| I think it is easy to feel a little bit judged as a parent irrespective of whether you stay DCPS or leave after DCPS elementary for a charter school. |
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The obvious solution is to expect push back, to keep one's middle school plans under wraps in advance, and to develop a thick skin.
Worth it to stay in the neighborhood. |
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East and South Asian immigrants generally want high-performing middle schools for their children (read those with academic tracking and not just for math) with good facilities for STEM work and music. They're seldom attracted to iffy DCPS middle schools with good facilities or decent charter middle schools with weak facilities. They don't tend to care about equity, what's woke, or racial make-up. They do tend to supplement extensively even where middle schools are good. They aren't attracted to DCPS EotP and seldom stay past ES. Frankly, their buy-is is a useful barometer of school quality.
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You can be offended all you want, but it’s true. You’re not going to find families a-ok with chronic truancy and a bad attitude about school within the Brent catchment. Those folks have high educational standards. You will find those families IB for the other schools that feed into Jefferson. |
Immigrants, even educated ones, lack understanding of how American educational system or child psychology works. Its a huge drawback for their kids. |
THIS^. |
| If you want to explore any school, go to that school, talk to students, teachers and parents of that school. Social forums tend to bring in extreme reviewers who are trying to justify why the left or stayed. People who are satisfied and know how to make it work, have no reason to feel offensive or defensive about their choices. |
Why would anyone give a FF if you’re offended? |
| I wish you all hadn't gotten the post deleted where the good little Karen tried to whitesplain why Asian parents avoid failing schools because apparently they don't know any better. |
This 70s baby from NYC considers the above post as quite possibly the goofiest I've ever come across on DCUM. No drawback whatsoever to upwardly mobile immigrants, and others in the know, questioning how the "American educational system" works here in 2023. |
Huh? The post is still there. I'm not reading whitesplaining Karen in it. More like factually correct. |
Yes, the post still there is good and accurate. The deleted post did as I mentioned. |
LOL. Ime, most east and south Asian immigrants have a very good understanding of the American educational system and child psychology, which is why they make the choices they do. |
Where have you been shopping for groceries? One of the reasons I moved is because it’s such a pain to get Asian produce on the Hill. If that were different, maybe I would have stayed. |
| The behavior of all students (including UMC whites) at Hill elementary schools post pandemic is what is concerning me the most. If the behavior is already this bad on the elementary level, just how is it going to improve in MS, when hormones naturally make kids go crazy??? |