other cheaters. Birds of a feather and all. I am sure at least one close confidante knew.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This lady had a lot of insecurities for sure..
dying her hair blonde...
going out all night
having boyfriends..
seems like she needs constant attention from Men.

Tons of seductive selfie posts on Social Media.

Now it's making me wonder even more about all the other women I know who obsessively post selfies fishing for complements.