| I am Jean Valjean. |
I, too, can type a ranked list of schools into chatGPT and have it evaluate the order with a leading question of whether or not this prestige ranking is still current, and get a biased response based on my leading question. |
| If someone can find a school outside of that top seven (the TTs) with better exmissions and broad appeal, let us know. They are TTs for reasons other than rich grandmothers in their 80s thinking they are prestigious. Schools outside of that seven either lack the selectivity and academic rigor or are very niche (e.g. in Brooklyn). Critics of the tiers here underestimate how much money, time, and leadership is required to make a big shift. |
I was surprised to so I just did some digging and put it on the instagram thread. they have very big numbers to schools like ND and Georgetown and I wouldn't be surprised if some boys are picking ND over other acceptances they may have from say Cornell or JHU. |
Going from Catholic HS to Catholic college defeats the purpose of college. Broaden your horizons and get out of the echo chamber. If I were Catholic and my son got into Regis I would send him in a heartbeat. But then he would not go to Catholic college. |
In Catholic schools, when kids are from Catholic families, they are absolutely picking Georgetown and ND and BC over what people on this board would consider "better" colleges, even HYP. My all-girls high school had co-valedictorians, so exactly the same GPA, and actually very similar ECs, and one went to Dartmouth and one went to Georgetown (and I know for a fact she got into Princeton). Her dad had gone to Georgetown, and she grew up idolizing it. The same will happen for ND, Holy Cross, BC, etc. In my family it's Fordham. I'm literally the only one of a dozen cousins who didn't go there, even though they all got into "better" schools. More kids, of a higher caliber, with and without legacies, from Regis and Xavier, will be competing for spots at Villanova than probably Williams, Amherst and Middlebury combined. It's cultural and if you don't grow up in it, you will not understand it. |
OTOH, we tell our kids to pick based on "fit". Then we say, "go to where you'll be uncomfortable sometimes". I'm get it when a NY kid says they dont want to go to Alabama. I get it when an Alabama kid says they have no interest in a SLAC. I don't judge others how they make these choices. |
That's like saying, "I sent my kid to Trinity so I won't send them to Harvard because they overlap and serve the same community." |
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can you give us your thoughts on this? thanks
Anonymous wrote: I am an about to be retired private admissions advisor. I have worked with most of these schools for decades, although to be fair about five of them I’ve never had a client apply to. People can quibble over any given school plus or minus five spots. But ten point jumps aren’t sustainable arguments. thoughts on attending the following schools for 9th grade? Trevor, Unis, cgps, basis. kid is semi smart - specialized high schools are out, will not thrive there. Financially we can afford it due to savings, employer, family. ADHD. |
Many parents care about community. Attending a schools that represents their values. Raw academic prowess at the expense of character (humility, empathetic, thoughtful, etc..) isn’t as desirable. NYC is especially known to have children grow up too fast and get exposed to drugs (party scene). |
GCS, Packer, Friends, all bunched together, including college matriculations. Do downtown Tribeca families send many kids to Brooklyn Heights? Or is most of those schools students split by borough. |
| Downtown families def send their kids to Brooklyn Heights for Packer/st Ann's. |
Which is funny because lots of Brooklyn Heights families send their kids downtown for public school. (Spruce Street e.g.) |
I feel like this piece is missing from the conversations on this forum. People seem to only be concerned with college matriculation and not with values or the kind of school that will turn out kids with integrity. This was top of mind for us when looking at high schools. |
As a Brooklyn heights family, I don't know a single person who did that over PS8. You may be thinking of dumbo families who freaked out when they were re-zoned out of PS8 |