I was an AP and now I'm a wife, AMA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any bets on how soon he/she will cheat on you?

He won't cheat on me. He was very unhappy with his first wife and very happy with me.

I love magical thinking!

There’s this great passage in “Gone Girl” where Nick and his sister are talking about Nick cheating on his wife, Amy, with a girl named Andi. The sister tells her brother, “You know that if you and Andi were together, and she was the wife, she’d lose her adoration of you? She’d do things that started to annoy you? She’d be the wife, and you’d start to resent her.” And it’s so true.

Like, congratulations, you won a real prize: a man who cheats on his wife. When he said his vows to you, did he say, “This time, for real; no really, THIS time, I mean it for sure?”

Hahahahahaha!

This is a troll thread started in 2016.

[Anonymous]

I was the ap, and honestly it's nothing to brag about. We are still together after a decade and I have no desire to ever marry. I love him but the baggage isn't worth it, hurting people isn't worth it. Our families get along, my family likes him his family likes me. If I could do it all over again I'd walk away as soon as he said he was "separated".

[Anonymous]

Aren't people who offer to do AMA'S people who have an interesting story or have achieved something? Confused...

[Anonymous]

Is your hunger for attention here the same hunger that made you vulnerable to the deceitful, devalued role of AP? Have you remained as uninsightful as to how you appear here now as you were then? Discuss..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Until today the last post was 5 years ago. I doubt that OP is still monitoring this. I also doubt she’s still married.

Yes but it is fun to tease...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was the ap, and honestly it's nothing to brag about. We are still together after a decade and I have no desire to ever marry. I love him but the baggage isn't worth it, hurting people isn't worth it. Our families get along, my family likes him his family likes me. If I could do it all over again I'd walk away as soon as he said he was "separated".

From an outside perspective, it seems weird that considering your regret, the baggage, the way you know you both hurt people with the affair, and your desire to never marry, it’s odd that you’re still with him. I feel like if I made that kind of horrendous mistake I’d want to move on.