Love is Blind - Season 10

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Bri is such a male identified loser. She was very unapologetic to Jess for entertaining Chris or to Brittany for the weird Austin trip.

She did apologize to Jess, but I think she and Brittany were the same kind of girl (competing for all the male attention in the room kind of girl) and she didn't feel any loyalty to her so she didn't care. She picked "Devo" in that breakup and doesn't acknowledge a girl code could exist between her and Brittany.

I feel like honestly Brittany didn't have many (/any, except for Amber maybe?) female friendships form in this show. She bought the dress and came for the boys and that's where her head was at. The girls were just competition. I mean did she ever tell Ashley about Alex's weird come-on in Mexico?

I think Bri is just a deceptive person. It was interesting how Alex got called on for this stupid Austin timeline (in the past, not even very clear what about it would be a big deal?), and here is Bri, entertaining Chris's advances until he turned too creepy, lying about who was going on the concert trip and saying it's a "girls' trip." It would have been so natural to mention to Connor that Devonta was going, so are you sure you don't want to also come? The whole Bri/Priyanka/Ashley trio was catty shady mean girls. And Brittany does seem like she is good friends with Amber, Jess and Emma. As far as Brittany coming for the boys, she was focused on one guy, Devonta, and seemed to love him for who he was (did not know he made a lot of money until later on, he does not look good and she accepted him as he was...) Is she in love with love? Sure, but I don't see her as competitive at all.

[Anonymous]

Oh Connor, you can do so so so much better.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I liked how this reunion was handled, with no vilifying of people. It felt more balanced and like it gave a chance for seeing all perspectives.

I'm glad Jordan told the drunk wedding story rather than allow himself to be pushed under the bus. Also good to hear Vanessa explain that Alex's behavior comes from a lot of trauma (she had a tough childhood herself) Ultimately the show seems to have learned that full on take downs are not ok and everyone there is a flawed person.

Yeah it was really being framed as he's just a frat boy doofus who couldn't handle adulting. She's not ready for a relationship, she hates men! Like says how much she hates them on TV! And then acting like being invited to be his plus-one was an unrealistic expectation he was putting on her, as opposed to a perfectly normal part of being a couple, was super strange.

Brittany's dad was so kind and genuine. Devonte's kid is screwed, I'm sad to say.

Probably by the first woman who gave his box built body the time of day. It seems really rushed to just up and have a baby on the way. He spent 3 months of the year breaking up with Brit then it takes 2 months for a positive test result so how much does he even know this woman?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bri is such a male identified loser. She was very unapologetic to Jess for entertaining Chris or to Brittany for the weird Austin trip.

She did apologize to Jess, but I think she and Brittany were the same kind of girl (competing for all the male attention in the room kind of girl) and she didn't feel any loyalty to her so she didn't care. She picked "Devo" in that breakup and doesn't acknowledge a girl code could exist between her and Brittany.

I feel like honestly Brittany didn't have many (/any, except for Amber maybe?) female friendships form in this show. She bought the dress and came for the boys and that's where her head was at. The girls were just competition. I mean did she ever tell Ashley about Alex's weird come-on in Mexico?

I think Bri is just a deceptive person. It was interesting how Alex got called on for this stupid Austin timeline (in the past, not even very clear what about it would be a big deal?), and here is Bri, entertaining Chris's advances until he turned too creepy, lying about who was going on the concert trip and saying it's a "girls' trip." It would have been so natural to mention to Connor that Devonta was going, so are you sure you don't want to also come? The whole Bri/Priyanka/Ashley trio was catty shady mean girls. And Brittany does seem like she is good friends with Amber, Jess and Emma. As far as Brittany coming for the boys, she was focused on one guy, Devonta, and seemed to love him for who he was (did not know he made a lot of money until later on, he does not look good and she accepted him as he was...) Is she in love with love? Sure, but I don't see her as competitive at all.

I honestly think Bri had nothing to do with Devonta and either Priaynka or Ashley had more to do with it. Something is fishy on that end. And it did sound like he invited himself then expected to room with one of the women.

[Anonymous]

I hope Amber gets the mental health help she needs. She seems like a good person who need to build up her self-confidence.

[Anonymous]

Devonta's name irks the hell out of me.

Female names of all origins overwhelmingly end in -a.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Devonta's name irks the hell out of me.

Female names of all origins overwhelmingly end in -a.

People were calling him Devonte anyway

[Anonymous]

You can kinda tell who’s been to therapy since the show ended and who hasn’t. Brittney, girl, still delusional.

And you can also tell who’s talked to someone in crisis PR! Chris, you’re still a horrible person, but you did the only thing you could do here to not make it even worse, which was only directly answer the question posed, don’t elaborate, don’t ramble, don’t get angry. It comes across as cold, of course, but he was working hard to not give them any more sound bites. Smart.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hope Amber gets the mental health help she needs. She seems like a good person who need to build up her self-confidence.

Jordan said Amber spent a lot of time screaming - I wonder what Lil Emma will grow up thinking about men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Devonta's name irks the hell out of me.

Female names of all origins overwhelmingly end in -a.

People were calling him Devonte anyway

Or Devo. #whipit

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sad for Amber. She seems like she has a good heart but has a ton of hurt from her past that has made her incredibly cynical and prickly.

Don’t blame Jordan for ending things because they’re not a good match but man I cannot believe he didn’t say bye to Emma!

See, this I can’t fault him for. You break up with someone, it’s not mutual, it’s hostile, it’s angry…and now you ask “Can I talk to Emma?” I would’ve assumed Amber would blow up at that request. Maybe I’m weird for assuming that, but given her outburst during the reunion that (to me) seemed to come out of nowhere, plus Jordan saying she yelled and freaked out a lot, I feel like it’s a fairly safe bet that wouldn’t have gone over well no matter how she frames it now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope Amber gets the mental health help she needs. She seems like a good person who need to build up her self-confidence.

Jordan said Amber spent a lot of time screaming - I wonder what Lil Emma will grow up thinking about men.

She seems unstable. It's possible she's the cause of her problems in relationships. She seems to fly off the handle and mostly expresses contempt for men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I liked how this reunion was handled, with no vilifying of people. It felt more balanced and like it gave a chance for seeing all perspectives.

I'm glad Jordan told the drunk wedding story rather than allow himself to be pushed under the bus. Also good to hear Vanessa explain that Alex's behavior comes from a lot of trauma (she had a tough childhood herself) Ultimately the show seems to have learned that full on take downs are not ok and everyone there is a flawed person.

The drunk wedding story was crazy. Alex’s issues are so obvious his mom was always so cold to him in all their scenes, I could see how all of the trying to please people through just tons of lies could come from her parenting plus his father abandonment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You can kinda tell who’s been to therapy since the show ended and who hasn’t. Brittney, girl, still delusional.

And you can also tell who’s talked to someone in crisis PR! Chris, you’re still a horrible person, but you did the only thing you could do here to not make it even worse, which was only directly answer the question posed, don’t elaborate, don’t ramble, don’t get angry. It comes across as cold, of course, but he was working hard to not give them any more sound bites. Smart.

+100

Chris PR was so obvious. But he couldn’t containing his angry little red rat face.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I liked how this reunion was handled, with no vilifying of people. It felt more balanced and like it gave a chance for seeing all perspectives.

I'm glad Jordan told the drunk wedding story rather than allow himself to be pushed under the bus. Also good to hear Vanessa explain that Alex's behavior comes from a lot of trauma (she had a tough childhood herself) Ultimately the show seems to have learned that full on take downs are not ok and everyone there is a flawed person.

Yeah it was really being framed as he's just a frat boy doofus who couldn't handle adulting. She's not ready for a relationship, she hates men! Like says how much she hates them on TV! And then acting like being invited to be his plus-one was an unrealistic expectation he was putting on her, as opposed to a perfectly normal part of being a couple, was super strange.

Brittany's dad was so kind and genuine. Devonte's kid is screwed, I'm sad to say.

Probably by the first woman who gave his box built body the time of day. It seems really rushed to just up and have a baby on the way. He spent 3 months of the year breaking up with Brit then it takes 2 months for a positive test result so how much does he even know this woman?

He knows her enough to see she’s a white woman. When he saw Brittany was a WOC that was it.