What American "cultural" things you don't do or allow your kids to do.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is such a classic example of white, urban liberalism. You love immigrants when they’re poor and struggling, but as soon as immigrants succeed, thrive, and reject your culture, you get big mad. It’s all so performative.

This whole thread is about hating poor people. People should just say what they mean.

Hmm I don’t think that’s it. It’s about white supremacy being threatened. Some of these posters are losing it at the idea that brown people don’t admire them. They want to catalog everything wrong with their “culture” to maintain that supremacy. If being white doesn’t have social power in this country, what does?

The fact that the brown people won't say what their superior culture actually is, says it all.

Exhibit A. A pathological need to dominate and establish supremacy.

Lol. You're just a typical late night troll.

Troll accusations.

The last refuge when you have no point.

What is the point again? This thread isn't exactly going places.

That you are upset that some foreigners don’t want to drool all over you and beg you to befriend them. Apparently that’s very upsetting to you.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is such a classic example of white, urban liberalism. You love immigrants when they’re poor and struggling, but as soon as immigrants succeed, thrive, and reject your culture, you get big mad. It’s all so performative.

This whole thread is about hating poor people. People should just say what they mean.

Hmm I don’t think that’s it. It’s about white supremacy being threatened. Some of these posters are losing it at the idea that brown people don’t admire them. They want to catalog everything wrong with their “culture” to maintain that supremacy. If being white doesn’t have social power in this country, what does?

The fact that the brown people won't say what their superior culture actually is, says it all.

Exhibit A. A pathological need to dominate and establish supremacy.

+1

They can’t beat us in education or the workplace, but somehow we’re expected to admire their culture?

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Anonymous wrote:Wait...nobody else has a problem with children beauty pageant?

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is such a classic example of white, urban liberalism. You love immigrants when they’re poor and struggling, but as soon as immigrants succeed, thrive, and reject your culture, you get big mad. It’s all so performative.

This whole thread is about hating poor people. People should just say what they mean.

Hmm I don’t think that’s it. It’s about white supremacy being threatened. Some of these posters are losing it at the idea that brown people don’t admire them. They want to catalog everything wrong with their “culture” to maintain that supremacy. If being white doesn’t have social power in this country, what does?

The fact that the brown people won't say what their superior culture actually is, says it all.

Exhibit A. A pathological need to dominate and establish supremacy.

Lol. You're just a typical late night troll.

Troll accusations.

The last refuge when you have no point.

What is the point again? This thread isn't exactly going places.

That you are upset that some foreigners don’t want to drool all over you and beg you to befriend them. Apparently that’s very upsetting to you.

Drool with their discolored teeth and bad breath? No thanks.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is such a classic example of white, urban liberalism. You love immigrants when they’re poor and struggling, but as soon as immigrants succeed, thrive, and reject your culture, you get big mad. It’s all so performative.

This whole thread is about hating poor people. People should just say what they mean.

Hmm I don’t think that’s it. It’s about white supremacy being threatened. Some of these posters are losing it at the idea that brown people don’t admire them. They want to catalog everything wrong with their “culture” to maintain that supremacy. If being white doesn’t have social power in this country, what does?

The fact that the brown people won't say what their superior culture actually is, says it all.

Exhibit A. A pathological need to dominate and establish supremacy.

Lol. You're just a typical late night troll.

Troll accusations.

The last refuge when you have no point.

What is the point again? This thread isn't exactly going places.

That you are upset that some foreigners don’t want to drool all over you and beg you to befriend them. Apparently that’s very upsetting to you.

Drool with their discolored teeth and bad breath? No thanks.

Your national folk hero is George Washington. Yours is a country build on nasty teeth!

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This scene was heartbreaking...

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is such a classic example of white, urban liberalism. You love immigrants when they’re poor and struggling, but as soon as immigrants succeed, thrive, and reject your culture, you get big mad. It’s all so performative.

This whole thread is about hating poor people. People should just say what they mean.

Hmm I don’t think that’s it. It’s about white supremacy being threatened. Some of these posters are losing it at the idea that brown people don’t admire them. They want to catalog everything wrong with their “culture” to maintain that supremacy. If being white doesn’t have social power in this country, what does?

The fact that the brown people won't say what their superior culture actually is, says it all.

Exhibit A. A pathological need to dominate and establish supremacy.

Lol. You're just a typical late night troll.

Troll accusations.

The last refuge when you have no point.

What is the point again? This thread isn't exactly going places.

That you are upset that some foreigners don’t want to drool all over you and beg you to befriend them. Apparently that’s very upsetting to you.

Drool with their discolored teeth and bad breath? No thanks.

And then when someone pointed out how racist you are, you got all butt-hurt over that too.

I imagine your life is difficult. 😣

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is such a classic example of white, urban liberalism. You love immigrants when they’re poor and struggling, but as soon as immigrants succeed, thrive, and reject your culture, you get big mad. It’s all so performative.

This whole thread is about hating poor people. People should just say what they mean.

Hmm I don’t think that’s it. It’s about white supremacy being threatened. Some of these posters are losing it at the idea that brown people don’t admire them. They want to catalog everything wrong with their “culture” to maintain that supremacy. If being white doesn’t have social power in this country, what does?

The fact that the brown people won't say what their superior culture actually is, says it all.

Exhibit A. A pathological need to dominate and establish supremacy.

Lol. You're just a typical late night troll.

Troll accusations.

The last refuge when you have no point.

What is the point again? This thread isn't exactly going places.

That you are upset that some foreigners don’t want to drool all over you and beg you to befriend them. Apparently that’s very upsetting to you.

Drool with their discolored teeth and bad breath? No thanks.

We are English. We take pride in our discolored teeth and bad breath.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is such a classic example of white, urban liberalism. You love immigrants when they’re poor and struggling, but as soon as immigrants succeed, thrive, and reject your culture, you get big mad. It’s all so performative.

This whole thread is about hating poor people. People should just say what they mean.

Hmm I don’t think that’s it. It’s about white supremacy being threatened. Some of these posters are losing it at the idea that brown people don’t admire them. They want to catalog everything wrong with their “culture” to maintain that supremacy. If being white doesn’t have social power in this country, what does?

The fact that the brown people won't say what their superior culture actually is, says it all.

Exhibit A. A pathological need to dominate and establish supremacy.

Lol. You're just a typical late night troll.

Troll accusations.

The last refuge when you have no point.

What is the point again? This thread isn't exactly going places.

That you are upset that some foreigners don’t want to drool all over you and beg you to befriend them. Apparently that’s very upsetting to you.

Drool with their discolored teeth and bad breath? No thanks.

And then when someone pointed out how racist you are, you got all butt-hurt over that too.

I imagine your life is difficult. 😣

So the racists want to point out racism? Fascinating!

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is such a classic example of white, urban liberalism. You love immigrants when they’re poor and struggling, but as soon as immigrants succeed, thrive, and reject your culture, you get big mad. It’s all so performative.

This whole thread is about hating poor people. People should just say what they mean.

Hmm I don’t think that’s it. It’s about white supremacy being threatened. Some of these posters are losing it at the idea that brown people don’t admire them. They want to catalog everything wrong with their “culture” to maintain that supremacy. If being white doesn’t have social power in this country, what does?

The fact that the brown people won't say what their superior culture actually is, says it all.

Exhibit A. A pathological need to dominate and establish supremacy.

Lol. You're just a typical late night troll.

Troll accusations.

The last refuge when you have no point.

What is the point again? This thread isn't exactly going places.

That you are upset that some foreigners don’t want to drool all over you and beg you to befriend them. Apparently that’s very upsetting to you.

Drool with their discolored teeth and bad breath? No thanks.

And then when someone pointed out how racist you are, you got all butt-hurt over that too.

I imagine your life is difficult. 😣

So the racists want to point out racism? Fascinating!

Haven’t you proved the point of everyone on this thread who said they keep their distance from you? Continue to double down, I guess.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m not American, but I don’t see the issue with carpooling. What’s wrong with that? We don’t do sleepovers due to a fear of SA, and we wouldn’t allow dating, because we don’t believe in intimacy before marriage, but what is wrong with carpooling?

How will you control this when your kid is in college?

DP. I think socialization, family dynamics and home culture also plays a part in how and when children become sexually active. Most gen-z are moving away from hook-up culture and I think this is also due to the culture and worldview that immigrants are bringing to the table. Hooking up as seen as trashy and poor people's behavior. Especially in the affluent and educated circles.

^You can't be serious?

Can’t be serious. Not when men are begging Trump on Twitter not to deport the Venezuelan immigrants whose culture and worldview they said “transformed” prostitution

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Anonymous wrote:Refusing these on principle is bizarre.

My kids have each done one sleepover in their lives, I believe. They're not dating as teens and young adults. And my second did have a yearlong carpool at some point.

But we didn't set off to refuse those things. It just happened that way.

Why don't you live your life in a more organic way? You seem extremely mentally rigid.

TBH - I see no value in them while my kids are young. There are many other things that I do for the socialization of my kids, so I don't think they are missing anything but dangerous situations. I do not want to normalize these things or distract them from their academics, ECs, traveling and having fun with similar kids.

In my interactions with American families, I have not walked away with feeling that I want them be around my kids when I am not around. I don't want to do the detective work to find out what the intentions of people around me are especially when it comes to the safety of my children.

My kids and I do have these discussions all the time, and I feel I will be more comfortable when they are adults and able to have their own boundaries.

Wow.

Why would you live here if you don't like or trust any "American" families or American cultural traditions?

My parents were like this and I guess I can explain it to you as an observer. In a lot of countries/cultures, you don’t befriend everyone. You befriend people who are your caste, from your region, your religion, your socioeconomic level, etc. These aren’t laws set in stone, it’s just the way things are. So when people come to America they naturally gravitate to their own “kind.”

My parents are not going to socialize with “Americans” just like they are not going to socialize with someone from their own country who is on a different social strata. It’s not personal. They simply decline to navigate social differences if they don’t have to.

I don’t know why so many of you are offended by this. People who immigrate go through enough crap, they don’t have to force themselves to befriend you. Their children will assimilate because they grow up in this culture.

And this is my personal experience, Americans tend to be very stingy and guarded. They lack the warmth and generosity you experience in my parents’ culture. Look at this forum for myriad examples. It’s a lot less complicated to make friends in other cultures.

The fact that you’ve even set foot in this country is due to the ignorance and magnanimity of Americans

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Anonymous wrote:Piercing baby girls ears.

Or noses.

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Anonymous wrote:Refusing these on principle is bizarre.

My kids have each done one sleepover in their lives, I believe. They're not dating as teens and young adults. And my second did have a yearlong carpool at some point.

But we didn't set off to refuse those things. It just happened that way.

Why don't you live your life in a more organic way? You seem extremely mentally rigid.

TBH - I see no value in them while my kids are young. There are many other things that I do for the socialization of my kids, so I don't think they are missing anything but dangerous situations. I do not want to normalize these things or distract them from their academics, ECs, traveling and having fun with similar kids.

In my interactions with American families, I have not walked away with feeling that I want them be around my kids when I am not around. I don't want to do the detective work to find out what the intentions of people around me are especially when it comes to the safety of my children.

My kids and I do have these discussions all the time, and I feel I will be more comfortable when they are adults and able to have their own boundaries.

Wow.

Why would you live here if you don't like or trust any "American" families or American cultural traditions?

My parents were like this and I guess I can explain it to you as an observer. In a lot of countries/cultures, you don’t befriend everyone. You befriend people who are your caste, from your region, your religion, your socioeconomic level, etc. These aren’t laws set in stone, it’s just the way things are. So when people come to America they naturally gravitate to their own “kind.”

My parents are not going to socialize with “Americans” just like they are not going to socialize with someone from their own country who is on a different social strata. It’s not personal. They simply decline to navigate social differences if they don’t have to.

I don’t know why so many of you are offended by this. People who immigrate go through enough crap, they don’t have to force themselves to befriend you. Their children will assimilate because they grow up in this culture.

And this is my personal experience, Americans tend to be very stingy and guarded. They lack the warmth and generosity you experience in my parents’ culture. Look at this forum for myriad examples. It’s a lot less complicated to make friends in other cultures.

“It’s a lot less complicated to make friends in my home country, and Americans are stingy,” says person from nation with a disgustingly immobile caste system that’s heavily based on colorism

I am not from a country with a caste system. I was using this as an example.

I mean, look at your response. Why would foreigners go out of their way to make friends with you?

Lol do you know how many posters whine here on a daily basis about how they want to be friends with white people but feel like nobody will talk to them because they are racist? Now you're saying it's the other way around?

I personally have never had an issue with wanting to befriend white people.

I’m just seeing the people on this thread who seem incredibly personally offended when someone from another culture says they are not interested in befriending you or having their children absorb your influence.

It is sort of a very white American thing to be so upset about this. White people seem to always want accolades for simply existing. No. Sorry. That’s not how life works.

Now you're just talking out your ass. Crying about racism is pretty upset. You're going to need a thicker skin to make it here.

I’ve been on this forum for long enough to recognize there’s a ton of racism directed to nonwhite people. And honestly, in the age of Trump, POC don’t care anymore. The real crying isn’t coming from POC on this thread.

Whatever you say. You get what you give.

Girl, my dance card is full. Really. I’m not upset by the reality that people are tribal. But it seems VERY upsetting to some.

You’re such a hypocrite. You would have a meltdown if people started attacking your culture. Be brave and name it. I’m sure we can quite easily come up with several massive flaws. I dare you since you’re so not easily upset. Go on.

If you want to see a massive flaw with my culture, you can look in the mirror, because I am American, just like you, whether you like it or not.

We’re working on fixing that

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Anonymous wrote:Refusing these on principle is bizarre.

My kids have each done one sleepover in their lives, I believe. They're not dating as teens and young adults. And my second did have a yearlong carpool at some point.

But we didn't set off to refuse those things. It just happened that way.

Why don't you live your life in a more organic way? You seem extremely mentally rigid.

TBH - I see no value in them while my kids are young. There are many other things that I do for the socialization of my kids, so I don't think they are missing anything but dangerous situations. I do not want to normalize these things or distract them from their academics, ECs, traveling and having fun with similar kids.

In my interactions with American families, I have not walked away with feeling that I want them be around my kids when I am not around. I don't want to do the detective work to find out what the intentions of people around me are especially when it comes to the safety of my children.

My kids and I do have these discussions all the time, and I feel I will be more comfortable when they are adults and able to have their own boundaries.

Wow.

Why would you live here if you don't like or trust any "American" families or American cultural traditions?

My parents were like this and I guess I can explain it to you as an observer. In a lot of countries/cultures, you don’t befriend everyone. You befriend people who are your caste, from your region, your religion, your socioeconomic level, etc. These aren’t laws set in stone, it’s just the way things are. So when people come to America they naturally gravitate to their own “kind.”

My parents are not going to socialize with “Americans” just like they are not going to socialize with someone from their own country who is on a different social strata. It’s not personal. They simply decline to navigate social differences if they don’t have to.

I don’t know why so many of you are offended by this. People who immigrate go through enough crap, they don’t have to force themselves to befriend you. Their children will assimilate because they grow up in this culture.

And this is my personal experience, Americans tend to be very stingy and guarded. They lack the warmth and generosity you experience in my parents’ culture. Look at this forum for myriad examples. It’s a lot less complicated to make friends in other cultures.

“It’s a lot less complicated to make friends in my home country, and Americans are stingy,” says person from nation with a disgustingly immobile caste system that’s heavily based on colorism

I am not from a country with a caste system. I was using this as an example.

I mean, look at your response. Why would foreigners go out of their way to make friends with you?

Lol do you know how many posters whine here on a daily basis about how they want to be friends with white people but feel like nobody will talk to them because they are racist? Now you're saying it's the other way around?

I personally have never had an issue with wanting to befriend white people.

I’m just seeing the people on this thread who seem incredibly personally offended when someone from another culture says they are not interested in befriending you or having their children absorb your influence.

It is sort of a very white American thing to be so upset about this. White people seem to always want accolades for simply existing. No. Sorry. That’s not how life works.

Now you're just talking out your ass. Crying about racism is pretty upset. You're going to need a thicker skin to make it here.

I’ve been on this forum for long enough to recognize there’s a ton of racism directed to nonwhite people. And honestly, in the age of Trump, POC don’t care anymore. The real crying isn’t coming from POC on this thread.

Whatever you say. You get what you give.

Girl, my dance card is full. Really. I’m not upset by the reality that people are tribal. But it seems VERY upsetting to some.

You’re such a hypocrite. You would have a meltdown if people started attacking your culture. Be brave and name it. I’m sure we can quite easily come up with several massive flaws. I dare you since you’re so not easily upset. Go on.

If you want to see a massive flaw with my culture, you can look in the mirror, because I am American, just like you, whether you like it or not.

We’re working on fixing that

Work on fixing your plunging birth rate first