Love is Blind - Season 10

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like Emma’s sister is getting too much heat. She was standing up for Emma. Mike was pressuring her throughout the pods (if I were Mike, Emma would be a huge red flag and vice versa). Even though I don’t say it in public, I feel similarly to Emma’s sister. Not every mom enjoys motherhood. Some of us have kids with special needs and cannot catch a break.

It's actually so so common! I've heard many parents say the same thing. Being honest about parenthood shouldn't be so controversial, especially when discussing it with someone on the fence.

In private, sure, on a message board, to friends...That's totally fine, but not on tv for your kids to watch. I think smart people are those like some family members in various reality shows who refuse to come and be on, like Bri's dad, Amber's ex...There is no upside to going on and being judged by strangers, or making hurtful comments like this one by accident or through shady editing by producers.

It's fine to talk about on TV. Not everyone wants to be hush hush about their very real feelings about parenthood, and that's fine. If it's not something you'd discuss, well that's your life. You don't get to dictate how everyone else lives theirs.

That’s a selfish perspective. It’s not fine to talk about on TV. She may have the right to her feelings but she needs to understand that broadcasting them out over mass airways might make it back to her children. Imagine if your young child heard that. Sure no one can dictate how you live your life but put your kids feelings first.

I think lying to people about parenthood is a selfish perspective. Saying parenting is hard is not abandoning your children. She sounds like a great mom. You're taking something personally that wasn't meant for you.

NP Agree with this 100%

Well, she came off badly. She presumably can communicate with her sister off camera. That was the time to say this.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like Emma’s sister is getting too much heat. She was standing up for Emma. Mike was pressuring her throughout the pods (if I were Mike, Emma would be a huge red flag and vice versa). Even though I don’t say it in public, I feel similarly to Emma’s sister. Not every mom enjoys motherhood. Some of us have kids with special needs and cannot catch a break.

It's actually so so common! I've heard many parents say the same thing. Being honest about parenthood shouldn't be so controversial, especially when discussing it with someone on the fence.

In private, sure, on a message board, to friends...That's totally fine, but not on tv for your kids to watch. I think smart people are those like some family members in various reality shows who refuse to come and be on, like Bri's dad, Amber's ex...There is no upside to going on and being judged by strangers, or making hurtful comments like this one by accident or through shady editing by producers.

It's fine to talk about on TV. Not everyone wants to be hush hush about their very real feelings about parenthood, and that's fine. If it's not something you'd discuss, well that's your life. You don't get to dictate how everyone else lives theirs.

That’s a selfish perspective. It’s not fine to talk about on TV. She may have the right to her feelings but she needs to understand that broadcasting them out over mass airways might make it back to her children. Imagine if your young child heard that. Sure no one can dictate how you live your life but put your kids feelings first.

I think lying to people about parenthood is a selfish perspective. Saying parenting is hard is not abandoning your children. She sounds like a great mom. You're taking something personally that wasn't meant for you.

NP Agree with this 100%

Well, she came off badly. She presumably can communicate with her sister off camera. That was the time to say this.

She also did not just say that parenthood is hard. Literally every parent I know has said so. She took it a step further for her kids to hear which was not necessary. She might absolutely be a great mom, but it was not a good parenting moment.

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Anonymous wrote:Hot take: Ashley isn’t that pretty.

I kind of agree. Found it weird how appalled she was that someone might not find her attractive.

First time you met a blonde woman? If they have yellow hair and are below a size 10 they are 100% convinced that they're God's gift. End of discussion, any difference of opinion is a "fetish."

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Anonymous wrote:Hot take: Ashley isn’t that pretty.

I kind of agree. Found it weird how appalled she was that someone might not find her attractive.

First time you met a blonde woman? If they have yellow hair and are below a size 10 they are 100% convinced that they're God's gift. End of discussion, any difference of opinion is a "fetish."

You sound like a guy who has been rejected multiple times by blondes.
Try therapy.

Of course you cannot generalize about people based on their hair color. Some blondes may even dye their hair to compensate for insecurity.

What is your excuse?