This is a piece of the story that I find very complicated. Can a family or a minor wave their rights to a protection afforded by law? How much legal jeopardy does the school take on if they had sent such a communication? How much criticism do they take for outing an alleged to victim? For interfering with a police investigation? And how does that communication to the community go? “This is what we’ve been told happened, as of now there’s no evidence except for the boys testimony, and does anyone here know any thing about it?” Take a moment and think about the ramifications of that kind of email going to the community. I realize there are people that think the family was not served by the school but at the same time there are lawyers directing all of this and yes, the whole thing is terrible. |
Thank you. |
Thank God you are no longer a GDS parent. Right? You did immediately withdraw, right? Btw, the Georgetown President made 1.6 million in 2024. Pretty sure our DC school heads made less than that. |
When would the other parents have come forward yet? Until late Thursday no one knew it had happened. And the school’s emails since then, basically saying the kid made it up, would probably make anyone thinking of coming forward think twice. I think one of the reasons the family sent the email was in hope that more people would come forward. If I was a conspiracy theorist I might even wonder if the school email was deliberately harsh to dissuade anyone else from coming forward. Also-I know the family, they are quite liberal so I really doubt this is a kid afraid to come out. If anything I think the email shows how brave the kid is— it’s not easy for a kid to tell everyone he was anally raped ( they know many people know who the victim is). Not that he has anything to be ashamed of, but still many would be reluctant to do it, and if they could do this I can’t imagine they couldn’t tell the parents about their orientation. This is also one of the many reasons I believe the victim here—I think very few boys would make something like this up, from fear of social repercussions. Bullying or even touching? Maybe. But to make this up seems unlikely. |
Right?! It’s crazy that in this day and age, with the Epstein files on the news every day, that people say that if something happened no one would have covered it up or that no charges being filed means nothing happened. |
There are roughly 80 boys in 7th and 8th grade combined. Even if faces were covered, it seems that hair color, race, articles of clothing, make of sneakers, etc. are things that could have been noted. If so, it would significantly narrow the pool of suspects. I have deep compassion for the victim and family. At the same time, I also understand how the school could not take action with out more proof. Would you want you your child to be expelled based on an allegation? The movie Atonement comes to mind. It seems the parents are trying to rectify this. As a parent, I would want to do everything to protect my child. This kind of incident also makes you wonder if someone else had abused the kid (trusted adult) and this was a way to process it without implicating a real perpetrator. |
If the child was either younger or older, for different reasons, then I too would be wondering about a trusted adult. There's something about an 11 year old boy saying this about a 13 year old boy that makes it different. None of that means that GDS acted wrong or that the MPD could prove anything either way. |
What? This is not only DC it's GDS. But, putting that aside, even if it was partly consensual there's a major problem. He was 11 not 13. If anything, this line of thinking just raises more questions about the alleged perpetrators. |
| so now what all the kids are getting side eyed/ is it him? |
They DID go to the police first. |
Calling colleges about something that happens at an alementary school hoping to ding the high school students is kind of screwy. |
But the claim was that the police the allegation was credible. If you have to lie to create credibility, maybe there is none to begin with. |
Then let me ask again, where do the police say that they find the allegations credible? |
Anally raped? Where does it say that? |
It's screwy but it's not "threat to the community", "someone who wishes real harm" kind of screwy. |