DA vs ECNL vs everything else

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Anonymous wrote:FCV 04 picked up BRYC 04 centerback. Is that what you are trying to say? Still confusing

Well the discussion was about the 2 04 Mclean girls. Mentioned that they also picked up a BRYC CB as well. Not sure how that is confusing, but I will take your word for it.

I'm not the PP. That's interesting because I heard BRYC lost an 02 CB to WS. I guess CBs decided BRYC isn't the place to be...

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Really? You, the guy that screaming about nepotism and politics and that says the players coming into FCV aren't very good and certainly not better than those exiting, aren't talking about the kids? If you aren't talking about the kids, who exactly are you talking about? You are a bitter person with nothing better to do that to find someone else to blame for whatever has gone wrong for you and/or your child. I presume I don't know you because this bitter of a personality would be hard to forget. And I certainly don't know your child if she played at FCV. I wish her the best and I hope, for her sake, you back off because you are going to make her experiences miserable for her.

What an emotional response.

Gas lighting again are we?

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Anonymous wrote:A star player wil not sit behind a star player. They will go elsewhere and be a star player.

People lose sight of the fact that it's a game meant to be played.

This is my point about development. It's not right or wrong to be more focused on just wanting to play the game as opposed to being the best possible player you can be when you're 20. But those two goals require VERY DIFFERENT decisions year to year, season to season. You parents jump around clubs all the time due this star player mentality. It's like if your kid was learning to ride a bike and fell, you'd put the training wheels back on. It's fine if the kid is having fun. But it's not making them a better player or better able to deal with adversity.

I'd proposed that if you're on this thread "ECNL vs. DA vs. ..." that you are at least someone subscribed to the idea that you want your DS / DD to be the best they can be at age 20. If that is true, you'd have a better chance at getting him or her there if you'd listen to some professionals once in a while. "The game is meant to be played", "Winning does matter", "I pay too much to watch them sit on the bench", "I'm not paying for them to be on anyone's B team" are all things parents say who should not be anywhere near a conversation about player development.

It's fine. Just keep the perspective once in a while if you can please. The teachers might actually know what's best for your kid. What you're seeing at any youth soccer level really isn't true soccer. You have no perspective. You do not know what you do not know in other words. The mistakes and bad decisions and lack of specific skills needed to succeed at the higher levels are more common not in every game. The kids just aren't there yet, not matter what teams they're beating at other youth events. Dozens of full scholarship D1 athletes get drafted then cut every year in MLS and NWSL, and MLS at least is barely in the global top 20 of leagues.

If you want to pay to watch your kid win and play all the time when they're kids, these clubs will take your money. But if you don't buy into the development plan it doesn't mean they "wronged" you. It more likely means you think you know better than the professionals.

This is a fine, idealistic point and some of it rings true even in practice.

However, many here have undoubtedly seen "the teachers" promote kids who just happen to have relatives coaching for the club, older brothers/sisters (more financial weight), buddies with coaching staff/TDs, etc... These promoted kids often play at a lower level or aren't as athletically gifted and those who deserve more of a challenge but aren't promoted. This is still a developmental concern and NOT about playing with the A team or just winning in many cases, sorry; it's about seeking out a developmentally appropriate level for your kid, for whom you are the only true champion. In fact, you know you are in one of these situations when the "teachers" tell you exactly what you said: "you don't know what you are seeing" aka don't believe your lyin' eyes, despite your knowledge of the game/background (or even the opinion of other professionals, for that matter).

Wish it all were as simple as you paint, but that just isn't so.

I definitely wasn't saying all the coaches out there know what they're doing or do the right thing. This is where club leadership comes in. Is the club run top to bottom with vertical integration preached and practiced? Do they spread playing time around? Do they run good training sessions with maximum touches on the ball at younger ages and actually working on issues seen in games at older ages? Do coaches from all teams know and help and attend games at least monthly of the other teams? Does the head coach actually run the team and only has 2 teams at most? Does the technical director / director of coaching coach no more than 1 team themselves, if any at all and do they show up at the other teams sessions and evaluate their coaches and review training plans? Does every player have a personalized plan in place and reviewed regularly? Can your TD / DOC even name 75% of players in the top 2 teams in each age group?

Or, are you playing in a club where a couple of guys are doing 3 or more teams full time, show up half the time if you're lucky, are on their phones at the beginning of training, barely email, don't have time to talk after practice because they're hustling to the next gig, and you never see anyone actually in charge of the club's player development attending training or overseeing things? Or worse, outsourced coaches from some company wearing gear from 3 different clubs or brands who are literally only doing this as a job.

I proposed that only the DC and WS pro academies, and a few really big clubs like Bethesda, Loudoun, Pipeline, PWSI, Richmond Strikers and Kickers are anywhere near the "right" way to do things with a bigger picture somewhat in mind and without needing to hire outside "trainers" or constantly recruit entire teams to come to their club just to have a decent level of competitiveness. Everyone else is pretending and hustling every day to put food on the table or for their own egos, or they very admirably just focus on providing a solid service to their community without trying to be Barcelona or City.

Would like to know if there is a single club does such?

Me too; I haven't seen any (true) personalized plans below the DA level. Also, compliance with many of the rest are questionable inclusive the large clubs mentioned, even though some aspects (especially logistical and coaching allocations) are definitely better in most cases at the bigger clubs. That said, just because a club is organized better doesn't exclude the behavior mentioned. I've personally seen just as much nepotism/favoritism at large clubs. Maybe more. Organization doesn't trump human factors, and I'd argue it's even better at hiding them.

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Anonymous wrote:FCV staff told the kids they weren't as good as the kids coming in when they cut them.

Go look in the mirror and yell at yourself.

So they were honest?

Does FCV really develop talent? Or they take best kids and take credit for it?

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I am just here for the comments

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Just curious, how many of you actually played soccer, watch soccer regularly and really understand what is involved. Just curious that is all.

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Because, like many others, I come on here to try to get some information and the board has been highjacked by crazy people. Frustrating.

And you might be one of them with your emotional reactions. Just sayin.

You're ridiculous. There was nothing "emotional" about the PP's comments. There is, however, something manipulative about calling any post you disagree with as an "emotional reaction" to try and shut that person down.

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If you want to know if a club really develops talent all you have to do is look at the teams current make up and figure out where they came from.

Lets take FCV for example. Their 1st ever U9, U10, U11, U12, and U13 group started five years ago. Everything up until that time at FCV was only ECNL (U14 and above). That aforementioned group is now U14, U15, U16, U17, U18.

How many of those kids on the current DA teams do you think came from the original age group pools?

Answer: Very Few.

[Anonymous]

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Because, like many others, I come on here to try to get some information and the board has been highjacked by crazy people. Frustrating.

And you might be one of them with your emotional reactions. Just sayin.

You're ridiculous. There was nothing "emotional" about the PP's comments. There is, however, something manipulative about calling any post you disagree with as an "emotional reaction" to try and shut that person down.

still sound emotional. Take 5.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just curious, how many of you actually played soccer, watch soccer regularly and really understand what is involved. Just curious that is all.

Please teach us o wise one!

(Not sure playing soccer, watching soccer or even coaching winning soccer teams qualifies someone to judge a player's future potential.)

[Anonymous]

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Because, like many others, I come on here to try to get some information and the board has been highjacked by crazy people. Frustrating.

And you might be one of them with your emotional reactions. Just sayin.

You're ridiculous. There was nothing "emotional" about the PP's comments. There is, however, something manipulative about calling any post you disagree with as an "emotional reaction" to try and shut that person down.

Calling people "crazy" is not an attempt to shut down and discredit?

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Anonymous wrote:Just curious, how many of you actually played soccer, watch soccer regularly and really understand what is involved. Just curious that is all.

I did (and still do). I watch it as well. I like to watch multiple pro leagues, because of the differences in style, tactics, and even talent level.

But I get your point. I would wager most of these people didn't and don't. Like hearing the ridiculous parent comments (even within my own club) to refs at games.

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And you might be one of them with your emotional reactions. Just sayin.

You're ridiculous. There was nothing "emotional" about the PP's comments. There is, however, something manipulative about calling any post you disagree with as an "emotional reaction" to try and shut that person down.

Calling people "crazy" is not an attempt to shut down and discredit?

The PP didn't call any specific poster crazy, so no. You however specifically went after him/her.

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And you might be one of them with your emotional reactions. Just sayin.

You're ridiculous. There was nothing "emotional" about the PP's comments. There is, however, something manipulative about calling any post you disagree with as an "emotional reaction" to try and shut that person down.

still sound emotional. Take 5.

Still gas lighting. Take all the time you need.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you want to know if a club really develops talent all you have to do is look at the teams current make up and figure out where they came from.

Lets take FCV for example. Their 1st ever U9, U10, U11, U12, and U13 group started five years ago. Everything up until that time at FCV was only ECNL (U14 and above). That aforementioned group is now U14, U15, U16, U17, U18.

How many of those kids on the current DA teams do you think came from the original age group pools?

Answer: Very Few.

Like 15% to 20%? I guess stealing kids from other clubs is their forte. However, with other DA's and ECNL teams within close proximity, it will likely hurt their ability to woo parents/kids to their club.