Hell, I'd shovel for $40/hr if I know the people have the money. I already shoveled for our two elderly neighbors and I'd never expect to be paid for it. Your kids can't be bothered even if there is money involved. Why? You've raised them that way. My mom volunteers at the senior center and there are plenty of elderly who don't have enough to pay their bills even though they have a paid off home. Their SS check doesn't stretch as far as it used to. They need help paying their ridiculous electricity bills. One women lives in a one bedroom condo and her bill was over $600 last month. If I didn't supplement my mom's SS check, she'd need help too. Not every Baby Boomer is swimming in cash. You can't pay your bills with a paid off home. |
You absolutely can, but it tracks that someone as ignorant as PP wouldn't know that. |
And what did his girlfriend do? |
Showed her appreciation, obviously. |
| The tweens in our neighborhood were doing it for free because their parents told them to. |
They have good parents. I told mine to refuse money. |
Well, as I said, if your mom doesn't have money to pay her bills, it's your job to supplement and pay for snow removal. It doesn't become some random teen's problem. The teens don't have a SS check or any permanent income, so it's the wrong age group to stiff. So it's not only your mom who is stiffing teens, it's you too! If you want to do snow removal yourself for free, go for it, but don't expect others to do free labor for you! Your family's inability to plan for retirement and manage finances is not somebody else's problem. |
That’s great that you’re rich. But you don’t sound like a good person if you’re judging teens for taking money for backbreaking work adults are charging hundreds of dollars for. |
+1 many elderly people downsize and moved to a home with much less maintenance which is often safer and more efficient for the person. It is not the job of DMV area teens to work for free to keep someone in their million dollar home. |
No its not her job to supplement. Good neighbors help out. You don't sound like a kind person. Maybe you should manage your finances better if you are that wealthy and expect your teens to work every chance they get to pay for their needs. I'd be furoious at my kid for charging our elderly neighbors. They shoveled them out with their dad without us even asking. |
Some of us cannot downsize as we have very small houses that aren't a million dollars. Its about being a good person and good neighbor. |
No, we are far from rich and live in a home you'd never live in. But, we have our values and priorities and helping neighbors when they need help is a given, free of charge as one day we will be those neighbors needing the help. |
heeheehee…somebody is mad…and racist…and ignorant….hmmm and what else? And probably in a lot of pain from all that ice you had to tackle. Read a couple books and call me in the morning! 😝 |
| I never make my kids shovel. |
Of course people could always downsize to an apartment. A single family home with land that requires shoveling in an expensive area like DC is far more expensive than much of the affordable apartment housing designated for seniors But you should look in the mirror at what you see before saying that parents who have kids who shovel for money have parents who are not good people and not good neighbors. Unless your neighbor’s home is visibly crumbling and the person looks impoverished (in which case they would need help far beyond shoveling), it seems bizarre to make the assumption that the elderly aren’t willing to pay for very difficult labor of shoveling on these frigid days. |