SAHDs are not lepers

[Anonymous]

I hope the SAHD who started this thread keeps taking photographs of his kids and tells the discriminating women who aren’t told to stop taking pictures at swim meets to tell those people who question him or ask them to stop to to pound sand and continue.

He never said he was told to stop photographing other people’s children but you have obfuscated from the original post, you can’t continue to justify anything you say. Neither can I.

[Anonymous]

Asking a man to stop photographing his own child may be legal but there is nothing right about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Asking a man to stop photographing his own child may be legal but there is nothing right about it.

If he doesn’t care about how other people feel in public— which he makes clear he does not— it’s hard to be sympathetic that his feelings get hurt.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asking a man to stop photographing his own child may be legal but there is nothing right about it.

If he doesn’t care about how other people feel in public— which he makes clear he does not— it’s hard to be sympathetic that his feelings get hurt.

It is terribly hard to be sympathetic to anyone who jumps to SA based on a man taking photos.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asking a man to stop photographing his own child may be legal but there is nothing right about it.

If he doesn’t care about how other people feel in public— which he makes clear he does not— it’s hard to be sympathetic that his feelings get hurt.

It is terribly hard to be sympathetic to anyone who jumps to SA based on a man taking photos.

So people should care about hurting his feelings and making him feel sad, but he doesn’t have to care about anyone else. Tell me more about this fascinating double standard that benefits men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Once again a poster uses an out of context irrelevant “law” to try to make her point the OP was wrong. Just typical!

And yet thousands of minors are being photographed by moms and dads this week at school holiday parties and pageants!

You’re very fixated on the idea that the OP isn’t doing anything illegal.

Neither are the parents who won’t sit with him, neither are the people asking him to stop photographing swim meets (asking him to stop is covered by the first amendment).

So why is OP a victim again?

OP is a victim because WOMEN are not asked to stop photographing his own child at a swim meet.

But it’s not illegal to ask him. So, since it’s not illegal, it’s fine right?

Discrimination is illegal.

Being asked not to take photos in a private swim club isn’t discrimination though, and the right to ask someone not to is protected by free speech.

So since no laws are broken, OP has no reason to be at all upset or feel victimized. Guess we solved your problem after all!

Have you ever gone to a swim meet at a public swimming venue? What an inability to understand to try to make your point.

Try telling a BiPOC they can’t go to a private swim club. Free speeCh and all. Let me know how that works for you.

Nothing you are going to say is going to justify a man being told he cannot photograph his daughter when a woman isn’t told that same thing.

But I don’t need to justify it, and it’s irrelevant if it’s in a public venue because the act of asking (which is all anyone ever did) is not illegal and is protected by the same first amendment rights that allow him to take photographs with his telephoto lens of other people’s children in a public park without consideration for how they feel about it.

The person asking him to stop doesn’t have to have any more consideration for how HE feels, because their right to ask is protected. Happy to report that since there are no crimes, we have no victims.

You are truly a man’s hating wench.

The OP never got into the legality of any of it. So your comment is also invalid. Stop justifying discrimination against stay at home dads. Got it? Good.

Stop being a creep.

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Anonymous wrote:Once again a poster uses an out of context irrelevant “law” to try to make her point the OP was wrong. Just typical!

And yet thousands of minors are being photographed by moms and dads this week at school holiday parties and pageants!

You’re very fixated on the idea that the OP isn’t doing anything illegal.

Neither are the parents who won’t sit with him, neither are the people asking him to stop photographing swim meets (asking him to stop is covered by the first amendment).

So why is OP a victim again?

OP is a victim because WOMEN are not asked to stop photographing his own child at a swim meet.

But it’s not illegal to ask him. So, since it’s not illegal, it’s fine right?

Discrimination is illegal.

Being asked not to take photos in a private swim club isn’t discrimination though, and the right to ask someone not to is protected by free speech.

So since no laws are broken, OP has no reason to be at all upset or feel victimized. Guess we solved your problem after all!

Have you ever gone to a swim meet at a public swimming venue? What an inability to understand to try to make your point.

Try telling a BiPOC they can’t go to a private swim club. Free speeCh and all. Let me know how that works for you.

Nothing you are going to say is going to justify a man being told he cannot photograph his daughter when a woman isn’t told that same thing.

But I don’t need to justify it, and it’s irrelevant if it’s in a public venue because the act of asking (which is all anyone ever did) is not illegal and is protected by the same first amendment rights that allow him to take photographs with his telephoto lens of other people’s children in a public park without consideration for how they feel about it.

The person asking him to stop doesn’t have to have any more consideration for how HE feels, because their right to ask is protected. Happy to report that since there are no crimes, we have no victims.

You are truly a man’s hating wench.

The OP never got into the legality of any of it. So your comment is also invalid. Stop justifying discrimination against stay at home dads. Got it? Good.

Stop being a creep.

How about everyone stops calling names and threatening each other and try some empathy for a change? All of you are being childish. It’s obviously not a male or female thing it’s apparent humans have become total dicks to one another these days.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:21 pages. I’ve already said my piece (OP is a creep or creep advocate), so won’t rehash. But I think it’s clear this could all be avoided if OP would just get a job and stop leeching off his wife.

“I’ve already said my piece. *drops a whole new line of insulting BS that insults men and women both*

You’re a real piece of work huh? Good thing you don’t speak for all women.

Wouldn’t it be said her peace. She is a real PIECE of work!

No, it wouldn’t. If you’re going to correct people on pedantic grammar points, at least be correct.

And it wasn’t a “whole new line of insulting BS”. It was a quick summary of what 75% of this thread is saying. OP is a creep MRA incel and just generally annoying on top of it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asking a man to stop photographing his own child may be legal but there is nothing right about it.

If he doesn’t care about how other people feel in public— which he makes clear he does not— it’s hard to be sympathetic that his feelings get hurt.

Mmkay, sexist. As long as they’re telling all the SAHMs the exact same thing, every time.

[Anonymous]

Try explaining what a mra creep incel even is or are you just making up words and don’t have a dog in this hunt.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asking a man to stop photographing his own child may be legal but there is nothing right about it.

If he doesn’t care about how other people feel in public— which he makes clear he does not— it’s hard to be sympathetic that his feelings get hurt.

Mmkay, sexist. As long as they’re telling all the SAHMs the exact same thing, every time.

Or what OP will come post another whiny missive about how he’s a victim?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asking a man to stop photographing his own child may be legal but there is nothing right about it.

If he doesn’t care about how other people feel in public— which he makes clear he does not— it’s hard to be sympathetic that his feelings get hurt.

Mmkay, sexist. As long as they’re telling all the SAHMs the exact same thing, every time.

Or what OP will come post another whiny missive about how he’s a victim?

So you can post another whiny missive how you are an alleged SA victim because some person took photos of your kid playing soccer at a public park.

Oh tear.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asking a man to stop photographing his own child may be legal but there is nothing right about it.

If he doesn’t care about how other people feel in public— which he makes clear he does not— it’s hard to be sympathetic that his feelings get hurt.

Mmkay, sexist. As long as they’re telling all the SAHMs the exact same thing, every time.

Or what OP will come post another whiny missive about how he’s a victim?

So you can post another whiny missive how you are an alleged SA victim because some person took photos of your kid playing soccer at a public park.

Oh tear.

Except no one has said that but you…over and over…

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asking a man to stop photographing his own child may be legal but there is nothing right about it.

If he doesn’t care about how other people feel in public— which he makes clear he does not— it’s hard to be sympathetic that his feelings get hurt.

Mmkay, sexist. As long as they’re telling all the SAHMs the exact same thing, every time.

Or what OP will come post another whiny missive about how he’s a victim?

So you can post another whiny missive how you are an alleged SA victim because some person took photos of your kid playing soccer at a public park.

Oh tear.

No one has said this but you…over and over ad Infinitum.

[Anonymous]

Why can’t people just be nice. Someone comes on here and posts a legitimate gripe. Others followed up they had experienced the same type of situations. Why does everyone have to be so mean and try to puff themselves up by degrading others. No one likes it when done to them, yet so many try to appear superior by knocking someone down who is already hurting.