Skinny is the new moral/hard working and all other kind of superiority?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ice cream is a kid food is such a bad take.

Just say you don’t like ice cream. And maybe visit Italy while you’re at it and look at all the adults walking around eating gelato in cones.

Watching tourists licking giant ice cream cones with ice cream all over their faces and running down their arms is proof its not kid food? Eh. Ice cream isn't even that great most of the time. And certainly some of the tourist trap gelato places shouldn't exist. Not everyone loves ice cream and those that are lactose intolerant especially. That mean more for you, so don't worry about it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ice cream is a kid food is such a bad take.

Just say you don’t like ice cream. And maybe visit Italy while you’re at it and look at all the adults walking around eating gelato in cones.

Watching tourists licking giant ice cream cones with ice cream all over their faces and running down their arms is proof its not kid food? Eh. Ice cream isn't even that great most of the time. And certainly some of the tourist trap gelato places shouldn't exist. Not everyone loves ice cream and those that are lactose intolerant especially. That mean more for you, so don't worry about it.

Thanks but I’m not worried! Its just a weirdly immaculate take.

Have you ever been to Italy? It’s not just tourists eating it. But I do wonder if people don’t see that thin people eat ice cream too because they get a pass. But fat people who eat ice cream are judged for it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The food judgers are the same people who in the 1950's would have judged you for having sex before marriage, getting an abortion or getting divorced, having an affair. THere are judgemental people in every generation. All that has really changed is what they're judgemental about.

At some point, it became unfashionable to label people as sluts and whores because they had sex before getting married. It was pretty much understood that people are different and they value different things when it comes to issues like premarital sex. People have different value systems. Not everyone is the same.

At some point we stopped judging women (for the most part) for working outside the home. It was pretty much understood that that too is a personal decision.

And even back then, it was pretty much the losers who had nothing else going for them who were really proud of their marital status, or the status of their virginity, etc.

My sister in law is really proud of her tiny little figure. I figure I make twice as much money as her, have a better career and my kids like me more. I guess I could have spent all that time at the gym, but I'm pretty happy with the choices that I have made. THat doesn't make me a loser or a 'glutton', anymore than living with my boyfriend made me a slut. Different strokes for different folks.

I said this upthread. The ladies who are a bit heavier tend to be more accomplished in other areas. They seem more giving. I say this as someone who has remained in the 5'5, 115-120 lb-range most of my life.

This is just inane at this point. Is this OP again? You start out getting mad that anyone places a moral value on being thin, something many of us have agree with you on even as you yell at us. Now you're saying that thin women are less accomplished and less giving? So you're saying, that people who are not thin are morally superior!

I know OP has said several times that she is thin, but this entire thread is coming off as someone who is not as thin as they'd like acting out against specific thin people in her life that she feels act superior. The whole thing has projection written all over it. It's not a good faith argument about how society treats people at different weights (which is actually a conversation I'd be interested in having).

I am not OP. I started a new thread. I wish I hadn't.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ice cream is a kid food is such a bad take.

Just say you don’t like ice cream. And maybe visit Italy while you’re at it and look at all the adults walking around eating gelato in cones.

Watching tourists licking giant ice cream cones with ice cream all over their faces and running down their arms is proof its not kid food? Eh. Ice cream isn't even that great most of the time. And certainly some of the tourist trap gelato places shouldn't exist. Not everyone loves ice cream and those that are lactose intolerant especially. That mean more for you, so don't worry about it.

Thanks but I’m not worried! Its just a weirdly immaculate take.

Have you ever been to Italy? It’s not just tourists eating it. But I do wonder if people don’t see that thin people eat ice cream too because they get a pass. But fat people who eat ice cream are judged for it.

I've been to Italy several times. Tried the gelato, it wasn't that memorable, enjoyed the food more. I do remember having to wait on a bus for a family of tourists to catch up running to it all licking and sucking on their giant gelato cones the entire time once they got on after making us wait. It was disgusting. I don't recall what size they were.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't mean more giving as in 'kinder.' They give to their families and the community more through different kinds of careers and social engagement. They strike me as generally less vain and self-obsessed.

Please don’t associate body size with personality.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ice cream is a kid food is such a bad take.

Just say you don’t like ice cream. And maybe visit Italy while you’re at it and look at all the adults walking around eating gelato in cones.

Watching tourists licking giant ice cream cones with ice cream all over their faces and running down their arms is proof its not kid food? Eh. Ice cream isn't even that great most of the time. And certainly some of the tourist trap gelato places shouldn't exist. Not everyone loves ice cream and those that are lactose intolerant especially. That mean more for you, so don't worry about it.

Thanks but I’m not worried! Its just a weirdly immaculate take.

Have you ever been to Italy? It’s not just tourists eating it. But I do wonder if people don’t see that thin people eat ice cream too because they get a pass. But fat people who eat ice cream are judged for it.

I've been to Italy several times. Tried the gelato, it wasn't that memorable, enjoyed the food more. I do remember having to wait on a bus for a family of tourists to catch up running to it all licking and sucking on their giant gelato cones the entire time once they got on after making us wait. It was disgusting. I don't recall what size they were.

DP. You are super weird PP.

- Someone who doesn't love ice cream but understands it is not something only children eat and it is not something that always results in slobbering and messiness hahaha

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What ridiculous thing, " you don't know how skinny brains work!"
I am thin, I am 50 and have always been thin. I am right now making a huge pastry called burek to eat for breakfast! I crave sweets and love them. Speak for yourself pp!

What’s your point? You are not thin because you make eat some sort of sweet burek (?!) for breakfast. And you're definitely not thin because you think certain foods are punishment

Ha, ha. Another unhinged person who thinks she is morally superior bcs she eats veggies? LOL!
I am thin, I am definitely thin, and I never said I think certain foods are a punishment. That is yu projecting. I am a person eating loads of veggies, non-stop. That doesn't mean I don't eat pasty. It was a savory burek, btw. Here is a photo for your starved brain! You can't even comprehend that a person eating pasty is thin, that is how messed up you are!

Your aggressive brag about being a thin woman who not only craves but eats everything (savory burek along with sweets and "loads-of-veggies-non-stop”) wasn't enough, you had to add a picture of your pale morning pie to demonstrate how fantastic you are. Again - adding nothing to the subject other than that you are an exception to every rule known to mankind.

These exploding self-admiring reflexes make it difficult for you to understand that there is a huge difference between eating in moderation, having preferences, and starvation.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ice cream is a kid food is such a bad take.

Just say you don’t like ice cream. And maybe visit Italy while you’re at it and look at all the adults walking around eating gelato in cones.

Watching tourists licking giant ice cream cones with ice cream all over their faces and running down their arms is proof its not kid food? Eh. Ice cream isn't even that great most of the time. And certainly some of the tourist trap gelato places shouldn't exist. Not everyone loves ice cream and those that are lactose intolerant especially. That mean more for you, so don't worry about it.

Thanks but I’m not worried! Its just a weirdly immaculate take.

Have you ever been to Italy? It’s not just tourists eating it. But I do wonder if people don’t see that thin people eat ice cream too because they get a pass. But fat people who eat ice cream are judged for it.

I've been to Italy several times. Tried the gelato, it wasn't that memorable, enjoyed the food more. I do remember having to wait on a bus for a family of tourists to catch up running to it all licking and sucking on their giant gelato cones the entire time once they got on after making us wait. It was disgusting. I don't recall what size they were.

DP. You are super weird PP.

- Someone who doesn't love ice cream but understands it is not something only children eat and it is not something that always results in slobbering and messiness hahaha

It's just not something I'm going to eat in public or on public transportation. At least eat it in a cup with a spoon. The only people I see eating ice cream regularly are the very young and the very old. I'm not sure why the elderly love ice cream so much maybe because its soft and easy to eat food, like baby food.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ice cream is a kid food is such a bad take.

Just say you don’t like ice cream. And maybe visit Italy while you’re at it and look at all the adults walking around eating gelato in cones.

Watching tourists licking giant ice cream cones with ice cream all over their faces and running down their arms is proof its not kid food? Eh. Ice cream isn't even that great most of the time. And certainly some of the tourist trap gelato places shouldn't exist. Not everyone loves ice cream and those that are lactose intolerant especially. That mean more for you, so don't worry about it.

Thanks but I’m not worried! Its just a weirdly immaculate take.

Have you ever been to Italy? It’s not just tourists eating it. But I do wonder if people don’t see that thin people eat ice cream too because they get a pass. But fat people who eat ice cream are judged for it.

I've been to Italy several times. Tried the gelato, it wasn't that memorable, enjoyed the food more. I do remember having to wait on a bus for a family of tourists to catch up running to it all licking and sucking on their giant gelato cones the entire time once they got on after making us wait. It was disgusting. I don't recall what size they were.

DP. You are super weird PP.

- Someone who doesn't love ice cream but understands it is not something only children eat and it is not something that always results in slobbering and messiness hahaha

It's just not something I'm going to eat in public or on public transportation. At least eat it in a cup with a spoon. The only people I see eating ice cream regularly are the very young and the very old. I'm not sure why the elderly love ice cream so much maybe because its soft and easy to eat food, like baby food.

Hahahahahahahahahaaha. You are so absurd.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The food judgers are the same people who in the 1950's would have judged you for having sex before marriage, getting an abortion or getting divorced, having an affair. THere are judgemental people in every generation. All that has really changed is what they're judgemental about.

At some point, it became unfashionable to label people as sluts and whores because they had sex before getting married. It was pretty much understood that people are different and they value different things when it comes to issues like premarital sex. People have different value systems. Not everyone is the same.

At some point we stopped judging women (for the most part) for working outside the home. It was pretty much understood that that too is a personal decision.

And even back then, it was pretty much the losers who had nothing else going for them who were really proud of their marital status, or the status of their virginity, etc.

My sister in law is really proud of her tiny little figure. I figure I make twice as much money as her, have a better career and my kids like me more. I guess I could have spent all that time at the gym, but I'm pretty happy with the choices that I have made. THat doesn't make me a loser or a 'glutton', anymore than living with my boyfriend made me a slut. Different strokes for different folks.

Aren’t you judging her too? You have a “better career”, make more money, your kids like you more. You’re judging her for her lack of career advancement, parenting skills, choice to spend time in the gym. You chose differently, but you are also saying you chose better. That’s judgment.

Exactly. Your SIL might put fitness, her health, and her longevity to be alive and well for her children ahead of her career. You put your career first. Does that make you better than her? Why is your choice better? And you have no idea if your kids like your more..frankly just saying that reads poorly for your character.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ice cream is a kid food is such a bad take.

Just say you don’t like ice cream. And maybe visit Italy while you’re at it and look at all the adults walking around eating gelato in cones.

Watching tourists licking giant ice cream cones with ice cream all over their faces and running down their arms is proof its not kid food? Eh. Ice cream isn't even that great most of the time. And certainly some of the tourist trap gelato places shouldn't exist. Not everyone loves ice cream and those that are lactose intolerant especially. That mean more for you, so don't worry about it.

Thanks but I’m not worried! Its just a weirdly immaculate take.

Have you ever been to Italy? It’s not just tourists eating it. But I do wonder if people don’t see that thin people eat ice cream too because they get a pass. But fat people who eat ice cream are judged for it.

I've been to Italy several times. Tried the gelato, it wasn't that memorable, enjoyed the food more. I do remember having to wait on a bus for a family of tourists to catch up running to it all licking and sucking on their giant gelato cones the entire time once they got on after making us wait. It was disgusting. I don't recall what size they were.

DP. You are super weird PP.

- Someone who doesn't love ice cream but understands it is not something only children eat and it is not something that always results in slobbering and messiness hahaha

It's just not something I'm going to eat in public or on public transportation. At least eat it in a cup with a spoon. The only people I see eating ice cream regularly are the very young and the very old. I'm not sure why the elderly love ice cream so much maybe because its soft and easy to eat food, like baby food.

Haha. Actually I think that is true now that I think about it. Elderly love ice cream

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The food judgers are the same people who in the 1950's would have judged you for having sex before marriage, getting an abortion or getting divorced, having an affair. THere are judgemental people in every generation. All that has really changed is what they're judgemental about.

At some point, it became unfashionable to label people as sluts and whores because they had sex before getting married. It was pretty much understood that people are different and they value different things when it comes to issues like premarital sex. People have different value systems. Not everyone is the same.

At some point we stopped judging women (for the most part) for working outside the home. It was pretty much understood that that too is a personal decision.

And even back then, it was pretty much the losers who had nothing else going for them who were really proud of their marital status, or the status of their virginity, etc.

My sister in law is really proud of her tiny little figure. I figure I make twice as much money as her, have a better career and my kids like me more. I guess I could have spent all that time at the gym, but I'm pretty happy with the choices that I have made. THat doesn't make me a loser or a 'glutton', anymore than living with my boyfriend made me a slut. Different strokes for different folks.

I said this upthread. The ladies who are a bit heavier tend to be more accomplished in other areas. They seem more giving. I say this as someone who has remained in the 5'5, 115-120 lb-range most of my life.

This is just inane at this point. Is this OP again? You start out getting mad that anyone places a moral value on being thin, something many of us have agree with you on even as you yell at us. Now you're saying that thin women are less accomplished and less giving? So you're saying, that people who are not thin are morally superior!

I know OP has said several times that she is thin, but this entire thread is coming off as someone who is not as thin as they'd like acting out against specific thin people in her life that she feels act superior. The whole thing has projection written all over it. It's not a good faith argument about how society treats people at different weights (which is actually a conversation I'd be interested in having).

It is not op upthread. Why is it hard for you to imagine that people other than me are posting here?

[Anonymous]

Right now, on dcum, we have PPS judging op of a thread in Family Relationships where her sister tried to stage an intervention bcs on vacation she got her kids BK and allowed them Ipads. The judging of food and weight issues is so prevalent and so terrible that the op of that thread tried to hide from her sister that her kids ate some fast food.
Yet, plenty of dcum PPS are calling her a terrible mom, bcs she should be packing a sandwich to run a couple of errands while on vacation with her kids!
That is how deep this runs. It is never-ending.

[Anonymous]

OP here. Just for those that think I am posting like a not "thin" person... LOL, I was away for hours and back only now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Just for those that think I am posting like a not "thin" person... LOL, I was away for hours and back only now.

Oh so tricky