How many do you know? Because the ones I know actually don't feel that Deal, Basis or Latin are that amazing for them. |
Ummm I’m speaking about my own family and nearly all their friends. And btw there are more charters than deal and basis. |
The ones I know = “my cleaning lady’s kids” Trust me no one is clamoring for any hill middle school unless it is better than the alternative. |
Wrote deal meant Latin. There are more charters than Latin and Basis. |
Your self-centeredness astounds. You view the world through the prism of your own experience and opportunity. BASIS and Latin do NOT exist for the benefit and pleasure of SH. You want kids to remain in 5th at their ES because your ES is good (for you). There are a lot of ES in DC that kids cannot escape fast enough. You can't see that with your "me" blinders on. You see only your path, your ES, your SH path. You are also ignorant of actual enrollment data. Yes, there are a lot of SH catchment kids at BASIS and Latin. But, notwithstanding what your neighbors tell you, it isn't remotely comprised of all those kids. Not remotely. I find it amusing that you and the Deal/JR/W3 fool both have impressions of BASIS and Latin that don't reflect reality. Yet you both speak with certainty formed from your own experience and and hubris and ignorance that simply won't let you for a moment consider that not everyone is you or your similalry situated neighbors. |
Excellent. Agree 100% |
You don't seem great at reading comprehension. The part you bolded and what you replied with have almost nothing to do with each other. I said that the current approach *was* good for families w/ passable DCPS MS options (including, FWIW, Deal) & good lottery luck, but not for others. You appear to think I said the opposite. Schools having 50% turnover in the final year of ES are good for no one, least of all the students left behind. I also noted that I'd be equally happy with DCPSes ending in 4th, so I'm not looking to necessarily keep kids in DCPS ES longer. That said, you don't even once think about the kids who want to "escape" to charter MSes and can't, so if anyone has blinders it's you. There is literally not a single word in what you wrote that explains why it benefits they system to have different starting years for MSes. |
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Late to this thread but just saw “living their values.”
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| Living their values sounds ridiculous and absurdly holier than though. But there were a lot of earlier posts that parents who choose to attend the allegedly terrible Hill DCPS middle schools supposedly just dont care at all about academics or their children. And it sort of devolved from there. |
There’s definitely this weird vibe from lottery winners in general that they did something to deserve their luck. You see it at both the ES and MS levels and it’s definitely not charter-specific. The better luck you need to get into a school, the more you see it typically. |
I totally agree that there is a weird vibe with lottery winners but I would prefer that any day over people who arrogantly say enrolling their kid in their not so great dcps is “living their values”. |
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It’s obvious that many people on here don’t know the history of DCPS.
Charters benefitted the city immensely because of school choice and it kept middle class families in the city. Otherwise they would move to the burbs once they had kids. If Basis, Latin, DCI was not an option, the majority of these families, such as ours, would move to the burbs and not stay for failing DCPS middle and high school. Charters are what’s keeping alot if families in the city. If not for then, they would move, not go to their IB DCPS school. |
I feel like many of us know this, but it bears repeating to the newbies. |
Totally accurate! These same people judge you for your school decisions (such as going private) that don't align with their values, when their values were never tested because of their amazing lottery luck. |
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I realize this may be a moot point since everybody seems to be fiercely defending their choices in their corners. I feel strongly that parents can share their personal experiences and reasons if they so choose, but generalizing about decisions of all public school parents, all charter parents, all private parents, or all parents of certain backgrounds isn't just unhelpful, but it is not ever accurate. It would help everybody (not to mention the kids, who overhear adults saying these things and say them to each other at sports, camps etc -- the things my child has come home saying other kids have said is not good). Anyway - as a parent who has enrolled her rising 6th grader at EH, I don't need to read all these posts about 'all people who send their kids to DCPS middles are sacrificing their kids, holier than thou, and will supplement, etc'. I do not generalize about all of the families who choose to go charter or private, I know families make their decisions for a variety of reasons. We did not strike out in the lottery, we did not do the lottery, nor did many of my child's classmates. Based on conversations we have had with current families at the middle school, and learning about the programs, clubs, etc - we chose this school intentionally. My son has done well with strong teachers during the past 8 years, and despite there being a range of scores/grade levels in his classes in later elementary, his teachers were still able to meet and push students from different levels. I know not every teacher will be perfect and some may struggle more with the differentiation, but I also know that as a child in a sought after public school district in IL, I had some less than stellar teachers, it happens everywhere.
Anyway - again this will probably not change the tone on this forum, but it would be great if we could all be genuinely interested in all of the students and schools instead of pitting people/schools against each other. |