Apartments still have the same issue where people have to shovel out of lots. And, they are noisy and other issues. And, why pay rent if you own, its cheaper to stay put. Why are you that selfish that you cannot help out a neighbor? I don't need to look in the mirror. I taught my teens to be good people and help out our neighbors. |
I don't make mine either. They are good kids who just grab a shovel and help out. I don't get complaining about having other kids shovel if you and your kids will not shovel. You pay someone then...good for you, I guess. |
| Our DC neighborhood sidewalks were all shoveled. Lots of people helped neighbors who need help, and no one, kids or others, asked for money. |
For us, staying in our home is much cheaper as all we have are property taxes and utilities. We DIY most things. You assume everyone is in a million dollar house but most of us aren't, and there are far cheaper areas than where you live, which is where the rest of us live. If we got an apartment, it would be upsizing as most 3 bedroom apartments would be bigger than our house. |
| None of our neighborhood kids will get off their phones long enough to even go outside. Screen addiction is real and it is everywhere. The problem with it, is that is more fun than literally doing anything else. |
My neighbors are not asking for free labor. They are happy to pay my teen to do work that they don’t want to do. I guess your neighbors are different. You may think you have taught your teens to be good people but you sound quite mean yourself to judge others who work for money. |
Snort. Three bedroom apartments aren’t that common in this area, and are more commonly found in luxury buildings. if you ever have seen officially designated senior affordable housing (my teen volunteers at a meals on wheels project in one such building), the apartments are studios and 1 BRs. Nobody is giving out 3BRs in affordable housing for low income elderly. |
I wouldn’t make my kid shovel out an elderly neighbor’s driveway without helping my teen to do it. It’s pure ice out there and adult shovelers are charging hundreds to clear driveways for good reason. Teens willing to do this work deserve the money they get. |
This isn’t a situation where you work for money for elderly and struggling neighbors. |
I know them well and some are bigger than our house. |
| We had a neighborhood text thread going around the from the retired folks asking why "kids today" don't shovel their driveways for free. It contained not-so-subtle digs at the parents on the block with kids. It was nice of them to show their true colors, though. Knowledge is power. |
DP. The people expecting free help for this snow are greedy. Our teenage neighbor offered to help us for free, and we paid him, because it was a lot of work. It took him about 6 hours between the driveway, the side walk and the pathway to the front door. If it were a 1 hour job, we'd accept free help. Asking a teenager to "help" you for 6 hours is being greedy. |
| My two sons, 18 and 14, went out and shoveled a few houses. Made a few hundred bucks. So the tradition is not completely dead! |
+1. My teen broke our best shovel on the ice and passed out each day on our couch at 5 pm from the exhaustion of shoveling days. Our neighbors would never take advantage of him by asking him to work for free. |
No one is asking, the good kids just do it. |